FabSwingers.com forum: Photos of the male half

By *ionandleopard OP Couple
23 weeks ago

Norwich

I know this has been brought up before but I thought I'd ask again .

Our profile is pretty much picture of Mrs L , for obvious reasons . I (Mr.L) prefer to be behind the camera but am aware that maybe there should at least be a couple of me .

So probably an obvious question , but what do people like to see of the male half of the profile ?

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

I'm sure people will come along with more specific suggestions but honestly, just a few pictures to show body type are enough. I'm not attracted to men but I find it weird when a couples account doesn't have any pictures of the man, makes me wonder what's wrong 😂

A go-to if your focus is her (which is fair enough) is a body selfie of the two of you.

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By *AYENCouple
23 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

You're clearly a creative, I would say carry on in the same varied and interesting format, just include yourself

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By *viatrixWoman
23 weeks ago

Redhill

"I'm sure people will come along with more specific suggestions but honestly, just a few pictures to show body type are enough. I'm not attracted to men but I find it weird when a couples account doesn't have any pictures of the man, makes me wonder what's wrong 😂

A go-to if your focus is her (which is fair enough) is a body selfie of the two of you."

Yes. Body photo of both of you- preferably one photo of you dressed, one unclothed…

But definitely, if you’re looking to meet women it’s a good idea to include photos of the male half.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
23 weeks ago

Castlebar

We struggled with this foe a long time as Mr hates having photos taken but have managed to get a few now of him and us. Worth having a look at other couples profiles and getting ideas

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By *bi HaiveMan
23 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I know this has been brought up before but I thought I'd ask again .

Our profile is pretty much picture of Mrs L , for obvious reasons . I (Mr.L) prefer to be behind the camera but am aware that maybe there should at least be a couple of me .

So probably an obvious question , but what do people like to see of the male half of the profile ? "

They want to see you OP.

Doesn't have to be naked or a face photo. Just enough to give someone an idea of body shape, height, weight etc.

Clothed, partially clothed or indeed naked is down to you. It's easily possible to take a decent interesting photo as a guy. It's not solely the remit of women. 🤷‍♂️

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Be creative, but not weird with the pics. The sky really is the limit.

At a minimum, one to show your body type, also cock in at least one. A face pic is obviously a bonus.

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By *urFantasy21Couple
23 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

I need to add more of my partner but he isn't as much as exhibitionist as I am so more reluctant. Taking notes on the advice though x

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By *eckard25Man
23 weeks ago

North West Durham

When I look at a couples profile I do like to see a couple of pics of both together (doesn't have to be saucy) and then some of each person so you can see what their body types are. That's maybe 5/6 pics, the rest can be of the female if that's what they want. But that's just my preference.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
23 weeks ago

Lincs

Men can have similar pics to what women have.

Granted we don’t wear lingerie or have boobs but poses can be similar - anything that shows what your body is like and entices your target audience.

A lot of couples profiles have mainly the lady and then cock pics of Mr.

C wants to be enticed by both seeing as it’s likely she’ll be playing with both.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
23 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I’d suggest he tries some things out himself with a timer on the camera. I find I’m more comfortable messing around with pics by myself. Trusty phone cam works for me.

Mrs TMN x

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
23 weeks ago

kent

If you, as the male half of a couple, have any intentions of playing - or even just being present when your partner plays - then I think you would improve your chances of meeting other folks by appearing on your profile. We won’t meet a couple with an invisible man. Not even for a social. Ailsa likes men, as well as women. She likes to have a sense of the man she might be getting naked in front of.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

I’d ask Mrs L what she thinks would look good. You take creative pictures and capture her when you feel she looks sexy so maybe just reverse it and ask her. What do you guys look for in other peoples profiles? Play around with it. I tend to take a million pictures where I look like a troll before I get one I like

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By *estructionDollyWoman
23 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

As a single girl one of my pet hates when I'm looking at a couple profile is no pictures of the male half. I like to see both members when I'm chatting. And not just their cock

pics that show a bit about what they look like in general or their arty/sexy side without showing their full face is fine.

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By *kittexMan
23 weeks ago

Liverpool

"I know this has been brought up before but I thought I'd ask again .

Our profile is pretty much picture of Mrs L , for obvious reasons . I (Mr.L) prefer to be behind the camera but am aware that maybe there should at least be a couple of me .

So probably an obvious question , but what do people like to see of the male half of the profile ? "

- Well is depence really , i would say as a single male when it comes to treesomes and etc with other couple all i want to see is his full body build and how does he look like and i think that's the main thing, but any like d pics and that is optional to me like 👍

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By *ORBCouple
23 weeks ago

Dundalk

The only reasonable excuse I've seen in regard to this is that some couples only want to meet single straight men who would have zero interest in what the male half looks like.

Apart from that it's just the natural thing for us to have pics of both of us.

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By *luebell888Woman
23 weeks ago

Glasgowish

A smile, hairy legs and strong shoulders.

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By *issmorganWoman
23 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Some of the couple together is always good, but anything that gives a general idea of his shape etc. So many couples just have the one pic of the man and it's his cock.

