FabSwingers.com forum: On average how many private messages do you receive daily?

By *exxyyDy11 OP Man
2 weeks ago

North West

Mine fluctuates, mostly only picks up when I'm on the forums and people respond via private messaging or people I message. I'm sure couples and women get absolutely swamped though.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
2 weeks ago

Ends

None usually. Maybe one or two if I put a silly status up asking for boobs.

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By *oredhorny42Man
2 weeks ago

stirling

Average probably fluctuates between 0 and 0.2 😂😂

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By *host63Man
2 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

Chance would br s fine thing

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By *exxyyDy11 OP Man
2 weeks ago

North West

"Average probably fluctuates between 0 and 0.2 😂😂"

0.3 on a good day??

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
2 weeks ago

Ipswich

Have few women friends on hear and few chaps just chat and gossip generally

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By *ortuguesemanMan
2 weeks ago

st saviour

I think 0

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By *oredhorny42Man
2 weeks ago

stirling

"Average probably fluctuates between 0 and 0.2 😂😂

0.3 on a good day??"

That would be an exceptional day haha

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By *uacksplat.Woman
2 weeks ago

Star Trekking Across The Universe

a few.

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By *viatrixWoman
2 weeks ago

Redhill

Three miliion twenty eleventy forty.

Nah, seriously, about 50. For some reason my messages have increased lately.

99% utter crap but hey ho

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By *ldNewbie64Man
2 weeks ago

Bury

On average? Less than 1.

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By *cubasteve007Man
2 weeks ago

Peterborough

On average 3 a day but usually from couples that live 100+ miles

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By *r TriomanMan
2 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Three at the most but usually none unless I send the first message and I'm lucky enough to get a reply.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
2 weeks ago

North West

Between 4 and 10 generally. If a new picture goes up, it can easily be 20+.

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By *sWyldWoman
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

About 8 . More if I add a photo.

Most remain unread and then I bulk delete

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By *enelope2UWoman
2 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

If I remove my ball busting profile txt 80+ currently 10/25.

I think the points clearer now. I'm not looking for assholes to message me. I'm beyond tired of the frauds on here so I stopped playing nice.

I know what I love to do and show and I'm not settling for mediocre just because it's a "sex site".

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By *avexxMan
2 weeks ago

cheshire

zero

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

Between 10 and 25.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
2 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

On here a couple. On Telegram it's different.

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

I don't send opening messages so every conversation is started by someone else.

I can go for 2 or 3 months without a single message and then get a handful in regards to something I've posted here.

On average I might get 20 messages a year.

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By *hrisukbishareCouple
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

2 maybe

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By *he_smurfsCouple
2 weeks ago

calne

One or two usually now... when we didn't have single males blocked it was easily 10+

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By *midnight-Woman
2 weeks ago

...

It varies, but not that many, once you hit fifties you are out of many filters

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By *mmacdheelsTV/TS
2 weeks ago

France, And sometimes in

On a normal day it will average about 3 from people I've not previously chatted to.

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By *ife NinjaMan
2 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Today's been busy, usually square root of fuck all 🤓

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
2 weeks ago

Reading

20 or so including multiples from the same people.

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By *ickawitchCouple
2 weeks ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Generally, averaging about 3 per week. But unless I’ve put something interesting on our status or new pics . it’s usually single guys trying to bypass me to talk to the wife

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By *bitofaslutWoman
2 weeks ago

Cannock

I took a day off yesterday and logged on to 18 waiting.

My friend gets about 500.

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By *ookie46Woman
2 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

My filters are set at 99-99 so hardly any, just the way I like it

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
2 weeks ago

Ipswich

"Have few women friends on hear and few chaps just chat and gossip generally

Sorry didn’t answer properly

About five on weekly basis

Obvs from friends

When you get near sixty out of everyone age range

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By *andora2Woman
2 weeks ago

South somewhere

A lot. Not as good as it sounds believe me.

When it gets too much filters are applied for a while.

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By *ifeforelivingMan
2 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

2 if I'm lucky

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By *r.and.Mrs.DSCouple
2 weeks ago

N. Wales

On here, not that many when the filters are on. Maybe just a few messages a day with people I like, which is a shame but hey ho. Elsewhere, I message throughout the day with people. Love a more fluid convo

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By *oomerangbobMan
2 weeks ago

stanhope

I think I can round it down to 0 😐

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By *oredhorny42Man
2 weeks ago

stirling

"If I remove my ball busting profile txt 80+ currently 10/25.

I think the points clearer now. I'm not looking for assholes to message me. I'm beyond tired of the frauds on here so I stopped playing nice.

