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By *hief_Of_Always OP   Man
22 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Does the fact that men are so easy to fuck make the whole thing less appealing?

Do you find yourself sometimes wanting a challenge?

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By *ickedwillyCouple
22 weeks ago

Bangor

Yes very much so the seduction is all part of the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

On here yes ....I prefer to hear from guys who treat it more like a kinky dating site ... So some lead up play , humour , flirtation .....I get so so many from guys ...straight in with how great they are , never leave anyone unsatisfied , give world class oral ....it's really really boring ....when a guy is about the compliments and flirts , I then start checking his pics and letting my mind wonder ....but yeah the instant sex no chat is a no ....but that's just me , others might love that .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
22 weeks ago

East Sussex

No I don't want a challenge when it comes to sex.

Are men easy to fuck? I always assumed that you established that you found each other attractive and the rest followed.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No, I don't want something that is hard work. I'm here to have fun

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
22 weeks ago

East Sussex

If it's hard work one of both are playing games.

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
22 weeks ago

London

I find that meeting first to see if there's some chemistry between you makes it much more satisfying.

Hooking up for sex can be amazing, but sometimes it doesn't work out.

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
22 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


"Does the fact that men are so easy to fuck make the whole thing less appealing?

Do you find yourself sometimes wanting a challenge?"

It's not "easiness" that makes it less appealing. It's arrogance*, selfishness*, laziness*, and misogyny* that makes them less appealing. Oh and the occasional splash of desperation

(*all things I unfortunately encounter plenty of here and at clubs)

And no, I don't want sex to be a challenge. I don't want to convince someone, I only want to have sex with people who are also in to me. I want fun, excitement, engagement, etc etc.

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By *eroLondonMan
22 weeks ago

Covent Garden


"Does the fact that men are so easy to fuck make the whole thing less appealing?"

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Not All Men.

Some gentleman prefer substance.

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By *eliWoman
22 weeks ago

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Men aren't so easy to fuck. Not the ones I'm attracted to. That's not to say that they're hard work or it's a challenge but they're more than a walking dildo.

I love a good mental joust but I don't want game play. It's possible to find that.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

I don't just want to add notches to the bed post, I like to feel some sort of a connection and have some conversations first

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By *uchessdoeWoman
22 weeks ago

Northampton


"Does the fact that men are so easy to fuck make the whole thing less appealing?

Do you find yourself sometimes wanting a challenge?

It's not "easiness" that makes it less appealing. It's arrogance*, selfishness*, laziness*, and misogyny* that makes them less appealing. Oh and the occasional splash of desperation

(*all things I unfortunately encounter plenty of here and at clubs)

And no, I don't want sex to be a challenge. I don't want to convince someone, I only want to have sex with people who are also in to me. I want fun, excitement, engagement, etc etc. "

I'm also not into convincing people to fuck me - I need enthusiasm!

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
22 weeks ago

London

No, either I'm into them or not. How "easy" they are doesn't come into it for me

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
22 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I don't do challengers I like it to be a two way thing

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By *bitofaslutWoman
22 weeks ago

Cannock

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By *bitofaslutWoman
22 weeks ago

Cannock


"Does the fact that men are so easy to fuck make the whole thing less appealing?

Do you find yourself sometimes wanting a challenge?"

Not a challenge, a woman!

I mean it's nice to suck and fuck men but I need the touch of another woman, too.

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By *hief_Of_Always OP   Man
22 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

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By *hief_Of_Always OP   Man
22 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…


"Does the fact that men are so easy to fuck make the whole thing less appealing?

Do you find yourself sometimes wanting a challenge?

It's not "easiness" that makes it less appealing. It's arrogance*, selfishness*, laziness*, and misogyny* that makes them less appealing. Oh and the occasional splash of desperation

(*all things I unfortunately encounter plenty of here and at clubs)

And no, I don't want sex to be a challenge. I don't want to convince someone, I only want to have sex with people who are also in to me. I want fun, excitement, engagement, etc etc. "

Aaand that the difference between men & women. As a woman you’ve nevaaar had to charm yourself into someone’s bed. You’ve nevaaar met someone who completely sexually indifferent to you & won them over.

Men have to do that all the time.

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By *ananabrumMan
22 weeks ago

castle bromwich

Men are an infinately easier get in bed. There is virtually no work involved, gay/bi hookuo culture massively endorses cauaual sex between men.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Chichester

Depends. Sometimes you just want a quick no brains fuck with out the ballache of faffing about weeks on end getting to know someone

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
22 weeks ago

Wolverhampton


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Aaand that the difference between men & women. As a woman you’ve nevaaar had to charm yourself into someone’s bed. You’ve nevaaar met someone who completely sexually indifferent to you & won them over.

Men have to do that all the time."

Perhaps that IS the difference between (some) men and (some) women, but not in the way you think. I've met plenty of men who are "completely sexually indifferent" to me. I have never, ever, i repeat never, then subsequently tried to "win them over". That's completely gross to me, and there's nothing appealing about having sex with someone that isn't in to me of their own accord.

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By *bitofaslutWoman
22 weeks ago

Cannock


"

Aaand that the difference between men & women. As a woman you’ve nevaaar had to charm yourself into someone’s bed. You’ve nevaaar met someone who completely sexually indifferent to you & won them over.

Men have to do that all the time.

Perhaps that IS the difference between (some) men and (some) women, but not in the way you think. I've met plenty of men who are "completely sexually indifferent" to me. I have never, ever, i repeat never, then subsequently tried to "win them over". That's completely gross to me, and there's nothing appealing about having sex with someone that isn't in to me of their own accord. "

Agree completely. It's a bit too close to begging and I hope I never get to that point.

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By *bi HaiveMan
22 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Does the fact that men are so easy to fuck make the whole thing less appealing?

Do you find yourself sometimes wanting a challenge?"

Do you think (some) straight men are any less easy to fuck? Or do you assume it's just gay/bi men given your thread title?

Personally I've never been easy to fuck. I'm pretty hard work to be honest and quite fussy.

Sorry, but this kind of comes across as one of those 'I'm not like those men' threads to me. 🤷‍♂️

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By *nexpectedExplorerMan
22 weeks ago

SA3


"On here yes ....I prefer to hear from guys who treat it more like a kinky dating site ... So some lead up play , humour , flirtation .....I get so so many from guys ...straight in with how great they are , never leave anyone unsatisfied , give world class oral ....it's really really boring ....when a guy is about the compliments and flirts , I then start checking his pics and letting my mind wonder ....but yeah the instant sex no chat is a no ....but that's just me , others might love that ."

So the endless ‘free now’ or ‘wot u in2’ don’t do it for you either I take it? 😂

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By *urry BlokeMan
22 weeks ago

It makes one feel so special to have blokes you knocking you back as well as women

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By *ansoffateMan
22 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I don't think I am easy to fuck.

You have to get to know me. Let me get to know you.

If it's just attention your after, sure I'll tell you are physically attractive, if I think you are. It doesn't mean I will have sex with you though.

Women who think of men in one-dimensional ways and try to put me in that box tend to bore any attraction out of me.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

I don’t think I’m easy to fuck. Neither would I want to be.

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By *hief_Of_Always OP   Man
22 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

😝 I keep seeing men in this thread say…

“…well, I’m not easy to fuck…” etc etc

HYPOTHETICAL…

Could a male pornstar put out an online request for 1000 civilian women to show up & shag him?

Have them queuing outside his bedroom, waiting for their turn?

No & no!

CONCLUSION…

Men are easy to fuck! ☺️

You literally just have to ask

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