FabSwingers.com forum: How many messages

By *oy4women2 OP Man
22 weeks ago

Langford

I want to know how many messages you have received from different ppl in the last hour, I will post a match if two people have the same. Women get a lot lot more than Men. But I would like to find out how much more they do? I want to see if every woman gets bombarded with messages. Or if there is a guy out there who has the same account as women on here. Everyone DM me and tell me how many messages you received since 10.30pm till midnight tonight.

Ps and be honest guys lol

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By *oy4women2 OP Man
22 weeks ago

Langford

Who's in

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By *oy4women2 OP Man
22 weeks ago

Langford

Message from one guy so far saying "zero " which is not surprising to say the least

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By *LiamMan
22 weeks ago

Midlands

5 messages. The same woman

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By *orace99Man
22 weeks ago

York

Nothing at all today.... Par for the course tbh

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By *elloWoman
22 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Lucky 13

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
22 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

None, but I’ve nothing on show so it’s expected

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By *D666KellyTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Dublin

Logged on for first time in 4 days. 5 minutes ago.

I've 4 messages, 3 from guys , just compliments, and 1 from a cd, again, a compliment.

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By *D666KellyTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Dublin

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By *D666KellyTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Dublin

Wait, 7... 3 more men, 2 are compliments, 1 is asking how I am 😊

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By *ddie dMan
22 weeks ago

bolton

4 since 10.30

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By *FF23Man
22 weeks ago

London

A couple . But from men. It seems I’m not that appealing to the ladies and mf couples. 😔

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By *igboobstCouple
22 weeks ago

barrow

3 but all delete jobs

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By *oy4women2 OP Man
22 weeks ago

Langford

2 messages myself too. 1 from a guy who replied from an old chat and I had only 1 message from a woman who replied to me and had a good chat for a bit. Which if I'm honest is rare. Women get bombarded with messages, so I know there is no chance that I will get a reply from women who I message. So it's nice when you get a reply and if I manage to catch them back. There's 4 reasons why women don't message back to guy's.

1) because they are not interested in you when you have shown your photo or after they have heard you chat to them on here.

2) they read your profile after you send them a message and they don't like what they are reading in your profile or you just don't sound interesting enough.

3) they can't be arsed and only go for appearance over politeness and respect, no matter how you try in your message to them. Or even if you have read their profiles.

4) also because there are so many guys on here that just send out rude and abusive messages to every woman they come across and just try their luck with them. It's disgusting and vile. Why do it? You wouldn't go and talk to women like that in a pub or club or something would you, so why cower and hide behind your screens at home and do it. You just spoil it for actual good guys on here who are trying, no wonder women don't want to message back half the time either, I don't blame them for that.

5) they get bombarded with too many messages from guys on here and can't go through them all, it's that simple

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By *bi HaiveMan
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22 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"2 messages myself too. 1 from a guy who replied from an old chat and I had only 1 message from a woman who replied to me and had a good chat for a bit. Which if I'm honest is rare. Women get bombarded with messages, so I know there is no chance that I will get a reply from women who I message. So it's nice when you get a reply and if I manage to catch them back. There's 4 reasons why women don't message back to guy's.

1) because they are not interested in you when you have shown your photo or after they have heard you chat to them on here.

2) they read your profile after you send them a message and they don't like what they are reading in your profile or you just don't sound interesting enough.

3) they can't be arsed and only go for appearance over politeness and respect, no matter how you try in your message to them. Or even if you have read their profiles.

5) they get bombarded with too many messages from guys on here and can't go through them all, it's that simple "

1) That's completely fair. If they're not attracted to you or your message doesn't interest them why should they reply? They didn't ask you to message after all - it's your choice entirely.

2) Again, why would they reply to someone they have no interest in?

3) See 2. Nobody is obliged to reply. It's not rude if they don't.

4) Nobody spoils anything for anyone else. Messages other people send aren't from you after all. Blaming rhe actions of others is a convenient excuse often used by people who don't get replies to their own messages.

5) If people uses filters better they'd have more manageable inboxes. And it takes a brief moment for someone to view a profile before opening a message and decide if the person is of interest. People meet all the time so some messages obviously do get read. 🤷‍♂️

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By *ooking4newMan
22 weeks ago

whitby

None for me

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