I know what I love to do and show and I'm not settling for mediocre just because it's a "sex site"."

Abso-fuckin-lutely dont settle for mediocre!!!

Im just happy you've not blocked me so i can perv on occasion

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By *tevenTellyCouple
2 weeks ago

Newmarket

If we are active and online 10-15. If we haven't been on very much around 5.

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By *tevenTellyCouple
2 weeks ago

Newmarket

But when we head to London on the weekend about 10 an hour lol.

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By *elloWoman
2 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Around a hundred if I've just logged on, several hundred if I've uploaded a photo

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

Zero to three

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
2 weeks ago

Home

Feck All

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By *enelope2UWoman
2 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

"If I remove my ball busting profile txt 80+ currently 10/25.

I think the points clearer now. I'm not looking for assholes to message me. I'm beyond tired of the frauds on here so I stopped playing nice.

I know what I love to do and show and I'm not settling for mediocre just because it's a "sex site".

Abso-fuckin-lutely dont settle for mediocre!!!

Im just happy you've not blocked me so i can perv on occasion

Lol you're not an asshole.. I'm not that bad, I value respect and you've never caused any disrespect so happy perving away.

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By *elman15Man
2 weeks ago

Farnham

We meant to receive private messages??? 😳😋

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
2 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"My filters are set at 99-99 so hardly any, just the way I like it

I know, Captain Tom relished that year with you Coooooookie. He would often recount tales of all the smut you used to message him. But then he sadly hit 100 and you dropped him like a stone. Then he passed. Probably lonely. I hope you can live with yourself?

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By *EAT..85Woman
2 weeks ago

Nottingham

0 as my filters are usually locked down. The odd one from old chats pop up now and then. If I open my settings about one message every 2 minutes for the first couple of hours of being online. Then it starts to die down a bit.

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By *929Man
2 weeks ago

northumberland

Zero haha

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By *eyond PurityCouple
2 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We get quite a few messages as we tend to post a pic daily but very few are the type of messages we prefer to receive 😬

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By *eordielad75Man
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

None unfortunately

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By *aomilatteCouple
2 weeks ago

Midlands

"Mine fluctuates, mostly only picks up when I'm on the forums and people respond via private messaging or people I message. I'm sure couples and women get absolutely swamped though. "

We've had one in the last week, not yet swamped

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By *obilebottomMan
2 weeks ago

All over

Just putting the numbers on a spreadsheet to see what sverage I get

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Between 1 and 5 at the moment I like it when it's quiet like that

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By *TRAY-CATMan
2 weeks ago

dundee

ZERO , NIL ,ZILCH, NADDA..

SWEET FANNY ADAMS

I think that abouts sums it up ... ...

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By *exxyyDy11 OP Man
2 weeks ago

North West

"Just putting the numbers on a spreadsheet to see what sverage I get

Hahahahah this made me laugh 😂

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By *ookie46Woman
2 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"My filters are set at 99-99 so hardly any, just the way I like it

It’s a cross I have to bear

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By *iFruityCoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Lagos Portugal/ Watermouth

"Between 1 and 5 at the moment I like it when it's quiet like that"

That's manageable, when there are too many there is a temptation to delete all, but then watch about the diamond that gets deleted. So normally it's read first line without opening. Which means you better make the first line right

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By *tevi00Man
2 weeks ago

Peterborough

Very few from my target audience of women and m/f couples

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"Between 1 and 5 at the moment I like it when it's quiet like that

I usually do that sadly rarely get any diamonds

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By *obilebottomMan
2 weeks ago

All over

"Just putting the numbers on a spreadsheet to see what sverage I get

Hahahahah this made me laugh 😂"

Well it makes things easier if I want to see other things like standard deviation or normal distribution, flattened curves etc.

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By *BWHunterMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool Street, London

Zero

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
2 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

Too many to count, I usually just block delete each evening

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By *attering_ramMan
2 weeks ago

near you

From people I don’t want : 56363500

From people i actually want: 1-3

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By *ove2lickMan
2 weeks ago

Sheffield

Lucky if I get 5 the most about 20

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
2 weeks ago

Excommunicdo.

Depends how many conversations I’m having.

Probably 50-60 daily

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By *ornyStallion2023Man
2 weeks ago

Leicester

"Average probably fluctuates between 0 and 0.2 😂😂"

lol so true 😂

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By *rAitchMan
2 weeks ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

On average, 0.00274 per day (1 message per year!)

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By *achelTheAnalSlutTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Haywards Heath

I've never actually counted before, but I've had 48 so far today...

