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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there a point at which "playtime" outfits are less sexy and more 'oh dear'?

Is it still sexy if a 40/50-something woman is wearing the same clothing an 18 year old would wear?

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By *1dKingColeMan
over a year ago

east london

Gets out the popcorn!

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in my opinion. Sexy playtime clothing is timeless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my world I wear clothes which are designer labels and go to New Look and buy clothes that 18 year olds would wear. Its how you wear them to be honest I feel and its the same with sexy clothes - anything looks great on you if you feel great and at the end of the day you are the most important person to please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone feels comfortable in something then they should go for it

Does others opinions really matter?? xx

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea


"Not in my opinion. Sexy playtime clothing is timeless "

ageless i think would be the right term to use in this case lol

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

lol

i have seen some 18/20yr olds that should never have tried to stretch an outfit over there head

and on the other hand have had some 50yr olds who looked stunning in similar outfits

but if the lady likes the outfit thats all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gets out the popcorn!

LOL

"

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Chicken!!!

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Is it still sexy if a 40/50-something woman is wearing the same clothing an 18 year old would wear? "

Lots and lots of 40.50 something women can give younger peeps a fair run for their money

Much prefer experience and maturity over youth any time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of 40 somethings we've seen look as good if not better than their younger counterparts and certainly carry it off with more panache!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

frankly, it's reassuring to know when your lovers are not yet showing signs of dressing like your mum.

I'd 'do' bith the fat slags in Viz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been to chams and seen ladies in things and thought.

"oh god no"

Most of the time however , i have seen ladies who have the added confidence to wear what they enjoy wearing .

I may still be sat there thinking "oh god i couldnt" but only because i dont have the courage to do so.

So more power to ya elbow i say and if it makes you feel extra sexy and your partner or who ever loves it....

Thats all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just looking at some of the profile pics on fab answers this question, there are some stunning pics, and like everyone says if you feel confident you can pretty much carry off anything! Feel sexy, look sexy

Before anyone else jumps in, yes it is in the eyes of the beholder!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I believe I look dreadful in certain outfits that do not give me any support, like baby dolls or body stockings.

So I avoid them.

I look half decent in a corset and good bras with lots of support, so I shall stick to those instead.

I also believe one gets away with a lot more when it comes to play time clothing than normal day to day clothes.

Besides, the same outfit can look exremely sexy/elegant with the right accessories, and could end up looking like trailer trash with the wrong ones!

Hence I shall always stick with pearls and diamonds, darling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at the end of the day though, when a guys got a stiffy, do you really think he's bothered how well your clothes fit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to wear a corset but am the wrong shape, bieng all ass ...

The boob bit ok...

But watch this space folks...

its a comming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"at the end of the day though, when a guys got a stiffy, do you really think he's bothered how well your clothes fit? "

This is very true..

I had a relationship with a young turkish guy some years ago and would take over some lovely underwear etc...

Have a shower, put summat nice on and he would say..

"vat is this" ??? and off it would come.

lmao

waste of money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to wear a corset but am the wrong shape, bieng all ass ...

The boob bit ok...

But watch this space folks...

its a comming "

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You can get made to measure ones from Vollers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would an 18 year old wear to play?!! If we're talking naughty school girl then a 50 year old with bingo wings, tena pants and varicose veins is not going to carry it off. That said, if said old dear feels sexy in aforementioned Lolita gear dont think she'd give a stuff what others thought. I bought my first play gear this year at 49. It looked good on the plus size model but after struggling to get into it for about an hour catching sight of myself in the full length mirror I did think 'oh dear what were you thinking lol'. That said, the boner displayed by my playmate nearly compensated for the hernia I gave myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"at the end of the day though, when a guys got a stiffy, do you really think he's bothered how well your clothes fit? "

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It depends if you dress to please the gentleman, or to please yourself, or both.

I put on sexy play clothes to get myself into the mood for fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would an 18 year old wear to play?!! If we're talking naughty school girl then a 50 year old with bingo wings, tena pants and varicose veins is not going to carry it off. That said, if said old dear feels sexy in aforementioned Lolita gear dont think she'd give a stuff what others thought. I bought my first play gear this year at 49. It looked good on the plus size model but after struggling to get into it for about an hour catching sight of myself in the full length mirror I did think 'oh dear what were you thinking lol'. That said, the boner displayed by my playmate nearly compensated for the hernia I gave myself!"

