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By *et-n-warm-suck-n-fuck OP   Man
over a year ago

withywood

How do you deal with performance anxiety or body image issues in the bedroom?

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By *attooedlad199521Man
over a year ago

near

Nah not really just think fuck it , it is what it is life’s to short to worry about stupid shit

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By *ilva69Man
over a year ago

stockport

I’m here to help any husbands just take a seat at the back of the bedroom whilst I do the rest

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By *attooedlad199521Man
over a year ago

near


"I’m here to help any husbands just take a seat at the back of the bedroom whilst I do the rest"

💪💪💪

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s really about how you feel about yourself not what you think others think about you fabbers come in all shapes and sizes with no hang ups

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Trust in your partner. Pressure inevitably leads to failure. Slow and steady wins the race 🤓

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

For me, suck it up. Realise the person is there with me because they like my body and focus on that. Performance is less of an issue for girls though.

I've known plenty of men have performance issues in the bedroom. It only bothers me when they get in their head and stress out about it. I'm happy to do other fun things while that part isn't up for playing 💜

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how much it affects you. If it's sabotaging your sex life significantly then therapy might be worth considering.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Bradford and Stockport

I often find my brain gets in the way of my body cooperating properly. Sexual arousal increases awareness of that part of my body being the wrong kind, killing the arousal... Turns into a race between brain and body but too often body can't get over the finishing line ☹️ Viagra can help, but not always enough as it's primarily a mental problem not physical.

But at least I can use other means to ensure that the gorgeous person next to me gets to her finishing line, and for me that's the main thing ❤️

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By *avid 50Man
over a year ago

kendal

I would agree a mental problem but it's also exacerbated by the need to please and speed, never have a problem when there's no time restriction and you can enjoy foreplay and things come to life, if you're wanting a quickie things go wrong.

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