FabSwingers.com forum: When was the last time you had an argument?

By *ools and the brain OP Couple
22 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Not a fight not interested in violence thanks.

But when did you have a good old shouting your head off fkin argument?

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By *obilebottomMan
22 weeks ago

All over

I don't do them even if someone else is doing that. I always stay calm which I have been told in the past can be irritating to some. I just don't like shouting, swearing, screaming at one another or anything like that at all. It's just not me

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Leeds/London

If one has to shout the argument is already lost.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
22 weeks ago

Durham

We have teenagers so take your pick!

We do try not to argue though as it doesn't get anyone anywhere and just causes upset, but it's so difficult when they just don't want to listen or take on board anything you have to say.

Parenting...the hardest job in the world.

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By *ronmant16Man
22 weeks ago

Sheffield

"We have teenagers so take your pick!

We do try not to argue though as it doesn't get anyone anywhere and just causes upset, but it's so difficult when they just don't want to listen or take on board anything you have to say.

Parenting...the hardest job in the world."

I'll second exactly all of the above!!!!!

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
22 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

It’s been a while, probably about 8months ago with my ex about the kids.

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By *ools and the brain OP Couple
22 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"Not a fight not interested in violence thanks.

But when did you have a good old shouting your head off fkin argument?"

To answer my own question, I genuinely can't remember the last time I really had to raise my voice.

I ask because our neighbours are at it constantly I can't understand why or how people can be so angry all the time?

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By *urry BlokeMan
22 weeks ago

I was shouted at by my neighbour last Friday

I don't argue back

He wants a reaction

I take great pleasure in not giving him anything approaching one

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Not for a long time.

-Probably back when I was a teenager & escalating some disagreement I had with my mum which ended up with me accusing her of inflicting her own insecurities onto me..

-You know, that kind of shit.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
22 weeks ago

East Sussex

A couple of weeks ago with my dad. Quite often the only way to get through to him is by having an argument. I once had to get very, very insistent that he took antibiotics prescribed for an infection and that involved a lot of shouting on both sides.

He took them in the end

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By *rettCoolMan
22 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Argument what do u mean .. u calling me a daffty .. I will be round at your door anymore of this !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

I can't even remember. Well over a decade ago, as that's how my ex husband dealt with issues. I always hated it.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Couple Christmases ago with some family members. Then the fiance and I went home and conceived our daughter

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By *estructionDollyWoman
22 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

I couldn't even tell you its extremely rare I would ever get into a shouting/screaming argument

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
22 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Probably around the time I was telling Lycan to fuck off last year.

I don't particularly remember getting shouty at any point, but it's definitely a period with a lot more emotional arguments than I usually deal with.

It's rare I raise my voice. I'll usually walk away and calm down for a bit so I can discuss things rationally later rather than let myself get overwhelmed and come off as aggressive 💜

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By *inkShyWoman
22 weeks ago

near Windsor

10th Feb 😁

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

"Not for a long time.

-Probably back when I was a teenager & escalating some disagreement I had with my mum which ended up with me accusing her of inflicting her own insecurities onto me..

-You know, that kind of shit.

I take on board the parents perspective mentioned by others in thread though..

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By *sWyldWoman
22 weeks ago

Edinburgh

December with my eldest..sometimes I just crack

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By *elloWoman
22 weeks ago

alpha centauri

I don't argue I just loudly tell people why they're wrong and I'm right.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
22 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I have no idea it's that long ago but it must of been with my son as he's the only person that can wind me up

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By *atte Lover 82Man
22 weeks ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED

Can't remember. It's something I try my best to avoid if it can be.

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By *avexxMan
22 weeks ago

cheshire

with myself this morning

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By *heel markMan
22 weeks ago

beside the sea

About 6months ago . I dared to park my car outside a neighbours house and he left a note on my windscreen telling me to never park there again. I was fucking fuming at the cheek of it and confronted him he got humiliated in the street in front of other neighbours. I got a round of applause of one neighbour who had also been left a note. The knob had even spray painted his own parking bay outside his house, wasn't there for long after I reported him to the council.

