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By *over of ladies OP   Man
24 weeks ago

cannock

This really fries my brain,when a profile says must have face pic,yet they don't have one. What's that about????

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By *over of ladies OP   Man
24 weeks ago

cannock


"This really fries my brain,when a profile says must have face pic,yet they don't have one. What's that about????"

If you make it to my friends list you will see face pics

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By *ngel7disguiseWoman
24 weeks ago

Loughborough


"This really fries my brain,when a profile says must have face pic,yet they don't have one. What's that about????"

Maybe they mean if you interact (message) that you much have a face picture to provide!

If you don’t want to provide one, that’s fine, just move onto the next profile.

I ask for a face photo… if I like what I see, I send one in return.

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By *upanovaMan
24 weeks ago

Sheffield


"This really fries my brain,when a profile says must have face pic,yet they don't have one. What's that about????

Maybe they mean if you interact (message) that you much have a face picture to provide!

If you don’t want to provide one, that’s fine, just move onto the next profile.

I ask for a face photo… if I like what I see, I send one in return.

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Makes sense to me. I think sharing after a few messages is only fair

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
24 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"This really fries my brain,when a profile says must have face pic,yet they don't have one. What's that about????"

Sending a face picture privately is a very different scenario to having it publicly on the profile 💜

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By *over of ladies OP   Man
24 weeks ago

cannock


"This really fries my brain,when a profile says must have face pic,yet they don't have one. What's that about????

Maybe they mean if you interact (message) that you much have a face picture to provide!

If you don’t want to provide one, that’s fine, just move onto the next profile.

I ask for a face photo… if I like what I see, I send one in return.

Makes sense to me. I think sharing after a few messages is only fair"

Makes sense after a few messages yes I agree,but if your insisting on your profile must have face pic,then at least have one yourself

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By *oiluvfunMan
24 weeks ago

Penrith


"This really fries my brain,when a profile says must have face pic,yet they don't have one. What's that about????"

It’s very common in here mate, as in; the guy has to ‘go first’……..welcome to Fab!

I won’t ever send a face pic to an unverified profile mind…….

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By *exxyyDy11Man
24 weeks ago

North West

People ask for a face pic to determine the level of attraction on here. Otherwise it will be back and forth. Also don't forget most people are only on here for one thing.

I've just face pics in the past and it is 50/50, convos carries on or they either ignore, state I'm not their type or in some cases they block. It is just fab sadly.

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By *w funwifeWoman
24 weeks ago

near taunton

i have a simple rule if you message me first then you provid the face/body pic first and of course if i like ill send one back.

if i message you then ill provide my face pic first and if the like or want to chat further provied their pics.

no pics within 2 or 3 messages then blocked

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By *naswingdressWoman
24 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

If you message them, you are expected to share a face picture in private.

You don't want to, because they haven't shared a face picture with everyone on Fab.

I don't know why this is difficult. You're asking them to do a much bigger thing and think you're the one being put out.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago


"This really fries my brain,when a profile says must have face pic,yet they don't have one. What's that about????

Maybe they mean if you interact (message) that you much have a face picture to provide!

If you don’t want to provide one, that’s fine, just move onto the next profile.

I ask for a face photo… if I like what I see, I send one in return.

Makes sense to me. I think sharing after a few messages is only fair

Makes sense after a few messages yes I agree,but if your insisting on your profile must have face pic,then at least have one yourself"

I insist on a facepic, if someone messages me i expect one early on if not with the 1st message, same if i message them i send mine... i dont have one on my profile

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By *over of ladies OP   Man
24 weeks ago

cannock


"If you message them, you are expected to share a face picture in private.

You don't want to, because they haven't shared a face picture with everyone on Fab.

I don't know why this is difficult. You're asking them to do a much bigger thing and think you're the one being put out."

I don't think I'm being put out at all I just don't get it,if they say add a face pic to message that's cool.

Must just be my interpretation of must have face pic

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By *eroLondonMan
24 weeks ago

Covent Garden

They are fully entitled to express their demands, preferences and rules of engagement.

Personally, I just bypass those profiles entirely.

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By *ucka39Man
24 weeks ago

Newcastle

Makes no one superior if don't have any visible themselves just pass them by

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By *naswingdressWoman
24 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If you message them, you are expected to share a face picture in private.

You don't want to, because they haven't shared a face picture with everyone on Fab.

I don't know why this is difficult. You're asking them to do a much bigger thing and think you're the one being put out.

I don't think I'm being put out at all I just don't get it,if they say add a face pic to message that's cool.

Must just be my interpretation of must have face pic"

That is generally what "must have face picture" means - attach it to your first message.

When people complain about this, they often complain that the recipient doesn't have a public face picture.

Someone has to take the first risk. Sending to one person (or two, if a couple)_is less risky than putting it out in public for tens of thousands of people.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
24 weeks ago

North West

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By *ad NannaWoman
24 weeks ago

East London

I won't send a face pic until I've seen one. I've had ex in-laws and friends' children message me, and I've been followed home by someone who I sent a face pic to, who recognised me in the street.

