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By *UST69_ABC OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Leeds

Hey fab people.

In the subject of straight guys enjoying head from other guys... I often hear from straight men on here that any man who enjoys it must be gay. What do the straight men and women here really think? Is it just a point of view? Are 'straight' men who enjoy a gay GH really bi or gay themselves? Do women find it a turn off if a fit man likes to get head from a man or woman equally?

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By *CBoyTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Sheffield

Gay people fancy the same sex romantically. What you're describing is bi or bi curious if its first time. You'll find many married guys on here are bi and don't fancy men but find it enjoyable to get their cock sucked and don't mind ofbuts a guy sucking it. Often they want to try it themselves. I guess law or average is thst sone will enjoy it and want to suck more cocks and sone won't bother again. Again if you've not tried it don't knock it. It's very much a truism that older married ladies go off sex and then the hubby finds its easier to have sex meets just for sex with other guys than women.

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By *CBoyTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Sheffield

I would say to any Straight guy wanting to either try cock sucking or getting suckded by a guy to just pluck up horsed and go to a gay sauna. They will have glory hole cubicles where you can be anonymous. You can just put your cock through the hole and wait to get sucked off or get on your knees and try suckjng cock yourself. Nothing to loose apart from a few quid and a bit of your spare time.

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By *erfHerder74Man
22 weeks ago

Inverclyde

Worrying about labels can mess with our heads. If you have a feeling ask them or say to them . I missed a lot of sex opportunities because they were worried incase it made them gay instead of happy.

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By *UST69_ABC OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Leeds

Interesting points...sound like if we are using labels then truly 'straight' men would not seek a homo suck...any ladies out there? Does it make the man less 'macho' from a woman's perspective?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Central

People can have their sexual engagement with people who they don't fancy sexually, for many reasons, including not finding the whole gender attractive. It's not exclusive to swinging, as sex professionals, including porn actors, do this every day.

Drop the fixation on people needing to label what can be highly complex human psychology and personality, when it may just be simple and someone getting sexual release

Situational organ satisfaction.

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By *oiluvfunMan
22 weeks ago

Penrith

A man who allows other men to suck his cock is either;

Bi-curious;

Bisexual;

Gay;

Too lazy to wank;

Or just too desperate to wait to find a woman.

I've not cum from a bj since 2017. I receive offers from men to suck my cock daily, but I'm happy to wait for a woman, because I'm straight

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By *UST69_ABC OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Leeds

...thanks for sharing. So would you say categorically that you would never do it? And if not is it because you find the idea the opposite of a turn on OR simply because you are not that much into blowjobs?

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By *UST69_ABC OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Leeds

...interesting. I agree however it seems that many straight men here would not! Perhaps a lable can sometimes be exactely what it says on the tin. Straight = wound NEVER consider engaging into sexual acts with the same sex..

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By *alm_one4Man
22 weeks ago

RM16

I like a BJ, don’t mind who it comes from, although it tends to be more Guys as that’s just easier to arrange. If I like the look of a cock then I’m more than happy to get involved as well. I consider myself as Bi, although I’m not really interested in much more than a BJ generally.

I’m definitely interested in Women however, and if I was successful in that respect on here I’d probably do without Guys.

As for labels, I get the ‘Anti’s’ although they do come in handy, just see all the couples profiles that say ‘no Bi-Guys’.

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By *ady_LindaTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Bedfordshire

I receive quite a few messages from men who describe themselves as straight.

Most are married and have not had a BJ from their wives for a long time.

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By *ansoffateMan
22 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

There's a part of me, the logical part, that thinks if it's just the physical sensation that a person desires then what does it matter?

As someone who is demisexual I find that pretty impossible to relate to. I couldn't enjoy that with a woman if there was no emotional connection, I've tried it's almost like an OOBE for me. The closest parallel I can draw, is a sex-worker who recounted how she starts doing her accounting in her head and forgets, she is supposed to make satisfied moans at appropriate moments to avoid having to deal with a client feeling insecure.

I imagine it would be like that with a man, but with substantially less aesthetically appealling qualities. Well I don't need to imagine that - I've tried it and it was.

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By *ittle MonkeysCouple
22 weeks ago

Kimberley

Personally I believe a gay to mean that you are romantically attracted to the same sex only.

Bi is that you are romantically attracted to anyone.

Partaking in a sexual act without romantic attraction is just sex and doesn’t determine whether you are straight, gay or Bi in my mind. Just means you’re horny.

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By *oiluvfunMan
22 weeks ago

Penrith


"...thanks for sharing. So would you say categorically that you would never do it? And if not is it because you find the idea the opposite of a turn on OR simply because you are not that much into blowjobs?"

Would I never let a guy suck me off? It's like a daily struggle for me, because guys offer "it's just a blowjob mate, a nice warm mouth around your cock, just lie back and enjoy, nothing wanted in return, totally discreet" etc etc.....and I have this morbid fear of having to admit men suck cock better than women

The fact that so many men are sucking cock, whether openly gay/bi or discreetly, puts me off more than the actual act? The potential for sti's I mean....

I can honestly say, that I have only had 3 bj's ever. That's soft, to erection, to ejaculation, the 'complete' bj. I do enjoy having my cock sucked, but women just don't want to 'go all the way', so I can't say I'm not in to blowjobs, it's just that I haven't really experienced enough?

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By *oubleswing2019Man
22 weeks ago

Colchester


"Personally I believe a gay to mean that you are romantically attracted to the same sex only.

Bi is that you are romantically attracted to anyone.

Partaking in a sexual act without romantic attraction is just sex and doesn’t determine whether you are straight, gay or Bi in my mind. Just means you’re horny.

"

I must admit, I do find this view very appealing. I'm not big on labels and whilst I do use "Bi" because everyone knows what it means (up to a point), I'd much prefer an option that said

Q: "Sexuality ?"

A: "Yes"

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