The difficulty I have is converting some of those chats into actual meets

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By *andadbodMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

about 3 a mont maximum 👍🏻😃

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
2 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"My filters are set at 99-99 so hardly any, just the way I like it

It’s a cross I have to bear

I'm going to be trawling fab to look for anyone in their very late 90s and send them your way. If I don't see you taking advantage of this I will be disappointed.

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By *i_alternative_coupleCouple
2 weeks ago

cradley

We generally get between 40-70 a day somewhere days it goes mental if we have been active on forums or statuses etc

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By *abluesbabyMan
2 weeks ago

Gibraltar/Cheshire/London

Daily I couldn't say. I get maybe 2 or 3 per month.

Have been here as a couple in the past and we would get maybe a dozen a day waiting for us each time we logged on.

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By *r MacksMan
2 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

A couple a week if I'm lucky, mostly single me though.

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By *orningGlory555Man
2 weeks ago

Wells

I’m with 99% of the men on here with a 3 pr 4 0.something on average and that includes the responses to messages I have sent…

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By *oberts_onMan
2 weeks ago

King's Lynn

How many a day?? Christ, I'd be lucky if I get any in a week

And then it's just from a man, just saying hi

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By *adtaffladMan
2 weeks ago

Rhyl

That's easy to work out as its zero

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By *ustamanMan
2 weeks ago

weymouth

0.00000000000001. I do get them but they're a rarity

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By *atte Lover 82Man
2 weeks ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED

It fluctuates. Quite often 0 but lately it's picked up to a few a day.

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By *oobieTrapWoman
2 weeks ago

london

"Mine fluctuates, mostly only picks up when I'm on the forums and people respond via private messaging or people I message. I'm sure couples and women get absolutely swamped though. "

Perhaps around 100-200

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By *rank.blackMan
2 weeks ago

Woolwich

Two since I joined. Two answers to my messages - one woman told me I'm not her type and I appreciate she replied and second also answering to my message asked me what's wrong with me when I told her I'm looking for some fun and pleasure (this is why we all here) and I mentioned I'm not interested in blowjob and anal

The rest of my messages are deleted or read, and that's it.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

One million messages.

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By *oopy FroodMan
2 weeks ago

Orbiting Planet Rupert

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By *oopy FroodMan
2 weeks ago

Orbiting Planet Rupert

I love being unpopular

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By *ertcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Hatfield

We get one a fortnight if lucky!!! That's no joke

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By *hubby11977Man
2 weeks ago

Pontypridd

Zero on average

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By *asty tatsyMan
2 weeks ago

london

I dont receive any unless I’m in a thread that requires messaging

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
2 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

More than 10 but less than 100.

Usually lots if we post a new pic!

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By *estgalwayguyMan
2 weeks ago

Galway

30plus ever day

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By *eeshellsCouple
2 weeks ago

Reading

"More than 10 but less than 100.

Usually lots if we post a new pic!"

This. Put a pic yesterday and it snowballed. Even couples sending friend requests who we'd never spoken to (blocked now).

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
2 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"More than 10 but less than 100.

Usually lots if we post a new pic!

This. Put a pic yesterday and it snowballed. Even couples sending friend requests who we'd never spoken to (blocked now). "

Asking about the net curtains?

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By *elsbells2011Couple
2 weeks ago

fife

Anywhere between 10-50 a day depending how active we are on forums. If we post photo or video usually goes mad for few days. We’ve posted a few stories in the story forum and that’s just wild end up well into the 100s of messages no way can keep up

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By *eeshellsCouple
2 weeks ago

Reading

"More than 10 but less than 100.

Usually lots if we post a new pic!

This. Put a pic yesterday and it snowballed. Even couples sending friend requests who we'd never spoken to (blocked now).

Asking about the net curtains?"

It was the 2 girls on the sofa

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By *Bag69Man
2 weeks ago

Derby

On average it's anywhere between zero and none.

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By *arialoueWoman
2 weeks ago

bradford

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
2 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"More than 10 but less than 100.

Usually lots if we post a new pic!

This. Put a pic yesterday and it snowballed. Even couples sending friend requests who we'd never spoken to (blocked now).

Asking about the net curtains?

It was the 2 girls on the sofa

A very nice pic and I couldn't even get a puerile joke in about something in the background 😂

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By *urry BlokeMan
2 weeks ago

None

There's not much love out there for short, fat, older blokes - let alone ones with no pics, who say they aren't meeting

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By *JCRoseWoman
2 weeks ago

Caversham

At the moment it is 10 to 20+ messages and these are new people or people that have not read of I delete it's a no thank you.

