FabSwingers.com forum: Soft swop

By *nandwet69 OP Couple
2 weeks ago

cwmbran

So we have come across a few couples different views on soft swop … what are yours ?

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By *xxMandLxxxCouple
2 weeks ago

Southampton

We do oral, fingering, girl on girl, cumshots but stop short of actual penetrative sex with others.

We love being watched, spreading etc

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By *nandwet69 OP Couple
2 weeks ago

cwmbran

Be watched is always hot x

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By *bi HaiveMan
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2 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Anything other than penetrative sex.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
2 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Anything and everything except for penetrative sex.

No penis going into vagina/arse.

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By *nandwet69 OP Couple
2 weeks ago

cwmbran

Don’t you feel tongues,fingers mouth is more interment than cock in pussy on ? X

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By *rumpyandsexyCouple
2 weeks ago

mansfield

Just being watched and mutual wanking

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By *herrybakewellCouple
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

It varies so much that we avoid it now.

We had an unfortunate experience a while back where even though boundaries had been discussed, the female half of the couple we met wasn't happy about something that happened.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
2 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Is a good way to start swinging if you are nervous and maybe a little unsure.

We did soft swing only for the first three years then it was a natural progression into full.

Actually found it more sensual as it involves more thought rather than just steaming into sex.

It's fun

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By *elloWoman
2 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"So we have come across a few couples different views on soft swop … what are yours ? "

Soft swap varies from what the couple is comfortable and can change depending on mood and the couple their playing with.

It can include any type of play except fully penetration with someone who isn't their partner

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

As a single girl/unicorn in the swing world couples who want to soft play with me I have absolutely no interest in. I have been approached by some couples where they wanted to meet for basically just foreplay only but that's not for me.

I'm sure if you're doing a couple swap it can work fine as you are still going to have sex with your own partner, but wanting to do soft play with a single woman seems a bit pointless from the single girl POV personally. I don't want to do performative lesbian play just for your male partner either.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
2 weeks ago

Coventry

We're often but not exclusively soft swap (really depends on who we're with and vibe). For us it's very simply everything except the guys only fuck their own respective partners.

However we've come across so variants in our time so it's always best to find out specifically what people's definitions and boundaries are.

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm half a couple and we would be happy to a do partner swap for soft play.

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Everything but penetration, as others defined it.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
2 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Whatever is agreed between you all is what soft swap is.

Usually it means everything but penetration.

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By *ertcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Hatfield

We don't mind... it's just fun x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
2 weeks ago

Reading

I prefer soft swap tbh

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By *teinsGateDuoCouple
2 weeks ago

Newcastle under Lyme

Totally pointless.

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By *lossomTreeWoman
2 weeks ago

Ipswich

Pointless for me, if there is a cock in the room I want to fully enjoy it, I'm not there just as a turn on for the man watching me with his partner either.

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