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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

or short for your Personal Happiness Score

I am on a fairly constant 8 out of 10 and have been for some months. To get to 9 it would require a slight (not massive) reduction in my working hours.

Your personal happiness score in points out of 10 - where are you and what would make you score higher?

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

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By *hris148Man
over a year ago

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tonight I am 4

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

You do ask some very thought provoking questions.....

I am currently an 8 which may seem strange since I am recovering from knee surgery but it is a very fair reflection

To reach a 9 I would have to be living back in my own home and meeting again....

I do not believe I am capable of reaching 10

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"tonight I am 4 "
Sorry to see that - pm?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Generally about an 8...goes up when I have sex....I'm not sure what would make me happier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One aspect is causing me grief at the mo, and I am doing something about it.

Otherwise, life is grand.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

20 if im manic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7.5

oops i thought u asked for cocksize!

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"You do ask some very thought provoking questions.....

I am currently an 8 which may seem strange since I am recovering from knee surgery but it is a very fair reflection

To reach a 9 I would have to be living back in my own home and meeting again....

I do not believe I am capable of reaching 10"

I do a fair amount of driving and ponder about life and people and then I come up with these weird question...

I totally get that "not being capable " of achieving 10... I sometimes wonder whether why we are stopping ourselves though

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I am at a 5.....

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I am at a 5....."
Whose upset you - I ll get them for you!

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"You do ask some very thought provoking questions.....

I am currently an 8 which may seem strange since I am recovering from knee surgery but it is a very fair reflection

To reach a 9 I would have to be living back in my own home and meeting again....

I do not believe I am capable of reaching 10

I do a fair amount of driving and ponder about life and people and then I come up with these weird question...

I totally get that "not being capable " of achieving 10... I sometimes wonder whether why we are stopping ourselves though "

I know exactly why I won't allow myself to reach 10, and that sits fine with me. it is a compromise I am happy to make...

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I am at a 5.....Whose upset you - I ll get them for you! "

and I am right behind her....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am happy and working towards being happier.

So many people expect 1 thing to change their lot, but life moves on and what makes you happy today could simply pail into insignificance in light of something that just may happen tomorrow that changes everything.

As cliche as the old adage may be, I do believe that happiness is a journey and not a destination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am happy and working towards being happier.

So many people expect 1 thing to change their lot, but life moves on and what makes you happy today could simply pail into insignificance in light of something that just may happen tomorrow that changes everything.

As cliche as the old adage may be, I do believe that happiness is a journey and not a destination."

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"You do ask some very thought provoking questions.....

I am currently an 8 which may seem strange since I am recovering from knee surgery but it is a very fair reflection

To reach a 9 I would have to be living back in my own home and meeting again....

I do not believe I am capable of reaching 10

I do a fair amount of driving and ponder about life and people and then I come up with these weird question...

I totally get that "not being capable " of achieving 10... I sometimes wonder whether why we are stopping ourselves though

I know exactly why I won't allow myself to reach 10, and that sits fine with me. it is a compromise I am happy to make..."

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I am happy and working towards being happier.

So many people expect 1 thing to change their lot, but life moves on and what makes you happy today could simply pail into insignificance in light of something that just may happen tomorrow that changes everything.

As cliche as the old adage may be, I do believe that happiness is a journey and not a destination."

I so agree with you - sometimes we get caught up in the idea that "if only" that one thing were to happen... we would be happy whereas in reality happiness comes from within, from being at peace with oneself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am at 5, I like being at 5 that gives options tomorrow I could hit 6 or 4 but how would I know that I hit a 9 if I have never experienced a 1

Agree 10 should be reserved as part of true happiness is having something higher to aim for.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm at a 6, particularly alcohol induced. I know what needs to change to raise the score but not all things are possible.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I'm at a 6, particularly alcohol induced. I know what needs to change to raise the score but not all things are possible."
Does alcohol bring it up or down? Serious question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, right at this present time I don't think I could score it. Or rather I don't think I would want to take a step back and look - I think the results would not be conducive to happiness.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I am at a 5.....Whose upset you - I ll get them for you!

and I am right behind her.... "

Awwwwwwwwwwwwww thanks I suppose its just life....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'm at a 6, particularly alcohol induced. I know what needs to change to raise the score but not all things are possible.Does alcohol bring it up or down? Serious question."

It depends. This evening it's an up. Other times it can make the world less than satisfactory. I tend only to drink socially and celebratory and that means it enhances rather than detracts.

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

My score changes daily lol......I'm around a 6 at the mo..........when I'm with oh its usually 9 or 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm at a 6, particularly alcohol induced. I know what needs to change to raise the score but not all things are possible.Does alcohol bring it up or down? Serious question."

Alcohol is a depressant as a rule

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I'm at a 6, particularly alcohol induced. I know what needs to change to raise the score but not all things are possible.Does alcohol bring it up or down? Serious question.

Alcohol is a depressant as a rule "

It is a depressant for me...I haven't d*unk in a long time because of it...It can make an OK day seem like a BAD day...so I avoid

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I'm at a 6, particularly alcohol induced. I know what needs to change to raise the score but not all things are possible.Does alcohol bring it up or down? Serious question.

Alcohol is a depressant as a rule

It is a depressant for me...I haven't d*unk in a long time because of it...It can make an OK day seem like a BAD day...so I avoid"

It is so true that for some people even moderate amounts of alcohol can have a devastating effect. If I were in a sad mood I would not have alcohol for that reason.

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