It does seem to fluctuate tho, the more I am in forums, we chat/cams or a new verification it goes up. I currently sitting on 267 unread

. I just can't keep up replying to all of them.

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By *arrenhertsmanMan
2 weeks ago

Hatfield

Excuse me whilst I get my calculator out …

If we discount messages to self …. Roughly ….

Nil

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By *orbidden eastMan
2 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

Absolutely zero, but that is not a surprise because of the ratios

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By *atgirl and RobinCouple
2 weeks ago

Durham

Today? Around a dozen. When we open the filters up for single guys too? On a normal day maybe 30-40, on days where we've uploaded new pics though I think the most has been about 250

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By *ositiveVibesWoman
2 weeks ago

here there and everywhere

"Absolutely zero, but that is not a surprise because of the ratios "

Oi! You get at least one 😂😂

I don’t get any at the moment cos my profile is hidden… make it public and on a slow day, about 50, a day where I upload a pic or be very active on the forums it’s over 100😳

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By *orbidden eastMan
2 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

"Absolutely zero, but that is not a surprise because of the ratios

Oi! You get at least one 😂😂

I don’t get any at the moment cos my profile is hidden… make it public and on a slow day, about 50, a day where I upload a pic or be very active on the forums it’s over 100😳"

I stand corrected 🤣🤣🤣

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By *layfullsamMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull

"Average probably fluctuates between 0 and 0.2 😂😂"

Ffs I hate show offs

lol

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By *orace99Man
2 weeks ago

York

People can send you messages on here?

🤔

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Chichester

200-300 I guess if a photo gets in hot spot of main page then it just melts 1000+ for like 30 hours

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By *orphia2003Woman
2 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

1-10 on average.

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By *hagTonightMan
2 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

Usually none, sometimes it can be 1 or 2 a week.

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By *penmindedmascMan
2 weeks ago

essex

Anywhere from a few a week to a few a day. Depends how active I've been

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By *antricSeeker60Man
2 weeks ago

Durham

Anything between 10 to 20 depending upon the level of conversation that’s happening.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
2 weeks ago

Maidstone

A couple. Not many really

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By *ikeHawkenerMan
2 weeks ago

Used to get between 5 and 10 on average a day

Seen a massive change since not being active

Now it’s the so called straight men locally saying “Hi” or “meet now” and checking me out from any veris

Us men definitely get off lightly with the the number of messages the Mrs gets on hers…..madness

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I've had 4 today not counting friends. I can't imagine why someone would message a blank profile.

My average is about 6 a week

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By *an8iMan
2 weeks ago

Bilston

Maybe one every couple of days if I'm lucky

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By *uziTV69TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

Usually none, although if I post some pics I might get about a dozen messages

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By *ustBoWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Between none and two. Usually the former thank goodness.

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By *reuup4itMan
2 weeks ago

pinhoe

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By *igbustedmilfWoman
2 weeks ago

Maidstone

Just had a count up of the conversations from today and there are 52 but that’s not accounting for deleted messages

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By *obilebottomMan
2 weeks ago

All over

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By *orthern StarsCouple
2 weeks ago

Durham

Maybe 1 or 2. Some days we don't receive any though.

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By *dam1971Man
2 weeks ago

Bedford

If it’s one of those “send someone on here a message” posts I get one or two, otherwise maybe one every month or two, usually from a bloke and it will say “Hi”

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By *akequeen90Couple
2 weeks ago

Sydney

3 to 5

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By *oeBeansMan
2 weeks ago

Derby

Usually 1 or 2 every day consistently. I once had it go up to 8 in a day I was in the office and couldn't check Fab and felt very overwhelmed 🥺

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By *riar BelisseWoman
2 weeks ago

Bliss

Maybe a couple if I'm chatting on the forums, my strict filters protect me from random messages

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By *a LunaWoman
2 weeks ago

South Wales

3 or 4 from new folk a day

I tend to get more daily messages from regular contacts though.

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

None from new people. About half a dozen ongoing conversations

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By *punk n gushCouple
2 weeks ago

deal

Very few when at home seem to attract more when on holiday

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By *umagain58Man
2 weeks ago

London

Varies a lot. Some weeks none but then get nice surprise from a few. Lots of naughty fun

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By *ucka39Man
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

Does it count if I'm using the forums and receiving from other platforms 🤣

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By *rHotNottsMan
2 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Hardly any these days, get the odd wink and occasional message. i’m not sure why because on the rare occasion I send messages, I almost always get replies & the majority I end up meeting. Often people tell me they’ve liked me for ages as well….

