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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see." Why? | |||
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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see." I frequently ask why in various ways. People find it annoying though. | |||
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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see. Why? " Just why would you ask why? When why is the question i told you to ask to the person who said why is the only question? Wait I see what you did there.... Why? | |||
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"I'd like to ask any animal what they think of humans." Do you think the answer would change depending on the animal and where it is in the food chain? | |||
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"Why am I not enough?" You are to the right person. Why? | |||
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"Will you sit on my face" I'm not sure your mate would appreciate that question 👀😆😆 | |||
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"What did I do wrong? And I'm sorry if it hurt you as a result." Youre saying sorry but don't know why? | |||
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"What did I do wrong? And I'm sorry if it hurt you as a result." Who are you asking my little lamb chop? | |||
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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see." Not quite the way , but the 5- whys usually works if people know the answers. Like this: Why does Answering a question with a question tend to lead to answers ? | |||
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"I'd like to ask any animal what they think of humans. Do you think the answer would change depending on the animal and where it is in the food chain? " Absolutely. | |||
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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see. I frequently ask why in various ways. People find it annoying though. " Why? | |||
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"Why am I not enough?" Sometimes we are never enough to others, we can only try to be enough for ourselves 💕 | |||
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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see. I frequently ask why in various ways. People find it annoying though. " 
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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see. Not quite the way , but the 5- whys usually works if people know the answers. Like this: Why does Answering a question with a question tend to lead to answers ? " Why you correcting my incorrectness with correctness still lead to a why though? | |||
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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see. Why? Just why would you ask why? When why is the question i told you to ask to the person who said why is the only question? Wait I see what you did there.... Why?" I mean we could be here all day. Sometimes specific Qs are better followed by a probing 'why is that do you think'?! | |||
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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see. I frequently ask why in various ways. People find it annoying though. Why?" Because often people don't like to be questioned on their opinions or motives. I ask because I'm interested in how they formed their views or what has led them to a particular point in their life and they see it as me challenging them. I also ask why because I genuinely want to find out more about them or a particular subject they're knowledgeable about | |||
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"I used to have loads of questions and why. And they don't seem that important any more. Perhaps my biggest question of the day is what I'm having for lunch "Foood in..... oh wait why? ✋️ | |||
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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see. Why? Just why would you ask why? When why is the question i told you to ask to the person who said why is the only question? Wait I see what you did there.... Why? I mean we could be here all day. Sometimes specific Qs are better followed by a probing 'why is that do you think'?! "Ok so I'll not use why ..... What's for lunch? | |||
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"What did I do to deserve what you did ?? Am I really so awful? Too many questions to ask too many people...😕" If it's a recurring theme, it might be time to stop, look in the mirror and see if there is something you need to tweak ? | |||
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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see. I frequently ask why in various ways. People find it annoying though. Why? Because often people don't like to be questioned on their opinions or motives. I ask because I'm interested in how they formed their views or what has led them to a particular point in their life and they see it as me challenging them. I also ask why because I genuinely want to find out more about them or a particular subject they're knowledgeable about" I just do it to be annoying Madhatter | |||
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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see. I frequently ask why in various ways. People find it annoying though. Why? Because often people don't like to be questioned on their opinions or motives. I ask because I'm interested in how they formed their views or what has led them to a particular point in their life and they see it as me challenging them. I also ask why because I genuinely want to find out more about them or a particular subject they're knowledgeable about I just do it to be annoying Madhatter" Why? | |||
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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see. Not quite the way , but the 5- whys usually works if people know the answers. Like this: Why does Answering a question with a question tend to lead to answers ? " It works well in person, but it's exhausting in messaging | |||
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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see. I frequently ask why in various ways. People find it annoying though.
It reminds me of talking to a 4 year old " .
