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What in an opening message gets your immediate attention

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By *ag1337 OP   Man
16 weeks ago

liverpool

Tell me what someone could put in an opening message that immediately grabs your attention

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By *eroLondonMan
16 weeks ago

Mayfair

It's not the exact words that get my attention but the clean and articulate way they have introduced themselves, perhaps paying a compliment - which is often the case in my experience (women tend to be quite adept at this) - or perhaps referencing something from my profile which piques their interest or leaves them further mystified.

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By *uchessdoeWoman
16 weeks ago

Northampton

Using my name is a nice touch, as in "Hi Doe" instead of just launching into porn or a generic message they've copied and pasted to most of Fab

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
16 weeks ago

East Sussex

'Hello' will do it. We really don't expect or want anything more. What follows after is more important and we have found that some opening messages while interesting and eye catching are not indicative of what's to come.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
16 weeks ago

Manchester

When they've clearly read my profile and tailor the message, use correct spelling and grammar, humorous and flirtatious, talk to me like a human being and not a piece of meat.

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By *obilebottomMan
16 weeks ago

All over

Free now?

Just joking

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
16 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

I’d be happy to just get a message…

that’s not an invitation, fellas

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By *aveyougotmymarblesMan
16 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

Just that it's from a woman is enough

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By *eyond PurityCouple
16 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We much prefer someone to be as if they’ve just met you in a pub and how you’d talk to someone then!

Anything graphic or hi or text speak wouldn’t be welcomed.

If your profile is appealing and it got our interest then we’d be replying.

K

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
16 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Tell me what someone could put in an opening message that immediately grabs your attention "

Nothing.

A decent profile will do that. The message content is by and large secondary.

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By *2000ManMan
16 weeks ago

Worthing

More than a single word like "hello" or "hi" or an emoji of a waving hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Getting my name right is a good start. I had

‘Hi GymSchoolDropout’ ……. recently

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
16 weeks ago

kent

The length of it. If anyone has made the effort to write a couple of paragraphs, or more… well that’s rare.

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By *upanovaMan
16 weeks ago

Sheffield


"We much prefer someone to be as if they’ve just met you in a pub and how you’d talk to someone then!

Anything graphic or hi or text speak wouldn’t be welcomed.

If your profile is appealing and it got our interest then we’d be replying.

K"

I agree, seems to work for me most of the time.

Hi, do you wanna fuck right now really doesn't work, but it might have for some! 😂

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