FabSwingers.com forum: Kink or Vanilla

By *gent Coulson OP Man
16 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

They one person's kink is another person's vanilla.

So pervs of FAB, what do you do that you class as kinks and what do you do that you classs as vanilla.

Example tying or cuffing your partner to the bed, kink or vanilla

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By *rsTrellisWoman
16 weeks ago

Cambridge

Kinks are unconventional sexual desires. Fetishes are unconventional sexualised requirements.

Lots of people have some desires at the milder end of kink (gentle restraint, mild name-calling, soft spanking). The more “extreme” the kink, the fewer people are interested.

I hear people say “my kink is oral sex” all the time but I don’t consider that a kink.

Whereas restraining someone using clingfilm and forcing them to piss themself… or making them dress in a white nightie before having period sex… or buying a speculum when you aren’t a gynaecologist… that’s kinky!

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By *adeiteWoman
16 weeks ago

Stafford

Kink is anything that isn't the normal vanilla day to day sex.

Things like anal, pegging, biting, leaving marks or bruises, all kinks.

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By *pinningfasterWoman
16 weeks ago

Birmingham

I call myself spicy vanilla because I'm not into kinks. I don't want to kneel, call someone a title (and mean it), put myself in a latex balloon etc. But I do like some verbal degradation, slapping, spanking (properly, not just a little hand tap) etc

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By *rsTrellisWoman
16 weeks ago

Cambridge

"I call myself spicy vanilla because I'm not into kinks. I don't want to kneel, call someone a title (and mean it), put myself in a latex balloon etc. But I do like some verbal degradation, slapping, spanking (properly, not just a little hand tap) etc"

“Spicy Vanilla” is a great phrase!

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
16 weeks ago

Bedfuck

Good invited to a a pagan get together yeasrs ago, no sacrifices or blood drinking,

There was alot of home brew and I mean a lot, aswell as herbal remedies that got lit which wasn't my thing being a non smoker. Any way the evening got more unihibited as the brew and smoke kicked in and before long nudity was all over the place.

Then out of nowhere a goat was brought in and things went a wild direction.

Now if you are into paganism that sort of thing is quite normal, some pagans don't entertain it and if your not it's kinky at the most extreme.

Something to do with Pan the pagan rep of sex n love and such like.

Me I don't mind a bit of dressing up a bit wild but for me it wasn't turning my horns on. The goat seemed quite happy don't know if it was the smoke having an effect.

Water sports I find both kinky and vanilla depends on the situation and mood.

Food sex used to be kinky now it's almost vanilla.

Women pegging me is horny n kinky, this I like.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
16 weeks ago

Bedfuck

Guys cumming on my feet, giving foot jobs, kinky to some, normal and vanilla to me.

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By *iddle ManMan
16 weeks ago

Walsall

I enjoy vanilla sex as much as anyone, but with a world of possibilities I live to experience different things. Some I don't like others are amazing.

Everyone is different

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By *pa and dCouple
16 weeks ago

Barnet

I don't care for labels, except of course that they have some use in finding like-minded souls, if what you do turns you on, is done consensually my and is broadly legal then life's too short not to go for it

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By *viatrixWoman
16 weeks ago

Redhill

I really enjoy spanking… I think that is as cinnamon as I get. 😌

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

That’s my stand too

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