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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

With all the awards threads that are currently/previously running.....how badly do those that enter want to win?

In life outside fab are you competitive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With all the awards threads that are currently/previously running.....how badly do those that enter want to win?

In life outside fab are you competitive? "

Try and stop me from winning and I'll crush you!!!

towel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've entered one and won it.

I've gracefully retired while I have a 100% track record!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only competitions ive entered are singing based ones, and although its great to win i am fair in my views of others performances and will often think 'yeah he/she was far better than my vocal performance'

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"only competitions ive entered are singing based ones, and although its great to win i am fair in my views of others performances and will often think 'yeah he/she was far better than my vocal performance'

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Well thats fair enough, its always good to retain objectivity in those kinda things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Competitive? Me?

Depends what men are involved

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im too lazy to be competitive lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not competitive at all and I don't strive to achieve success or the trappings of it.

I won't knowledgeably be played off against someone opting instead for a retreat and withdrawal.

Neither do I set myself life goals or places to be by a certain age.

I just bumble along happily being me and enjoying life in my own little way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im too lazy to be competitive lol"

I think that's about it diamonds

I just can't be arsed

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I enter some comps on here but mostly for fun and I don't care if I win or not.

I notice (being a mum to a two year old) the competitiveness between parents. It's madness. You can say something like 'oh my lad caught a football for the first time today' and most say oh that's nice etc but then there's the ones that say 'oh yeah but my lad can do this....' It's infuriating .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think everyone feels good if they win at something.

to enter competition regarding body and looks..i wouldnt do it, but if someone feels confident to do so thats good. we all have different taste as to what we like a person to look like, and some peeps will disagree im sure with who ever wins if they vote for someone else or think someone else looks better..is a hard one really..but we all have good points body wise and always someone better looking also...so whos to say whats better or a certain look is how it should be. everyone is good looking to someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enter some comps on here but mostly for fun and I don't care if I win or not.

I notice (being a mum to a two year old) the competitiveness between parents. It's madness. You can say something like 'oh my lad caught a football for the first time today' and most say oh that's nice etc but then there's the ones that say 'oh yeah but my lad can do this....' It's infuriating . "

i notice that too at playgroup. Im sure im also guilty of saying things like that too. Only cos im a proud mum. I then realise after i more than likely looked like a dusche bag for trying to 'point score' when that wasnt my objective

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Probably not competitive enough to be honest, I was asked repeatedly to enter into this years 'Taste of the West' food show by the organisers and refrained from doing so, I made out that it was because we don't supply direct to retail but in reality it was because I don't like all that sucking up and creeping that goes with Food Shows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With all the awards threads that are currently/previously running.....how badly do those that enter want to win?

In life outside fab are you competitive? "

I feel that some people take the competitions on here way too seriously and I can't keep up with the rules and regs, so as far as I am concerned it is all just a bit of fun.

Same as in real life, I am only competitive if it is something serious to me...eg sport or career...things that actually are worth while being competitive for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just fun for me

But I'm very competitive at work x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I take great pride in being the best I can and the best in competition with others.

My direct competitor has just spent thousands on advertising whereas I never need to advertise and I'm overrun with clients.

The problem is my brother is the same - I remember a rather heated game of Risk where my brother stormed off in a huff because I'd knocked him out of the game!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

In life outside fab are you competitive? "

I've been savagely competitive my whole life.

Ben

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im too lazy to be competitive lol"

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