Guess I am just scary

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Just a few from existing friends. I have my filters up max, so no new ones at the moment.

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
2 weeks ago

Bristol

Two or three usually, from a select few friends I have ongoing conversations with

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By *igboobstCouple
2 weeks ago

barrow

3 or 4 maybe

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
2 weeks ago

The last house on the left…

2 in over 7years

They quickly lost interest

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
2 weeks ago

Oldham

None. And I rounded this up.

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By *ustforfun1759Couple
2 weeks ago

IRVINE

In a typical day around 20 messages a day mrs

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By *ingerie DreamerMan
2 weeks ago

telford

"None. And I rounded this up. "
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lol. Love it!

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
2 weeks ago

Wherever

5-10

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By *irmac13Man
2 weeks ago

edinburgh

0 😂

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
2 weeks ago

Perpignan and cap

One a day generally, Depending on who I'm talking to.

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
2 weeks ago

Louth

I'd say 1 or less as an average.

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By *ypersoonMan
2 weeks ago

WHITCHURCH, Shropshire

A extreme rarity I get approached

last time someone contacted me first was soon after New Year's Day this year. Prior to that, December 28th 2024....

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By *vaRose43Woman
2 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

My filters are locked down now so only a few. It was over 100 and it was ridiculous

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By *fffunCouple
2 weeks ago

Never you mind

Zero before we went on cam... Zilch...nadda...Now when on about 8 still low compared to others.. But least not 0. We have filters on so only get msgs from what weaare looking for

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Maybe 8 to 10. Not many really.

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By *ornycougaWoman
2 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Hardly any since I blocked all single guys from messaging

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By *ndateable700Man
2 weeks ago

Shropshire

I was trying to work out my averages , but stats are mean

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Motherwell

About 6 to 8 , more if I put new pictures up , if I go on the meet today towards the end of the week it goes higher again. Majority I filter out and usually there are less than 6 genuine people who want to meet. Mx

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By *heshireguy99Man
2 weeks ago

Northwich

Mostly 0 but the occasional one from friends

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
2 weeks ago

Gloucester

Maybe one a week.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
2 weeks ago

Waterford

Very few

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By *leaningdutiesMan
2 weeks ago

South London

On average 0.5 per day

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By *antassack889Man
2 weeks ago

Ware

It's hard enough to get a reply let alone a message lol

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By *ndy8440Man
2 weeks ago

Sunderland

A big fat 0 in 9 weeks 🤷‍♂️

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By *parkle1974Woman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

Depends...if I put a new pic up then it could be anywhere from 10 to 100 x

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By *oughmanMan
2 weeks ago

Sunderland

None, zero, zilch. And that's okay.

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By *utualMan
2 weeks ago

Bawtry

A massive 2 or 3

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By *each BenMan
2 weeks ago

swansea

Quite a few but unfortunately mainly from guys!

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By *ase4122Man
2 weeks ago

Lancashire

Zero, and that's because my filters set to only women and cpls

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By *D666KellyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Dublin

Between 6 and 10 usually.

It does depend how active I am.

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By *2teleMan
2 weeks ago

Stirlingshire

It varies from zero some days to none on occasion. Most days is fuck all though

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By *andPextraCouple
2 weeks ago

North West

Post a new pic- 10-15 that day.

Don't post a new pic 0-3 on average

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By *urvelover87Man
2 weeks ago

London

Zero if I am just lurking in the forums/ browsing.

It multiplies by 10 if I send messages or post something.

Sigh.

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By *winkyNerdMan
2 weeks ago

Manchester

I'd probably say about 3. Sometimes more, sometimes less. Mostly all from men though

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By *itty N CremeCouple
2 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

2 or 3 but the horny people come out at the weekend

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By *xperiencing-newCouple
2 weeks ago

Nottingham

If we cam or add a photo then we seem to get more!

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By *layfullsamMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull

On average mmmmmmm let me think

0 plus zero = 0

0 divided by 2 = a big fat zero

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By *he Randy ReverendMan
2 weeks ago

Northampton

Think most men will be 0 maybe 1

Women I'm sure get absolutely bombarded!!

I might get lucky and get 1 every so often

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By *k_123Man
2 weeks ago

the north

2 or 3 depending how often I’m online

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By *xxMandLxxxCouple
2 weeks ago

Southampton

Two or three but we do have fairly tight filters.

Fabs is around 30 per day.

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By *ray_BTWMan
2 weeks ago

Worcester

On average 2 to 3.

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