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By *oe West OP   Man
over a year ago

St Helens

I fail to understand why guys arrange a meet with a woman or couple and then fail to show up at the meet, this seems a waste when the women and couples have taking time to meet you.

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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I fail to understand why guys arrange a meet with a woman or couple and then fail to show up at the meet, this seems a waste when the women and couples have taking time to meet you."

People stand people up.

Men. Women. And couples.

It's not gender specific.

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By *oe West OP   Man
over a year ago

St Helens

That's true

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

Forget about it and move on

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By *olds CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Louth Lincolnshire


"I fail to understand why guys arrange a meet with a woman or couple and then fail to show up at the meet, this seems a waste when the women and couples have taking time to meet you."

Probably because their wives have other plans or chores for them to do.

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By *yorks4couplesMan
over a year ago

doncaster

It costs £5 to be a supporter and the majority of those will never intend on meeting. As for couples and women i feel they get cold feet and or wary when anybody genuine comes along

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair


"It costs £5 to be a supporter and the majority of those will never intend on meeting. As for couples and women i feel they get cold feet and or wary when anybody genuine comes along "

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What is the relevance of £5/Supporter and the intention of meeting (or not) ?

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"I fail to understand why guys arrange a meet with a woman or couple and then fail to show up at the meet, this seems a waste when the women and couples have taking time to meet you."

Ultimately, regardless of gender or sexual orientation, people get stood up.

Almost always it is down to nerves on the other persons part, or that they got their rocks off already and don't need to turn up because they are wiping percy down with kleenex.

Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do except learn from the experience and know that you are not the first person to be in that situation. It's not good advice, but maybe it will help a little.

Take care

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By *s Verity VeneryWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

Some like to chase but not actually catch. Theres no one way to tell their intentions, until they are ghosting you unfortunately

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

tale as old as time pal 🤷‍♂️

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Behold , and on the 8th God did create the time waster"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"tale as old as time pal 🤷‍♂️"

Wasn’t many in the days of the contact magazines

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france


"tale as old as time pal 🤷‍♂️

Wasn’t many in the days of the contact magazines "

Were contact magazines ever successfull, I've seen a few old ones and the sort of ads, but it looks like you had to send a letter to a po box, sounds like a lot of time to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for some people it's like a dog chasing a car.

They don't expect to catch it amd when they do, they have no idea what to do with it. Likewise some men never expect to get a meet with someone, and when they do they panic and run.

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By *emofaJamesMan
over a year ago

London, Notting Hill.

Like any social, to arrange something and then not show up, it's the height of rudeness.

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