I gave our son a book in which I'd stuck loads of post-it notes with questions such as 'why?' and 'how do we know this?' for my own reference and to go back to later. One of his friends asked who'd written the notes, when he said it was his mum the friend said
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"I'd like to ask any animal what they think of humans. Do you think the answer would change depending on the animal and where it is in the food chain? Absolutely." Which animal(s) would you choose to ask? | |||
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"She doesn't have to she just has to answer me ha" Ahh sometimes no answer is an answer in itself! | |||
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"What did I do to deserve what you did ?? Am I really so awful? Too many questions to ask too many people...😕 If it's a recurring theme, it might be time to stop, look in the mirror and see if there is something you need to tweak ? " Well since the first question is in relation to something that happened to me as a child then I'd say it's them that needs to look in the mirror...  | |||
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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see. I frequently ask why in various ways. People find it annoying though. Why? Because often people don't like to be questioned on their opinions or motives. I ask because I'm interested in how they formed their views or what has led them to a particular point in their life and they see it as me challenging them. I also ask why because I genuinely want to find out more about them or a particular subject they're knowledgeable about I just do it to be annoying Madhatter Why?" It's a personality trait to be annoying. Used to be the quiet one by now I've become more vocal and annoying. Why you turning my why against me dangit Madhatter | |||
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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see. Not quite the way , but the 5- whys usually works if people know the answers. Like this: Why does Answering a question with a question tend to lead to answers ? It works well in person, but it's exhausting in messaging " It can be fairly exhausting in person too! Getting to the bottom of things often is though rarely goes to 5 though | |||
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"I used to have loads of questions and why. And they don't seem that important any more. Perhaps my biggest question of the day is what I'm having for lunch "The question we ask for an average of 21,000* days during our lifetime
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"Never mind why, I want to know where, when and what with?" Oh gosh me too!! Do you ever pluck up courage to ask?? | |||
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"What’s the question you want to ask most? To whom and why?" I'd ask myself why it's so difficult to make a change, because I can't do this *again* and it sucks. | |||
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"What did I do wrong? And I'm sorry if it hurt you as a result. Youre saying sorry but don't know why?" If it was something that had hurt someone, even if it was unintentional, then yeah, I am 🤷♂️ | |||
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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see. Why? Just why would you ask why? When why is the question i told you to ask to the person who said why is the only question? Wait I see what you did there.... Why? I mean we could be here all day. Sometimes specific Qs are better followed by a probing 'why is that do you think'?!
Ok so I'll not use why .....
What's for lunch?"Hmmm... Good question, not sure yet -what are you thinking of having  | |||
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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see. I frequently ask why in various ways. People find it annoying though.
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"What did I do wrong? And I'm sorry if it hurt you as a result. Who are you asking my little lamb chop? " 😬🙈🥺 | |||
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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see. Why? Just why would you ask why? When why is the question i told you to ask to the person who said why is the only question? Wait I see what you did there.... Why? I mean we could be here all day. Sometimes specific Qs are better followed by a probing 'why is that do you think'?!
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What's for lunch?
Hmmm... Good question, not sure yet -what are you thinking of having "Think alice is making me sausage sarnies 🥰 You? | |||
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"What did I do to deserve what you did ?? Am I really so awful? Too many questions to ask too many people...😕 If it's a recurring theme, it might be time to stop, look in the mirror and see if there is something you need to tweak ? Well since the first question is in relation to something that happened to me as a child then I'd say it's them that needs to look in the mirror... "Oh sorry, context is everything. Did you seek counseling? I know it is very hard to process with no answers, but I hope you get closure | |||
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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see. Not quite the way , but the 5- whys usually works if people know the answers. Like this: Why does Answering a question with a question tend to lead to answers ? It works well in person, but it's exhausting in messaging It can be fairly exhausting in person too! Getting to the bottom of things often is though rarely goes to 5 though"I like the 36 questions test where you build a total connection to the other person. Id love to do this with someone. | |||
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"I used to have loads of questions and why. And they don't seem that important any more. Perhaps my biggest question of the day is what I'm having for lunch
Foood in..... oh wait why? ✋️ "Behave you! | |||
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"What did I do to deserve what you did ?? Am I really so awful? Too many questions to ask too many people...😕 If it's a recurring theme, it might be time to stop, look in the mirror and see if there is something you need to tweak ? Well since the first question is in relation to something that happened to me as a child then I'd say it's them that needs to look in the mirror...
