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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone check a profile they like but not message in the hope they message you after seeing you've visited or just take it as if they look and don't send anything it's a no lol

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I don't look at mine.

If they look and don't send anything they're obviously not interested.

If they look and do send a message they probably haven't read the profile 💜

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't look at mine.

If they look and don't send anything they're obviously not interested.

If they look and do send a message they probably haven't read the profile 💜"

I do notice that alot lol I'm just genuine so respect people's thoughts, I'm not one to spam people with messages etc

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

I have a look but don't really message off the back of unless I noticed that they've looked at me quite a few times in quick succession as I may interpret that as they may be interested but just didn't want to take the plunge. And even when I do message, I won't mention that I noticed they were looking at me.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
over a year ago

Trowbridge

If they’ve looked at my profile & haven’t winked or fabbed, I’ll assume they weren’t interested

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby


"If they’ve looked at my profile & haven’t winked or fabbed, I’ll assume they weren’t interested"

👀👀👀

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm in ninja 🥷 mode so they wouldn't know if I've looked or not

I don't check at the who's looked at me feature x

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By *tagge_fyxeCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"If they’ve looked at my profile & haven’t winked or fabbed, I’ll assume they weren’t interested"

Same. If they were interested they’d do something.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The only thing that means yes is a yes.

A look can be anything from "I want to sit on his face" to "I fat fingered my phone and accidentally clicked it". Occasionally even "that looks like a train wreck, I have to look"

I wouldn't read anything into anything unless it's explicit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing that counts is a message. If you want my attention that's the only way to get it. I do likewise to those I want to initiate a contact with. Send a message.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

I have never messaged anyone who has viewed. They're just viewing. If they want more they'll wink or message. TBH I would just wink back. Then crack one off to their pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they’ve looked at my profile & haven’t winked or fabbed, I’ll assume they weren’t interested

Same. If they were interested they’d do something. "

This is my moto too

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Hockey and netball very reluctantly, tennis even more reluctantly and all very, very badly. I have avoided sport ever since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t really look. I have filters on so I can’t see everyone that views me. And the filters stop them messaging. And I very rarely message

This thread probably wasn’t for me thinking about it

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By *tagge_fyxeCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"If they’ve looked at my profile & haven’t winked or fabbed, I’ll assume they weren’t interested

Same. If they were interested they’d do something.

This is my moto too "

If they look interesting I’ll sometimes peek back at their profile but I still stand by the above.

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By *s Verity VeneryWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

No. If I've seen a profile I like I message them. Not everyone checks 'who's looked at me' or 'winks' to play coy, is not my stylee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I check but don't message as if they were interested they should make the first move

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By *olinOfBathMan
over a year ago

Corsham


"If they’ve looked at my profile & haven’t winked or fabbed, I’ll assume they weren’t interested"

Or...

They're interested, but too young or too old to message you.

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By *onk3yb0yMan
over a year ago

south west

I always check out their profile. I love a quick perv.

Only contact them if they have liked a lot of my photos, winked me or messaged me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do this sometimes. Dont know why I have no problem sending a first message. Variety I suppose 🤷‍♀️😅

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By *estructionDollyWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

If someone has looked at me and not sent a message I assume they aren't interested. I keep mine on anonymous browsing because of this reason, I don't want men assuming I want to shag them just because I looked at their profile. Sometimes I just want to be nosey especially on the forums 😂

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'd just message if I wanted to make contact. Why play games? 🤷‍♀️

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I'm with the OP, I fancy 90% of who I look at, and hope they'll see I've looked and say hi.

But I don't like to message first as they must get hundreds already.

Guess I'm just a wishful lurker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll look at a profile. But I also fully read the profile. Weather I like them or not, what they have on their profile would determine if I send a message. They may have preferences on there that I know I wouldn’t meet, so I already know the answer and save my time in messaging.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
over a year ago

Northwest

If I were to perv on a profile and liked what I saw/read I would message them. I don’t look at my own winks/friend requests/looked at me so wouldn’t assume others to look at theirs.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
over a year ago

Trowbridge


"I’ll look at a profile. But I also fully read the profile. Weather I like them or not, what they have on their profile would determine if I send a message. They may have preferences on there that I know I wouldn’t meet, so I already know the answer and save my time in messaging. "

Oh my! We have a winner at fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll look at a profile. But I also fully read the profile. Weather I like them or not, what they have on their profile would determine if I send a message. They may have preferences on there that I know I wouldn’t meet, so I already know the answer and save my time in messaging.

Oh my! We have a winner at fab!"

Whoop whoop. I never win. My comment very true though.

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By *ypersoonMan
over a year ago

WHITCHURCH, Shropshire


"I have a look but don't really message off the back of unless I noticed that they've looked at me quite a few times in quick succession as I may interpret that as they may be interested but just didn't want to take the plunge. And even when I do message, I won't mention that I noticed they were looking at me."

Have that a lot particularly if I'd already messaged some constant viewers but not had a answer back from them & I try to avoid messaging a 2nd time cause of the "you've already sent xxxxx a message" warnings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone check a profile they like but not message in the hope they message you after seeing you've visited or just take it as if they look and don't send anything it's a no lol "

Both

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"I don't look at mine.

If they look and don't send anything they're obviously not interested.

If they look and do send a message they probably haven't read the profile 💜"
unless your filters are blocking them

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