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By *ellinever70Woman
22 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"About 6months ago . I dared to park my car outside a neighbours house and he left a note on my windscreen telling me to never park there again. I was fucking fuming at the cheek of it and confronted him he got humiliated in the street in front of other neighbours. I got a round of applause of one neighbour who had also been left a note. The knob had even spray painted his own parking bay outside his house, wasn't there for long after I reported him to the council. "

Why didn't you park outside your own house?

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By *uri00620Woman
22 weeks ago

Croydon

When I was 15 at my stepmother.

Day after she packed my brother and my bags 🙄

If I'm angry I tend to just go really quiet and feel infernal rage.

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By *pontaneous_coupleCouple
22 weeks ago

Hoddesdon

Not shouting as such but I can’t tolerate my mr buying himself a red bull and not one for me lol

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By *heel markMan
22 weeks ago

beside the sea

Why didn't you park outside your own house?

Because I live in a busy street and someone had parked outside my house, there is no allocated parking for anyone so I parked in the only available space.

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By *pontaneous_coupleCouple
22 weeks ago

Hoddesdon

"When I was 15 at my stepmother.

Day after she packed my brother and my bags 🙄

If I'm angry I tend to just go really quiet and feel infernal rage. "

Step mother’s can be so cruel its heartbreaking, I’m a step mother for 5 years so far and I could never imagine being cruel to a literal child. I am to them what I needed at their age xx

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
22 weeks ago

Reading

Full on shouting match, maybe October of last year with my ex?

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By *he Flat CapsCouple
22 weeks ago

Pontypool

I can't remember, but probably very soon.

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By *uri00620Woman
22 weeks ago

Croydon

"When I was 15 at my stepmother.

Day after she packed my brother and my bags 🙄

If I'm angry I tend to just go really quiet and feel infernal rage.

Step mother’s can be so cruel its heartbreaking, I’m a step mother for 5 years so far and I could never imagine being cruel to a literal child. I am to them what I needed at their age xx"

With the last comment I meant to write internal rage but came out a infernal... i guess that works too!!

Yep, stepmothers can be. Mine was only one for 2 months. I never saw her again after that! No idea of she's still alive even x

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

2 weeks ago 🙄

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By *pontaneous_coupleCouple
22 weeks ago

Hoddesdon

"When I was 15 at my stepmother.

Day after she packed my brother and my bags 🙄

If I'm angry I tend to just go really quiet and feel infernal rage.

Step mother’s can be so cruel its heartbreaking, I’m a step mother for 5 years so far and I could never imagine being cruel to a literal child. I am to them what I needed at their age xx

With the last comment I meant to write internal rage but came out a infernal... i guess that works too!!

Yep, stepmothers can be. Mine was only one for 2 months. I never saw her again after that! No idea of she's still alive even x"

Well I hope you’re doing better 3 and you’re absolutely stunning aswell babe

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Not for a while.

I have a very settled life these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Don't see the point in arguments, it's a waste of breath gets no one anywhere. If one of the couple is astubborn it's going to be a lost battle from the start lol.

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By *issBehavexxxWoman
22 weeks ago

essex

This afternoon unfortunately. I’m still stewing on it too

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By *exyScientistsCouple
22 weeks ago

Castlebar

With myself...yesterday. I won

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By *oubleswing2019Man
22 weeks ago

Colchester

With Mrs DS ? I don't think we've ever really argued. Not in 30+ years. Not the screaming in your face lost all sense of self type arguing, no. Nor sworn at each other either.

Bicker sometimes, sure. Usually along the lines of

Her: "It's warm in here, did you turn up the heating?"

Me : "Yes, I am cold".

Her : "Oh ok."

If someone said to me, "Can you say something or do something to provoke an argument?", my reply would be, "I can't think of anything that would actually do that !"

We are both very chilled folks, I guess.

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