Oh sorry, context is everything. Did you seek counseling? I know it is very hard to process with no answers, but I hope you get closure "It's cool .. I've pretty much boxed it away in my brain, but occasionally it springs open like a jack in the box ... Xx | |||
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"Why am I not enough?" Because I'm a man | |||
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"What’s the question you want to ask most? To whom and why? I'd ask myself why it's so difficult to make a change, because I can't do this *again* and it sucks. " Ohhhh.. you are in a cycle of rinse and repeat. Change is really difficult, it takes effort and we face uncertainty and new challenges. Ask yourself this question "does this make me happy". If yes, keep going. If no, the next question is "do I want to CHOOSE to be happy". If the answer is no "I'm choosing to be unhappy", keep going. If the answer is "yes, I chose to be happy" then you need to make a decision that takes you on the happiness path. Keep testing/ asking. Keep adjusting. Learn to say no - you can justify your actions, by saying out loud - I'm choosing to be happy Happiness is a choice - always remember that. We choose to be happy or we choose to be unhappy. And then every decision we make reflects this decision. There's a great video somewhere of monkeys repeatedly putting their hands through a hole to pick up food. The only way to withdraw their hand is to release the food. Even in danger, they don't release the food and so get trapped. Don't be a monkey -release the food and choose to be free / happy | |||
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"I feel I derailed your thread from the deepness to annoying. Why oh why did I do it whyyyyy?" Only you have the answer ❤️ | |||
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"What did I do wrong? And I'm sorry if it hurt you as a result. Who are you asking my little lamb chop? 😬🙈🥺" 🐑🥩 | |||
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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see. Why? Just why would you ask why? When why is the question i told you to ask to the person who said why is the only question? Wait I see what you did there.... Why? I mean we could be here all day. Sometimes specific Qs are better followed by a probing 'why is that do you think'?!
Ok so I'll not use why .....
What's for lunch?
Hmmm... Good question, not sure yet -what are you thinking of having
Think alice is making me sausage sarnies 🥰
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"What did I do wrong? And I'm sorry if it hurt you as a result. Who are you asking my little lamb chop? 😬🙈🥺 🐑🥩" Ok, ok. Fair point 😅 I didn't realise that I was being insensitive and I am genuinely sorry for that... | |||
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"‘Why?’ Is the question I would ask of one particular person. I suspect the answer would be disappointing, because I doubt this person can conceptualise the lasting damage their actions caused. Also, I would never allow myself to be anywhere near them to ask, so it’s moot. But why? It’s a question that has haunted me for almost eight years now. I suspect it will haunt me for the rest of my life. " So this is rumination.. and ruminating with no resolution is destructive and negative and holds you in this place you find yourself. In the words of Elsa "let it go, let it go". The other person is getting on with life. The only person it is now impacting is you. It's hard to do, but you will breathe deeper. Don't let them have that hold over you for the rest of your life -in effect you are binding yourself to them forever - what power you are giving them. Learn to let it go (said with the deepest of love and care) | |||
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"What did I do to deserve what you did ?? Am I really so awful? Too many questions to ask too many people...😕 If it's a recurring theme, it might be time to stop, look in the mirror and see if there is something you need to tweak ? Well since the first question is in relation to something that happened to me as a child then I'd say it's them that needs to look in the mirror...
Oh sorry, context is everything. Did you seek counseling? I know it is very hard to process with no answers, but I hope you get closure
It's cool .. I've pretty much boxed it away in my brain, but occasionally it springs open like a jack in the box ... Xx"Sending love 💕 | |||
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"What did I do wrong? And I'm sorry if it hurt you as a result. Who are you asking my little lamb chop? 😬🙈🥺 🐑🥩 Ok, ok. Fair point 😅 I didn't realise that I was being insensitive and I am genuinely sorry for that..." Apology accepted 😘 | |||
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"Why am I not enough?" I think you look amazing | |||
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"What did I do to deserve what you did ?? Am I really so awful? Too many questions to ask too many people...😕 If it's a recurring theme, it might be time to stop, look in the mirror and see if there is something you need to tweak ? Well since the first question is in relation to something that happened to me as a child then I'd say it's them that needs to look in the mirror...
Oh sorry, context is everything. Did you seek counseling? I know it is very hard to process with no answers, but I hope you get closure
It's cool .. I've pretty much boxed it away in my brain, but occasionally it springs open like a jack in the box ... Xx
Sending love 💕"Thanks lovely xx | |||
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"What’s the question you want to ask most? To whom and why?" Here's one for anyone and everyone on here.. . Do you think unresolved trauma plays a factor in why people get interested in exploring swinging? | |||
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"What’s the question you want to ask most? To whom and why? Here's one for anyone and everyone on here.. . Do you think unresolved trauma plays a factor in why people get interested in exploring swinging?" 
