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"Phone number and bank details. Happy to reciprocate "Send me yours first and Iāll send mine back š¤„ | |||
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"What do you need from them to maintain that interest? "More than one line replies when I've chatted their arses off. Put your dick away and just chat. Read my profile. Yeah the bar is that low. | |||
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"Phone number and bank details. Happy to reciprocate
Send me yours first and Iāll send mine back š¤„"On its way but I never knew you liked me. | |||
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"The next meet in the diary. And some chat in between to maintain the connection, both vanilla and not "This š | |||
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"Lots of nudes, wanking vids, cum vids, the usual stuff   "on it. | |||
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"What do you need from them to maintain that interest? "Some kind of ongoing evidence that they're interested and still fancy me. | |||
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"Do you mean like like or like as in I want them to fuck me until we're both sweaty, spent and have aching bodies the next day?" Like like | |||
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"Phone number and bank details. Happy to reciprocate "if they ask for mine then Iām keeping them. | |||
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"What do you need from them to maintain that interest?
More than one line replies when I've chatted their arses off.
Put your dick away and just chat.
Read my profile.
Yeah the bar is that low."No I hear it though. Rubbish replies make me sick | |||
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"On here? Not much, the odd interaction or pic now and then tells me they are still there and thinking about me. Then when the time is right it will happen," Truuuu | |||
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"The next meet in the diary. And some chat in between to maintain the connection, both vanilla and not "I love someone that commits to the next date. Iām starting to think that the reason people donāt commit to the next date is because they didnāt like the first one  | |||
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"Send nudes and make me laugh. That'll do it. "  | |||
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"Ongoing conversation, respect for me as a person." Respect | |||
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"Conversation, let's talk about anything and respect each others views of the world, we might learn something! There has to be an attraction as well. " Consistent convo is good | |||
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"Mutual interest. Excitement to see each other. I don't need daily chat but I do need to feel sure it's mutual. If I start to question that, I'm out . Matched effort and energy is sexy." I hear that | |||
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"What do you need from them to maintain that interest?
Some kind of ongoing evidence that they're interested and still fancy me. "hear that | |||
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"Respect and engagement " Respect | |||
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"Ongoing conversation, respect for me as a person. Respect" What you want, baby I got it, what you need, d'you know I got it? All I'm askin' for... | |||
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"Ongoing conversation, respect for me as a person. Respect What you want, baby I got it, what you need, d'you know I got it? All I'm askin' for..." Is for a little respectš„° | |||
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"What do you need from them to maintain that interest?
More than one line replies when I've chatted their arses off.
Put your dick away and just chat.
Read my profile.
Yeah the bar is that low."interesting i could say the same (except the put your dick away bit i dont get those pics lol ) when chatting to some ladies/couples.. i chat away they say yes, no, maybe,..i give up after a while | |||
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"What do you need from them to maintain that interest?
Some kind of ongoing evidence that they're interested and still fancy me. hear that"You'll hear me soon | |||
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"Oh I couldn't like like someone without knowing them really well. Let's just go with fancying them because it's what most are talking about. What's required to maintain interest? Actual genuine interest in me as a person. Not being a throbber. I don't want daily missives but if I'm putting in all the energy? So bored. Reciprocated desire is my happy place. " Heard chef | |||
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"The next meet in the diary. And some chat in between to maintain the connection, both vanilla and not
I love someone that commits to the next date.
Iām starting to think that the reason people donāt commit to the next date is because they didnāt like the first one "That's exactly what I think! Next date in the diary within 24 hours or GTFO. | |||
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"The next meet in the diary. And some chat in between to maintain the connection, both vanilla and not
I love someone that commits to the next date.
Iām starting to think that the reason people donāt commit to the next date is because they didnāt like the first one "I do like people that have their calendar shit together! Once you both have the headspace and decide you want to meet , then meet & then put one or two future dates diary, even if you donāt know exactly what youāre going to be doing on them. Most people can do this if they want to, regardless of how busy with their lives are. | |||
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"The next meet in the diary. And some chat in between to maintain the connection, both vanilla and not
I love someone that commits to the next date.
Iām starting to think that the reason people donāt commit to the next date is because they didnāt like the first one
That's exactly what I think! Next date in the diary within 24 hours or GTFO."On my poly podcast they were actually saying when youāre with someone is one of the best times to book in dates for next time. Iāve tried to bear in mind that when youāre still high from seeing someone is best | |||
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"The next meet in the diary. And some chat in between to maintain the connection, both vanilla and not
I love someone that commits to the next date.
Iām starting to think that the reason people donāt commit to the next date is because they didnāt like the first one
I do like people that have their calendar shit together!
Once you both have the headspace and decide you want to meet , then meet & then put one or two future dates diary, even if you donāt know exactly what youāre going to be doing on them.
Most people can do this if they want to, regardless of how busy with their lives are."Yeah people can. I have a busy life- I know what dates I can give and what ones I canāt give. | |||
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"Engaging conversation, flirtiness leading into talking a bit filthy, reassurances that they actually like me... "I like reassurance. Itās important for me to find people who are ok with reassuring me without it being a burden or hassle to them. | |||
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"The next meet in the diary. And some chat in between to maintain the connection, both vanilla and not
I love someone that commits to the next date.