I know I'm not going to cause trouble for any man whose face I see on here, if I know them.

I'm not confident they wouldn't offer me the same level of respect.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
24 weeks ago

North West

From now on... no face pics from me. Only a close up pic of Darth Vader.

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By *over of ladies OP   Man
24 weeks ago

cannock

I'd send you a face pic but would get blocked lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
24 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I won't send a face pic until I've seen one. I've had ex in-laws and friends' children message me, and I've been followed home by someone who I sent a face pic to, who recognised me in the street.

I know I'm not going to cause trouble for any man whose face I see on here, if I know them.

I'm not confident they wouldn't offer me the same level of respect.

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Yes. I'm sure *most* men would be respectful, but I've had enough disrespectful intrusive messages that I'm wary. (I don't ask for a face photo initially)

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By *issmorganWoman
24 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It's a good filter op, many ladies get loads of messages, so want to know if there's attraction early on.It saves them wasting time.

People can ask for whatever they want in their profiles, as long as it's not offensive etc.

Just don't message people who have that on their bio, if you're not happy to send a face pic though.

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By *ealitybitesMan
24 weeks ago

Belfast

I've never contacted a profile that had any form of demand or specific request on it.

I don't have face pics on the site and never have done and I don't send face pics full stop.

Even if I did it's down to the person asking to send one first.

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By *over of ladies OP   Man
24 weeks ago

cannock

I always thought they meant on the profiles not as in on first message that does make sense,like I said my interpretation of what is written

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By *ngel7disguiseWoman
24 weeks ago

Loughborough


"i have a simple rule if you message me first then you provid the face/body pic first and of course if i like ill send one back.

if i message you then ill provide my face pic first and if the like or want to chat further provied their pics.

no pics within 2 or 3 messages then blocked "

🙌🙌

This is the face photo etiquette I go by, I think it’s perfect!

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By *naswingdressWoman
24 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I always thought they meant on the profiles not as in on first message that does make sense,like I said my interpretation of what is written "

If anyone demands a face photo in public, then they're delusional. But I don't think that's what they mean

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Fries my brain that people don’t understand that some profile owners wanna see who they’re speaking to, and to establish an initial attraction before deciding whether to continue or not.

Fabs a piece of piss!

I make first contact, I add a face photo. The recipient can choose to reply or not based on what they see. No dramas.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
24 weeks ago

East Sussex

Don't let it get your brain, just pass by.

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By *upanovaMan
24 weeks ago

Sheffield


"This really fries my brain,when a profile says must have face pic,yet they don't have one. What's that about????

Maybe they mean if you interact (message) that you much have a face picture to provide!

If you don’t want to provide one, that’s fine, just move onto the next profile.

I ask for a face photo… if I like what I see, I send one in return.

Makes sense to me. I think sharing after a few messages is only fair

Makes sense after a few messages yes I agree,but if your insisting on your profile must have face pic,then at least have one yourself"

I see your point.

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By *ife NinjaMan
24 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I send one with the first message. Cuts to the chase if they don't fancy you. It's not blind date 🤓

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By *an8iMan
24 weeks ago

Bilston

I have no problem sending a face pic first to prove I'm genuine

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By *exxyyDy11Man
24 weeks ago

North West


"Fries my brain that people don’t understand that some profile owners wanna see who they’re speaking to, and to establish an initial attraction before deciding whether to continue or not.

Fabs a piece of piss!

I make first contact, I add a face photo. The recipient can choose to reply or not based on what they see. No dramas. "

Could be drama. Could be a cliffhanger Corrie style.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago


"Fries my brain that people don’t understand that some profile owners wanna see who they’re speaking to, and to establish an initial attraction before deciding whether to continue or not.

Fabs a piece of piss!

I make first contact, I add a face photo. The recipient can choose to reply or not based on what they see. No dramas.

Could be drama. Could be a cliffhanger Corrie style. "

Nah, I delete the sent message so never know what happens to it.

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By *igers tigerMan
24 weeks ago

high up in


"This really fries my brain,when a profile says must have face pic,yet they don't have one. What's that about????

Maybe they mean if you interact (message) that you much have a face picture to provide!

If you don’t want to provide one, that’s fine, just move onto the next profile.

I ask for a face photo… if I like what I see, I send one in return.

"

I agree, always read the profile because the way it’s out and worded with give you an idea . I mean there’s discretion and perfect reason to hold back pictures, And i respect that totally. Then if you ask and they say it’s for privacy but will share pics further on once comfortable, I admire that in a way but then there are some members who are straight up vague and weird and just get my ginger ninja senses all tingly . One red flag I’m gone . Fab safe all x

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By *2000ManMan
24 weeks ago

Worthing


"This really fries my brain,when a profile says must have face pic,yet they don't have one. What's that about????"

To see if you are similar to "him on the telly". Don't underestimate this!

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