My father used to belt me over his knee with his warm belt.. is that why I have daddy issues | |||
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"What’s the question you want to ask most? To whom and why? Here's one for anyone and everyone on here.. . Do you think unresolved trauma plays a factor in why people get interested in exploring swinging?" No, I don't although it might for a few. I suspect that people who don't understand or think that swinging is bad will say that unresolved trauma is the reason though because 'normal' people who've led 'ordinary'lives wouldn't do something like that | |||
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"Why am I not enough? You are to the right person. Why?" So true 🥰 | |||
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"What’s the question you want to ask most? To whom and why? Here's one for anyone and everyone on here.. . Do you think unresolved trauma plays a factor in why people get interested in exploring swinging?" Plenty of trauma got at least 2 books worth already. But no I don't unresolved trauma played a part in exploring swinging. Quite the opposite for me at least resolving the trauma did. | |||
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"I used to have loads of questions and why. And they don't seem that important any more. Perhaps my biggest question of the day is what I'm having for lunch
Foood in..... oh wait why? ✋️
Behave you! "Why am I misbehaving???? | |||
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"I used to have loads of questions and why. And they don't seem that important any more. Perhaps my biggest question of the day is what I'm having for lunch
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Behave you!
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"I feel I derailed your thread from the deepness to annoying. Why oh why did I do it whyyyyy? Only you have the answer ❤️" Thought smarties did? | |||
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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see. Why? Just why would you ask why? When why is the question i told you to ask to the person who said why is the only question? Wait I see what you did there.... Why? I mean we could be here all day. Sometimes specific Qs are better followed by a probing 'why is that do you think'?!
Ok so I'll not use why .....
What's for lunch?
Hmmm... Good question, not sure yet -what are you thinking of having
Think alice is making me sausage sarnies 🥰
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I still don't know "And the outcome? Or did you not eat? | |||
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"I used to have loads of questions and why. And they don't seem that important any more. Perhaps my biggest question of the day is what I'm having for lunch
Foood in..... oh wait why? ✋️
Behave you!
Why am I misbehaving????
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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see." Is why? How Patrick mgooan in the prisoner TV show break the computer? And I do not have a clue why I know that or indeed if it has any truth to it. | |||
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"What’s the question you want to ask most? To whom and why? I'd ask myself why it's so difficult to make a change, because I can't do this *again* and it sucks. Ohhhh.. you are in a cycle of rinse and repeat. Change is really difficult, it takes effort and we face uncertainty and new challenges. Ask yourself this question "does this make me happy". If yes, keep going. If no, the next question is "do I want to CHOOSE to be happy". If the answer is no "I'm choosing to be unhappy", keep going. If the answer is "yes, I chose to be happy" then you need to make a decision that takes you on the happiness path. Keep testing/ asking. Keep adjusting. Learn to say no - you can justify your actions, by saying out loud - I'm choosing to be happy Happiness is a choice - always remember that. We choose to be happy or we choose to be unhappy. And then every decision we make reflects this decision. There's a great video somewhere of monkeys repeatedly putting their hands through a hole to pick up food. The only way to withdraw their hand is to release the food. Even in danger, they don't release the food and so get trapped. Don't be a monkey -release the food and choose to be free / happy " You are so WISE, thank you 🖤 | |||
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"Why is the Milka Cow lilac ? "Genuinely stumped | |||
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"I want to ask her to tell me what she likes about me and why she does. I find words of affirmation really good for me. But I don’t want to be needy. " Ask ! Someone who loves you and sees you will not think you are needy. | |||
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"The only question to ever ask anyone is why? Just why? Answering a question with a question gets answers out of anyone else but you so you avoid the question posed to you. Try it and see. Why? Just why would you ask why? When why is the question i told you to ask to the person who said why is the only question? Wait I see what you did there.... Why? I mean we could be here all day. Sometimes specific Qs are better followed by a probing 'why is that do you think'?!
Ok so I'll not use why .....
What's for lunch?