Iām starting to think that the reason people donāt commit to the next date is because they didnāt like the first one
That's exactly what I think! Next date in the diary within 24 hours or GTFO.
On my poly podcast they were actually saying when youāre with someone is one of the best times to book in dates for next time. Iāve tried to bear in mind that when youāre still high from seeing someone is best "It's a great time but also... people can be busy. I suppose it depends on how invested they are. How much free time they have. I've been in a relationship before where they're prioritised fuck buddies before me, cancelled things last minute to see fbs etc... if someone doesn't want to make the time to see me, I don't need to give them headspace. | |||
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"The next meet in the diary. And some chat in between to maintain the connection, both vanilla and not
I love someone that commits to the next date.
Iām starting to think that the reason people donāt commit to the next date is because they didnāt like the first one
That's exactly what I think! Next date in the diary within 24 hours or GTFO.
On my poly podcast they were actually saying when youāre with someone is one of the best times to book in dates for next time. Iāve tried to bear in mind that when youāre still high from seeing someone is best
It's a great time but also... people can be busy. I suppose it depends on how invested they are. How much free time they have. I've been in a relationship before where they're prioritised fuck buddies before me, cancelled things last minute to see fbs etc... if someone doesn't want to make the time to see me, I don't need to give them headspace. "People are busy. I think thereās a difference between being busy but organised and not. Checking calendars and suggesting some dates when youāre free - whether far into the future or next week is good. Better than leaving it as not having anything. It reflects value theyāre placing on your company imo. Like your example suggests. | |||
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"The next meet in the diary. And some chat in between to maintain the connection, both vanilla and not
I love someone that commits to the next date.
Iām starting to think that the reason people donāt commit to the next date is because they didnāt like the first one
That's exactly what I think! Next date in the diary within 24 hours or GTFO.
On my poly podcast they were actually saying when youāre with someone is one of the best times to book in dates for next time. Iāve tried to bear in mind that when youāre still high from seeing someone is best
It's a great time but also... people can be busy. I suppose it depends on how invested they are. How much free time they have. I've been in a relationship before where they're prioritised fuck buddies before me, cancelled things last minute to see fbs etc... if someone doesn't want to make the time to see me, I don't need to give them headspace.
People are busy. I think thereās a difference between being busy but organised and not. Checking calendars and suggesting some dates when youāre free - whether far into the future or next week is good. Better than leaving it as not having anything. It reflects value theyāre placing on your company imo. Like your example suggests. "This is why I have a poly-classic shared calendar that I keep up to date; I'm busy, but I always know when my free dates are. I never let one of my partners leave my house before arranging our next meet, because he's terribly organised | |||
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"The next meet in the diary. And some chat in between to maintain the connection, both vanilla and not
I love someone that commits to the next date.
Iām starting to think that the reason people donāt commit to the next date is because they didnāt like the first one
That's exactly what I think! Next date in the diary within 24 hours or GTFO.
On my poly podcast they were actually saying when youāre with someone is one of the best times to book in dates for next time. Iāve tried to bear in mind that when youāre still high from seeing someone is best
It's a great time but also... people can be busy. I suppose it depends on how invested they are. How much free time they have. I've been in a relationship before where they're prioritised fuck buddies before me, cancelled things last minute to see fbs etc... if someone doesn't want to make the time to see me, I don't need to give them headspace.
People are busy. I think thereās a difference between being busy but organised and not. Checking calendars and suggesting some dates when youāre free - whether far into the future or next week is good. Better than leaving it as not having anything. It reflects value theyāre placing on your company imo. Like your example suggests. "Itās a very good approach, not just for on here for nurturing all relationships, family, friends lovers. Calendar is a powerful tool for building solid relationships, but also managing some more tricky relationships like family members you can decide upfront how many times a year you are prepared to see them | |||
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"Do you mean like like or like as in I want them to fuck me until we're both sweaty, spent and have aching bodies the next day?" Which one gets us wrestling? | |||
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"Engaging conversation, flirtiness leading into talking a bit filthy, reassurances that they actually like me...
I like reassurance. Itās important for me to find people who are ok with reassuring me without it being a burden or hassle to them. "I think that's it. A bit of reassurance without it looking like I'm too needy š | |||
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"On here? Not much, the odd interaction or pic now and then tells me they are still there and thinking about me. Then when the time is right it will happen," What he said | |||
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"What do you need from them to maintain that interest?
More than one line replies when I've chatted their arses off.
Put your dick away and just chat.
Read my profile.
Yeah the bar is that low.
interesting i could say the same (except the put your dick away bit i dont get those pics lol ) when chatting to some ladies/couples.. i chat away they say yes, no, maybe,..i give up after a while "It's the three word replies that get me. "What you into" - 3 paragraphs - "that's cool, horny?" - not really, you've only said 3 words to me - "meet today, yes?" - no (delete) | |||
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"Easy their continued interest in me. If itās not mutual, it wonāt last x" Awwww. Gizza hug | |||
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"Ongoing conversation, respect for me as a person." | |||
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"What do you need from them to maintain that interest? "For me - it has to be reciprocated. Mutual interest helps. | |||
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"Keep the communication going, flirt and get solid dates booked in. " This ā¦ otherwise I lose interest and move on | |||
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