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"I think that would mean not a crazy/possessive type maybe? Basically not a danger to society😂" I would agree sadly not always the case  | |||
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"Those "guys" you speak of are proffering to be 'hinged' as opposed to unhinged, of which there are many on here of the opposite sex. 😉" I don't disagree with you, I rarely get messages off females I guess we all have different likes, dislikes but that's not what I mean by normal | |||
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"Typical, average, within societally acceptable bounds. I don't think you can deem yourself normal. It's up to others" I'd like to think I'm normalish but that's the question define normal  | |||
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"Typical, average, within societally acceptable bounds. I don't think you can deem yourself normal. It's up to others" Yes, this - it's what people believe society deems as normal, whereas my normal might be completely different (and more interesting  ) | |||
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"I think that would mean not a crazy/possessive type maybe? Basically not a danger to society😂 I would agree sadly not always the case "Yeah that’s the thing, it’s something that can only be proven with time rather than ‘claimed’ I think. | |||
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"The ones that usually say it tend not to be!" This - those are the ones to watch out for! | |||
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"I often get guys saying they are normal, so define normal? " It usually means dull. If there was a filter for normal I'd have it on. | |||
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"I often get guys saying they are normal, so define normal? Everyone's normal is different "Nope, nothing normal about me.       | |||
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"The polar opposite to me  "Is it bi? | |||
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"I often get guys saying they are normal, so define normal? It usually means dull. If there was a filter for normal I'd have it on. " I think it goes the other way too. Those who try really hard to distance themselves from what might be perceived as normal. Those that are so different and by extension interesting.... usually aren't. | |||
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"I often get guys saying they are normal, so define normal? It usually means dull. If there was a filter for normal I'd have it on. I think it goes the other way too. Those who try really hard to distance themselves from what might be perceived as normal. Those that are so different and by extension interesting.... usually aren't. " Completely agree. I'm not normal. 99% of the population aren't trans. There's no getting away from it and I'm not hiding, so it's a point if interest and a conversation that has to be had with prospective partners but it's not my whole life. There's plenty of other things that make me me. There's also a hell of a lot of people for whom their transition is their whole personality. That goes for a lot of people though - their jobs, hobbies, the book they've just read. If you've only got one thing to talk about it doesn't matter how unusual or "abnormal", I'm sorry but I'm gonna start yawning eventually. | |||
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"I often get guys saying they are normal, so define normal? It usually means dull. If there was a filter for normal I'd have it on. I think it goes the other way too. Those who try really hard to distance themselves from what might be perceived as normal. Those that are so different and by extension interesting.... usually aren't. Completely agree. I'm not normal. 99% of the population aren't trans. There's no getting away from it and I'm not hiding, so it's a point if interest and a conversation that has to be had with prospective partners but it's not my whole life. There's plenty of other things that make me me. There's also a hell of a lot of people for whom their transition is their whole personality. That goes for a lot of people though - their jobs, hobbies, the book they've just read. If you've only got one thing to talk about it doesn't matter how unusual or "abnormal", I'm sorry but I'm gonna start yawning eventually." Can I just say keep being you. Being different doesn't mean to me you aren't normal! You are you, you are unique as we all are even if we have differences again doesn't make you not normal x  | |||
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"I often get guys saying they are normal, so define normal? It usually means dull. If there was a filter for normal I'd have it on. I think it goes the other way too. Those who try really hard to distance themselves from what might be perceived as normal. Those that are so different and by extension interesting.... usually aren't. " I think that's very true. | |||
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" Can I just say keep being you. Being different doesn't mean to me you aren't normal! You are you, you are unique as we all are even if we have differences again doesn't make you not normal x "Thank you for the kind words | |||
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"Majority of people who say they are not normal are as dullas ditch water. Majority of people fit under the umbrella as normal whether they like it or not. I'm happy to be normal" My dishwater currently has spicy sauce floating on top and bubbles in it, I'm happy with that | |||
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"No such thing. Each persons definition of normal is coloured by their own experiences and what others around them have told them. There is such a thing as social norms. A collective set of unwritten rules that as a society we agree to in general." I agree | |||
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"I often get guys saying they are normal, so define normal? Everyone's normal is different "Maybe what they perceive to be the average behaviour of others. To be honest, sounds a little boring. I guess when it comes to behaviour it may in some respects better being average joe that some lunatic. He but how many head the balls did you meet that said ‘I’m ahead the ball’? 😂 | |||
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