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do nice guys finish last?? especially on fab?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

would you say guys who are nice and polite finish last?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think guys who are "nice" but are actually total dickheads finish last especially on here.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
over a year ago

North West

Guys who see being 'nice and polite' as something worthy of a gold sticker rather than the bare minimum finish last. Performative niceness is the biggest red flag of all.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Guys who see being 'nice and polite' as something worthy of a gold sticker rather than the bare minimum finish last. Performative niceness is the biggest red flag of all. "

Agreed.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I think guys whos only selling point is that they're not immediately obvious as raging arseholes should probably work out why they think a fraction of the bare minimum of a tolerable human should be enough to drop some knickers 💜

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

At this stage I'm convinced you're writing a self help book.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"At this stage I'm convinced you're writing a self help book. "

I think a self-help book based on Fab would be pretty entertaining.

I wouldn't recommend following it, but I'll sit back with the popcorn while someone else does.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"would you say guys who are nice and polite finish last? "

Last but one, those with no profile description and no photos come very last

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By *enk15Man
over a year ago

Evesham

Is it a race?

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By *oughmanMan
over a year ago

Sunderland

After seeing how some of these self proclaimed nice guys behave, I take it as an insult when someone says I'm a nice person now.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"After seeing how some of these self proclaimed nice guys behave, I take it as an insult when someone says I'm a nice person now."

Nice Guy TM is a stereotype for a reason.

Not all etc, but it's a thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys who don't put any effort in and just expect pussy to roll in come last

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By *a1970Man
over a year ago

East cork

Nope..... Its not a race

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you do get a meeting on here it must be akin to finding Willy Wonks's Golden Ticket.

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By *effdelightMan
over a year ago

Grimsby

Best lover I've ever had... I nearly always finish last.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Nice = boring

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By *effdelightMan
over a year ago

Grimsby


"I think guys whos only selling point is that they're not immediately obvious as raging arseholes should probably work out why they think a fraction of the bare minimum of a tolerable human should be enough to drop some knickers 💜"

This is hot as fuck. I like how you see this

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
over a year ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

I believe?☝🏽…No. That doesn’t apply on Fab.

Ya see, the appeal of Playas & FuckBoys IRL is the fact that they’re vibrant, unreliable, exciting and women want them - Nice Guys aren’t.

But meeting someone on Fab already puts a lady in a vulnerable position. So the last thing they want is to feel unsafe. I personally think the “nice guy” can thrive here.

DATSJUSMEDOH 🤷🏽‍♂️

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

No idea….. I guess it depends what you mean by nice guys, the ones who think of themselves as nice guys, probably because they are entitled dicks normally, the genuine nice guys probably not.

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By *arrickrealMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I’m nice.

I win.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I believe?☝🏽…No. That doesn’t apply on Fab.

Ya see, the appeal of Playas & FuckBoys IRL is the fact that they’re vibrant, unreliable, exciting and women want them - Nice Guys aren’t.

"

I’m not so sure I agree with this. That women are drawn to unreliable or inconsistent , or that all there’s any connection between being, vibrant exciting and unreliable.

If you were to turn this round and say why are guys drawn to bad girls or more specifically when something really good comes along most guys run a mile the answer is glaringly obvious

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"I’m nice.

I win.

"

No one cares if you're nice with a cock like that Carrick 🙄💜

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Being nice may get you involved in sex but the rest is how you are able to control yourself

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By *arrickrealMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I’m nice.

I win.

No one cares if you're nice with a cock like that Carrick 🙄💜"

Nice toys. Do they hurt a little?

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
over a year ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…


"I believe?☝🏽…No. That doesn’t apply on Fab.

Ya see, the appeal of Playas & FuckBoys IRL is the fact that they’re vibrant, unreliable, exciting and women want them - Nice Guys aren’t.

I’m not so sure I agree with this. That women are drawn to unreliable or inconsistent , or that all there’s any connection between being, vibrant exciting and unreliable.

If you were to turn this round and say why are guys drawn to bad girls or more specifically when something really good comes along most guys run a mile the answer is glaringly obvious"

N-n-n-no. Men are not drawn to Bad Girls, the same way women are drawn to Bad Boys.

But we are drawn to Crazy Chicks

Admit it

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I believe?☝🏽…No. That doesn’t apply on Fab.

Ya see, the appeal of Playas & FuckBoys IRL is the fact that they’re vibrant, unreliable, exciting and women want them - Nice Guys aren’t.

I’m not so sure I agree with this. That women are drawn to unreliable or inconsistent , or that all there’s any connection between being, vibrant exciting and unreliable.

If you were to turn this round and say why are guys drawn to bad girls or more specifically when something really good comes along most guys run a mile the answer is glaringly obvious

N-n-n-no. Men are not drawn to Bad Girls, the same way women are drawn to Bad Boys.

But we are drawn to Crazy Chicks

Admit it "

Of course!

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By *ig_belly_grrrlWoman
over a year ago

Finchley

This is a wave to anyone who came on here because they saw the 'Nice Guy' on MAFS Australia.

We know what's up.

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By *uchessdoeWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Polite guys should always finish after I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes because it’s only polite

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By *rjay224Man
over a year ago

midlands

I always have to Finnish last if not your not doing it right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Polite guys should always finish after I do. "

Oh. Same mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guaranteed she coming first like bolt in the Olympics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes because it’s only polite "

If I say please may I finish last. Does that work?

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"Yes because it’s only polite

If I say please may I finish last. Does that work? "

Oh most definitely

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