Pmsl at "bingo wings, tena pants and varicose veins"

its a look to go for if all else fails..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"at the end of the day though, when a guys got a stiffy, do you really think he's bothered how well your clothes fit?

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It depends if you dress to please the gentleman, or to please yourself, or both.

I put on sexy play clothes to get myself into the mood for fun! "

Yes,I know what you mean,I'll sometimes spend the odd hour in the attic,trying on different outfits and seeing what goes with what.

It saves a lot of time when the actual event comes around,besides being good fun. T

XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies, wear what you feel comfortable and sexy in.

I would rather see a well matured sexy woman, especially a bbw in sexy revealing clothing than what some of the young un's wear nowadays.

Tracksuits and Ugg boots do nothing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies, wear what you feel comfortable and sexy in.

Tracksuits and Ugg boots do nothing for me "

Sexyness and comfort seldom go hand in hand but who cares?

We agree about those bloody Ugg Boots though! T

XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather see a well matured sexy woman, especially a bbw in sexy revealing clothing than what some of the young un's wear nowadays.

"

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Be careful how you define BBW - last time that subject came up, it was chaos!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last post was made tongue in cheek and to be totally honest I get loads of pleasure looking at ladies of all ages, shapes and sizes, sometimes I get lucky and actually play with them too

Kate is 5'2" and a curvy size 16, she always looks lovely in my opinion, no matter what she wears, but she suffers from the same insecureties that blackens many ladies confidences. She continually asks, "is this too young, is this too old, is this too this, is this too that...?"

The proof of the pudding is in the eating and I reassure Kate by just reminding her of the number of guys who try to "pull" her, both at clubs and on our private meets.

If it wasn't for Kate, I dont think I would get a shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My last post was made tongue in cheek and to be totally honest I get loads of pleasure looking at ladies of all ages, shapes and sizes, sometimes I get lucky and actually play with them too

Kate is 5'2" and a curvy size 16, she always looks lovely in my opinion, no matter what she wears, but she suffers from the same insecureties that blackens many ladies confidences. She continually asks, "is this too young, is this too old, is this too this, is this too that...?"

The proof of the pudding is in the eating and I reassure Kate by just reminding her of the number of guys who try to "pull" her, both at clubs and on our private meets.

If it wasn't for Kate, I dont think I would get a shag "

Well,thats what comes of having a shaven head,tattoos and facial hair!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont give a stuff i wear what i like and if i feel good then the guy feels good lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I may be very close to the big 50 but I have to say I love to wear sexy play clothes !

My normal workwear is usually jeans and sweatshirts with pink steel toecapped boots, but swap those for stockings and killer heels and the years seem to just drop off lol

xxx Raz xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont give a stuff i wear what i like and if i feel good then the guy feels good lol"

You're right Betty, you do always feel good, and I couldn't feel you any better than I did last time out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ha ha i could reply by saying tell jase that lol but that would be below the belt lol.

And your kate looked stunning in that leather outfit she had on and i think that proves the point that you can wear anything and get away with it if you have the confidence too, BE BOLD !!! and GO FOR IT thats my new motto for 2010

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I may be very close to the big 50 but I have to say I love to wear sexy play clothes !

My normal workwear is usually jeans and sweatshirts with pink steel toecapped boots, but swap those for stockings and killer heels and the years seem to just drop off lol

xxx Raz xxx"

But you look fantastic in your stuff raz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" If it wasn't for Kate, I dont think I would get a shag

Well,thats what comes of having a shaven head,tattoos and facial hair! "

Hey, I like my Freddy Mercury tash! suppose I'd better not come to Cleethorpes then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I may be very close to the big 50 but I have to say I love to wear sexy play clothes !

My normal workwear is usually jeans and sweatshirts with pink steel toecapped boots, but swap those for stockings and killer heels and the years seem to just drop off lol

xxx Raz xxx

But you look fantastic in your stuff raz "

Mwah xxx thank you Honey xxx

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"Is there a point at which "playtime" outfits are less sexy and more 'oh dear'?