Hmmm... Good question, not sure yet -what are you thinking of having
Think alice is making me sausage sarnies 🥰
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I still don't know
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Or did you not eat?"I had some left over bread with fake brie and a coffee...it was so good | |||
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"Why is life so fucking amazing! " I love this positivity and energy.. long may it continue 😘😘 | |||
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"I want to ask my doctor what is wrong with me "Oh I don't know if this is a joke or serious | |||
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"I want to ask midnight to send me pictures of her face"
Mr Pickles you are one of the few people not only to have had a face pic from me, but to have also met me in real life | |||
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"I'd like to ask Alice to tell me about her life." I think that would be fascinating! | |||
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"Is it bad news " I love you so much - sending love and support. You WILL get through this 🩷🩷🩷 | |||
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"To everyone, "how do you see me?". Fucking terrified of the answer but there's times I desperately want to know." It's a very interesting question to ask of work colleagues and family 😘 | |||
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"What’s the question you want to ask most? To whom and why? I'd ask myself why it's so difficult to make a change, because I can't do this *again* and it sucks. Ohhhh.. you are in a cycle of rinse and repeat. Change is really difficult, it takes effort and we face uncertainty and new challenges. Ask yourself this question "does this make me happy". If yes, keep going. If no, the next question is "do I want to CHOOSE to be happy". If the answer is no "I'm choosing to be unhappy", keep going. If the answer is "yes, I chose to be happy" then you need to make a decision that takes you on the happiness path. Keep testing/ asking. Keep adjusting. Learn to say no - you can justify your actions, by saying out loud - I'm choosing to be happy Happiness is a choice - always remember that. We choose to be happy or we choose to be unhappy. And then every decision we make reflects this decision. There's a great video somewhere of monkeys repeatedly putting their hands through a hole to pick up food. The only way to withdraw their hand is to release the food. Even in danger, they don't release the food and so get trapped. Don't be a monkey -release the food and choose to be free / happy You are so WISE, thank you 🖤" Mwah 😘 Good luck xxx | |||
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"Babe can you please sit on my face" Seems like an odd question for a baby piglet! | |||
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"Is it bad news " Love you ❤️❤️❤️ | |||
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"What in God’s name do you see in me? " I’ll tell you when you the moment is right 😘 | |||
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"Why am I not enough? Sometimes we are never enough to others, we can only try to be enough for ourselves 💕" Thank you for this response ❤️ | |||
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"What in God’s name do you see in me? "
Oooo so many things!! | |||
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"What the actual fuck are you doing with your life?! -to myself. "
Ahhh an expert opinion!! | |||
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"I'd like to ask the lady who walked by my table in a pub, and farted in my face, why? "
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"Why am I not enough? Sometimes we are never enough to others, we can only try to be enough for ourselves 💕 Thank you for this response ❤️" 💕💕 | |||
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"So to the general populace.. who exactly was it that shot the deputy? Fess up now " I shot the sheriff, but I did not shoot the deputy!! | |||
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"What in God’s name do you see in me? " I see pride. I see power. | |||
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"Am I really this tipsy already? "Same | |||
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"Am I really this tipsy already? "Yes, yea you are | |||
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"I want to ask midnight to send me pictures of her face
Mr Pickles you are one of the few people not only to have had a face pic from me, but to have also met me in real life"Kiss me. This must be a dream | |||
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"Am I really this tipsy already?
Yes, yea you are "Fuck, that's disappointing 🤦♀️🤣 | |||
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"Am I really this tipsy already?
Yes, yea you are
Fuck, that's disappointing 🤦♀️🤣"I know, you’ve ruined my opinion of you! No d*unk and disorderly thanks 🤣 | |||
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"Am I really this tipsy already?
Yes, yea you are
Fuck, that's disappointing 🤦♀️🤣
I know, you’ve ruined my opinion of you! No d*unk and disorderly thanks 🤣"
You've seen nothing yet! | |||
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"Am I really this tipsy already?
Yes, yea you are
Fuck, that's disappointing 🤦♀️🤣
I know, you’ve ruined my opinion of you! No d*unk and disorderly thanks 🤣
You've seen nothing yet! "What have I told you about threatening me with a good time 🤔 | |||
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"I want to ask her to tell me what she likes about me and why she does. I find words of affirmation really good for me. But I don’t want to be needy. " Just ask | |||
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