Dressed up, in underwear

A shower pic or in a towel etc.

As half a couple, I don't mind what the pics of the man are, as long as there are some, that aren't just his cock.

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
23 weeks ago

Walton

This is a tough one for us. Erik has been losing weight for the last 2 years as he wasn't happy with himself. He's recently started to take some again (thank you Jebus) but is concerned that adding them will deter people from contacting us so doesn't really bother uploading them. He added one yesterday, got very little response to it so again he's now thinking "why bother?". Not great for his confidence and that's why he doesn't add much anyway. 🤦🏼‍♀️

Answers on a postcard please.

Freyja x

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By *issmorganWoman
23 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"This is a tough one for us. Erik has been losing weight for the last 2 years as he wasn't happy with himself. He's recently started to take some again (thank you Jebus) but is concerned that adding them will deter people from contacting us so doesn't really bother uploading them. He added one yesterday, got very little response to it so again he's now thinking "why bother?". Not great for his confidence and that's why he doesn't add much anyway. 🤦🏼‍♀️

Answers on a postcard please.

Freyja x"

I've fabbed him, he looks great.

In general men's pics don't get as many favs as the ladies, same on out joint profile.

But, us ladies do appreciate them still.

Well done to you both on your weight loss journeys too.

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By *endalshaggersCouple
23 weeks ago

Lake District

Answers on a postcard please.

Freyja x"

Generally pictures of females get many more fabs than males do - I've just gone through the fabs on our public photos and photos of me are liked with loads more fabs than his are (can't be bothered to do the maths!). It's just the way of this site.

Congratulations on the weight loss and hopefully it won't deter him posting more.

C xoxo

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
23 weeks ago

Walton

Thank you both! I'll be sure to pass the message on to him xx

F x

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By *bi HaiveMan
23 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Answers on a postcard please.

Freyja x

Congratulations on the weight loss and hopefully it won't deter him posting more.

C xoxo"

Fabs aren't really a useful measure. Anyone can fab a photo so even for couples looking for women and other couples, there'll be a high % of fabs from single men who they aren't at all interested in.

Men fab photos more than anyone else. Even of other men not looking for men. 🤷‍♂️

But other couples and women are far more likely to engage with other couples when there's photos of both parties. Plus it saves any awkwardness when someone does make contact due to hot photos of her, only to disappear or backtrack when they finally see him.

Clarity is always a better approach. Saves people time when browsing, having to ask to see photos of him because there's none on display and upset when you may be rejected later.

Plus of course....it's a couples profile. Seeing less images of two people than you do on many a single male profile on Fab is both odd and disappointing.

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By *alandNitaCouple
23 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

For me, there should be at least one photo of the man that gives a good indication of build. Fully clothed is fine.

Ideally, I like to see a variety of both partners and some together.

Lack of photos of men in couples is a bug bear of mine.

Nita

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By *eyond PurityCouple
23 weeks ago

Lincs

Answers on a postcard please.

Freyja x"

We post pics of us both and C gets a hell of a lot more attention than me, so that’s why there’s more of C. My pics are there to show I’m real and also for people to see what I look like.

Personally a couples profile with zero pics of Mr or just his cock really don’t work for us. We’ve both got to find the profile appealing and no pics of Mr, doesn’t reflect that.

You both look great and well done for the weight loss 😘

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
23 weeks ago

Walton

I'm sorry to have hijacked this thread, was never the intention lol. Thank you for your responses though (and the kind words).

I'll be sure to pass on what you've said and get him to have a read later.

F x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Central

If you want the assurance of knowing that the woman in the couple is potentially interested in you, then the male half of a couple needs to demonstrate that he can understand her needs. She won't be interested in his enjoyment of taking pics - it reflects his interests and not understanding her.

Use the profile to prove that you - may - get her needs

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By *tagge_fyxeCouple
23 weeks ago

Yorkshire

We only have pictures of me as we’re only looking to meet single men and S doesn’t play with anyone else. We are happy to send pictures of him if people ask though, they’re just not on our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Mr here I hate posing for photos but we do have a couple of me . We will add a few more tho especially photos of us together

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By *inkyandthebrain2023Couple
23 weeks ago

Cheshire

"We struggled with this foe a long time as Mr hates having photos taken but have managed to get a few now of him and us. Worth having a look at other couples profiles and getting ideas "

Just had a look at your pics and can definitely say you lead by example.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
23 weeks ago

Coventry

Firstly, we're another couple who like to see pictures of the male half and likewise show pictures of the male half. A couples profile with only pictures of the female is likely to see us just move on.

As for what pictures of the male I think something that gives an overall full body veiw (clothed or not) is a minimum requirement. One or two photos like that are perfect enough to go off to gauge a level of physical attraction. Do like any photo that gives some sort of insight into their personality. Love a good one of the couple together. A face image or a just of the smile really helps but totally understand people maintaining their privacy. Not opposed to a nude or underwear shot, as its not a game of blind date but this isn't needed. And although not opposed the seeing the a tasteful dick pick for reference, don't need a wall of them.

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