Is it still sexy if a 40/50-something woman is wearing the same clothing an 18 year old would wear? "

This post had to come from a young whippersnapper... lol I would suggest you look at our profile pics and judge for yourself! Mrs R is 49 and is in constant demand! If you need more proof, we have thousands of lovely pics!

You young'ns don't have the monopoly on sexiness, that comes with experience and confidence...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will second that im 43 this year and often being told i look years younger, and its experience that makes the woman. not the cloth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where what you feel comfortable in. As a curvy girl i like leave somethings to the imagination still dress sexy but classy.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"Where what you feel comfortable in. As a curvy girl i like leave somethings to the imagination still dress sexy but classy."

likewise darling

You always look faberoony smashing

besides, if you dont like what you see, its like the tv, switch off as in look elswhere

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By *artin216Man
over a year ago

Spilsby

i thought this might be the bestiality thread, like a naughty school sheep thing going on....

does anyone know where that thread is...by the way?......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 52 next month and wear whatever play-clothes make me feel sexy, if it's the same as an 18 year old would wear so what? sexiness comes from within, not what it's wrapped in xxxx

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

I have seen some 18yr olds look less attractive than some of our more mature femmes. I don’t think its what age you are more what actually suits your frame, height and the rest. I am a great believer in “if you feel good in something wear it” Sod what others think. I smile with this on a swingers site though as ultimately us blokes just want to get you women naked any ways

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By *BCBlondeCouple
over a year ago

DURHAM

Wear what you feel good in! xxx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I wear what i like, I think others should too, there are some very sexily dressed mature women.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"I have seen some 18yr olds look less attractive than some of our more mature femmes. I don’t think its what age you are more what actually suits your frame, height and the rest. I am a great believer in “if you feel good in something wear it” Sod what others think. I smile with this on a swingers site though as ultimately us blokes just want to get you women naked any ways "

I want to get some of the ladies on here naked too....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a.....how longs a piece of string.....question really isnt it, men who like younger women would probably look at a 50+ year old and think.....oh dear, but if you like the more mature lady your going to think she looks sexy, personally i dont feel that all because a lady gets older she should stop making an effort or stop being sexy, sexy comes in all forms it not just for the young and slim, it just depends on what you like

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I am mutton dressed as mutton

dont look if you dont like what I wear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 52 next month and wear whatever play-clothes make me feel sexy, if it's the same as an 18 year old would wear so what? sexiness comes from within, not what it's wrapped in xxxx"

Laine, you're a stunner, no matter what you're wrapped in . Wish you were wrapped around me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 52 next month and wear whatever play-clothes make me feel sexy, if it's the same as an 18 year old would wear so what? sexiness comes from within, not what it's wrapped in xxxx

Laine, you're a stunner, no matter what you're wrapped in . Wish you were wrapped around me too "

thank you, all ladies here have sexiness through and through...they are sexy because they think sexy... dressing up is merely for adding extra titillation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a point at which "playtime" outfits are less sexy and more 'oh dear'?

Is it still sexy if a 40/50-something woman is wearing the same clothing an 18 year old would wear? "

Why are you only asking about women ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a point at which "playtime" outfits are less sexy and more 'oh dear'?

Is it still sexy if a 40/50-something woman is wearing the same clothing an 18 year old would wear?

Why are you only asking about women ? "

BTW ..... i'm 55 tomorrow. I have no intention of explaining myself or getting involved in an age debate apart from saying I'd rather see a fit mature woman in a playsuit than a jabba of a youngster who probably wears the kinder self ascribed label of bbw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wear whatever makes YOU feel special..

no matter what anyone else thinks... if you do it for THEM..... yu will fail..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a point at which "playtime" outfits are less sexy and more 'oh dear'?

Is it still sexy if a 40/50-something woman is wearing the same clothing an 18 year old would wear?

Why are you only asking about women ? "

cause men in thongs looks wrong at any age lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a point at which "playtime" outfits are less sexy and more 'oh dear'?

Is it still sexy if a 40/50-something woman is wearing the same clothing an 18 year old would wear?

Why are you only asking about women ?

cause men in thongs looks wrong at any age lol"

Now stop it ........that made me laugh .. but ... yeah .... it's not a good look.

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