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By *igD-Darlo OP   Man
6 hours ago

north east

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By *igD-Darlo OP   Man
6 hours ago

north east

I don’t seem to get messages ? Ladies tell me what im doing wrong please

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By *ldNewbie64Man
6 hours ago

Bury

Par for the course post here OP. I’m sure the great and the good will be along to advise you shortly. Still, you have age on your side.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
6 hours ago

Leeds

Personally I don't reply to messages with a penis profile pic. Maybe other women are the same.

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By *igD-Darlo OP   Man
6 hours ago

north east

I was thinking that’s probably the issue, but I was also thinking 90% of men on here do the same, im kinda new to all this, thanks for your reply

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
6 hours ago

3rd Rock from the sun


"I don’t seem to get messages ? Ladies tell me what im doing wrong please "

The fact you refer to women as females is off putting for starters and the only pics you have are of your cock, it's not really going to garner much attention, not will you almost non existent bio...

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By *rish25Man
6 hours ago

dublin city

Anyone been to dv8?

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By *igD-Darlo OP   Man
6 hours ago

north east

I don’t know what im doing 😂im just getting the hang of things, and I have face pics but there not on display to the whole website, I appreciate you taking the time to reply, thank you

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
6 hours ago

3rd Rock from the sun


"I don’t know what im doing 😂im just getting the hang of things, and I have face pics but there not on display to the whole website, I appreciate you taking the time to reply, thank you "

Why not put a bit more in your bio about you, what you like etc. also in terms of pics, I get why no face pics but you could do some more teasing pics , rather than just your cock out

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By *allySlinkyWoman
5 hours ago

Leeds

Your bio says you are fit, so how about a profile pic of your torso ?

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By *igD-Darlo OP   Man
5 hours ago

north east

Oh I get that, like I say im just getting the hang of things, I was just following what the majority were doing, thanks for your advice

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By *igD-Darlo OP   Man
5 hours ago

north east

Good idea

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By *ardigan SpiceWoman
5 hours ago

Cardigan/Aberystwyth

If you use the reply and quote button it makes it easier to follow a thread.

As others have said lose some of the dick pics. Put up a picture of your torso, something that teases the imagination.

Improve on your bio, you're trying to sell yourself so that all these women will want you and imo it's lacking.

You've only been here 4 weeks which is very very early days in fab world.

Socials are great places to meet people and get verifications.

I can see by replies that you have had a profile picture so put another one back up. The blank avatar does nothing for a lot of people.

Good luck!

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
5 hours ago

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"Oh I get that, like I say im just getting the hang of things, I was just following what the majority were doing, thanks for your advice"

The majority don't get replies to messages either, so it's best not to copy them

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

4 hours ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I was thinking that’s probably the issue, but I was also thinking 90% of men on here do the same, im kinda new to all this, thanks for your reply "

90% of men also occasionally complain about not getting replies or incoming mail. There could be a link.

*67.4% od statistics are also made up 50% of the time........🤷‍♂️

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By *oveandfastWoman
4 hours ago

Bromsgrove

For me it will be because your only veri is from a man but you say you’re straight. That, coupled with the fact you can’t accommodate and don’t briefly explain why, leads me to think you’re a bit disingenuous.

Honesty is always best

If you’re sending face/ full body pics with your first messages, I personally wouldn’t care that all your profile pics are your dick. Mine are all tits so can’t be a hypocrite 🤣

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By *iss.BellaWoman
4 hours ago

Wales

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By *iss.BellaWoman
4 hours ago

Wales

I looked through your pics..

Snapchat dick pics 🙄 your bio doesn't give much of an insight to who you are and your verification doesn't match your profile (straight verified by a man). Those three factors together put me off.

Just another faceless penis 🤷‍♀️

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By *carlettsWoman
4 hours ago

Harpenden

Profile limited and only cock pics could be why, just a thought

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
1 hour ago

Central

It might be your expectations.

Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people. People don't message or reply if you don't appear to be mutually compatible.

You can make your expectations realistic.

And help people to better know if you might be right for them. Lots of tips in many forum posts helping single men

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