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By *one_maverick OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Leeds/Bradford

I'm looking for some advice on what pictures to put on my profile and how to fill out my bio better.

I think everyone is decent but gets no traction (probably a numbers game and that I can't accommodate).

I have always had a hard time making myself stand out and putting myself in the best light online... Whether it be stuff like this or dating apps. Any advice would be appreciated

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Variety.

A quick glance and many of your photos are very samey torso shots.

Be creative.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I think your text and pics are quite good. I prefer full length pics instead of loads of pics of just a cock.

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By *one_maverick OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Leeds/Bradford


"Variety.

A quick glance and many of your photos are very samey torso shots.

Be creative. "

Creative how? Any tips?

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By *one_maverick OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Leeds/Bradford


"I think your text and pics are quite good. I prefer full length pics instead of loads of pics of just a cock. "

Honestly I don't even have any dick pics in my photos on my phone

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

Tbf I think you have quite a good profile, much better than most. Nice to see a proper bio!

Unfortunately it's just really difficult as a single guy on here because of the ratios (sausage fest).

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By *carlettMonroeTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Horsham

As others have said the bio is pretty good. Maybe the bit about multiple rounds/you are in for a treat could be rewritten/removed but that's just my own preference.

Maybe a couple more clothed pics? I like the one in the dark tshirt so perhaps a full length one of that as the main profile pic. You could use a timer/bluetooth so you don't have to hold the phone in all of them?

Either way it's better than a lot I have seen and recieved messages from so hopefully you get some replies. Good luck and have fun x

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By *carlettMonroeTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Horsham


"Variety.

A quick glance and many of your photos are very samey torso shots.

Be creative.

Creative how? Any tips?"

Different poses, an outside pic, one in a nice suit. Just mix it up. As others have said single guys are outnumbered massively so anything that is a bit different can be an advantage. x

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By *viatrixWoman
2 weeks ago

Redhill

I quite like your photos- you have the good looks to get away with “samey” photos, which I don’t think they are at all, by the way.

It depends on what you are looking for- a shag every day? You have 2 veris, you’re going to a social and a club this weekend, so it seems to me that you’re quite au fait with Fab and the scene? Do you want women to come directly and approach you? That is really rare that will happen in all honesty.

Wish you the best of luck- I do feel you have a good profile.

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By *erdyEstLdner 82Man
2 weeks ago

Ilford

Like with any other "Matching" site it is a bit of a cattle market. A having a good profile, taking rejection well and not being a dick all help, but playing the long game is what wins here. Don't just rely on the site, see if you can attend a club or a social to get a couple of verifications and go from there.

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By *one_maverick OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Leeds/Bradford


"I quite like your photos- you have the good looks to get away with “samey” photos, which I don’t think they are at all, by the way.

It depends on what you are looking for- a shag every day? You have 2 veris, you’re going to a social and a club this weekend, so it seems to me that you’re quite au fait with Fab and the scene? Do you want women to come directly and approach you? That is really rare that will happen in all honesty.

Wish you the best of luck- I do feel you have a good profile. "

I'm not new to the scene and went to a social last year too. I'm not looking to work my way through the site as I am much more a quality over quantity kind of guy... A fwbs or something regularly would be ideal but I wouldn't say no to some of the lookers that are on here (I'd be an Idiot to haha).

But I think one of my main issues is that I cannot accommodate. This is why I'm getting into the club scene (will be my first one this weekend).

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2 weeks ago

If you can't accommodate, it will be assumed you are married or partnered up, regardless of what you put on your profile.

Best of luck!

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By *one_maverick OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Leeds/Bradford

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