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By *istyblue1967 OP   Man
25 weeks ago

manchester

my lady friend suggested last night

that she would like to wear a strap on and peg me

i am a little wary of this

only had the doctors finger up there !!!

do they do small size strap on cock ???

i have a slightly enlarged prostate too

is it safe

tia x

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

You'll be astonished at how much you can get up there without realising!

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By *alandNitaCouple
25 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Some studies suggest that massaging the prostate may help to temporarily relieve the common symptoms of an enlarged prostate.

The general advice is: If you feel pain or discomfort, then stop.

Cal

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By *istyblue1967 OP   Man
25 weeks ago

manchester

ok thanks

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By *ympho6969Woman
25 weeks ago

glasgow

My advice would be to start smaller than any toy attached to a strap on. A finger or 2. Maybe a butt plug (small) and work up to a a strain, trusting etc.

No need to jump in the deep end right away

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
25 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane


"my lady friend suggested last night

that she would like to wear a strap on and peg me

i am a little wary of this

only had the doctors finger up there !!!

do they do small size strap on cock ???

i have a slightly enlarged prostate too

is it safe

tia x"
yes you can get small sizes 5’ plenty of lube & tell your lady friend that you want to guide it in until you are comfortable enough for her to start to peg you

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
25 weeks ago

Altrincham


"my lady friend suggested last night

that she would like to wear a strap on and peg me

i am a little wary of this

only had the doctors finger up there !!!

do they do small size strap on cock ???

i have a slightly enlarged prostate too

is it safe

tia x"

Start small, use lube, tell her to take it slowly, enjoy 😉

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By *vaRoseWoman
25 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

I’m not going to advise on safety. I think that needs addressing by your gp.

Yes dildos come in all sorts of shapes and sizes. You can start as small as you want. However the advice above is correct, before moving straight to pegging try incorporating anal play into your sex lives first.

Also going to say that no matter how much the other person wants to give things a go, you need to want it too. Consent is key.

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By *inkShyWoman
25 weeks ago

near Windsor


"my lady friend suggested last night

that she would like to wear a strap on and peg me

i am a little wary of this

only had the doctors finger up there !!!

do they do small size strap on cock ???

i have a slightly enlarged prostate too

is it safe

tia x"

I have no idea, but I read that as a stream of consciousness and think you'd be good at poetry slam.

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By *ildTimes.Man
25 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam


"my lady friend suggested last night

that she would like to wear a strap on and peg me

i am a little wary of this

only had the doctors finger up there !!!

do they do small size strap on cock ???

i have a slightly enlarged prostate too

is it safe

tia x"

But Doc, it's just a sore throat ...

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By *cgmcgMan
25 weeks ago

kingston


"my lady friend suggested last night

that she would like to wear a strap on and peg me

i am a little wary of this

only had the doctors finger up there !!!

do they do small size strap on cock ???

i have a slightly enlarged prostate too

is it safe

tia x"

Really happy to come up and she can demonstrate on me first, if that would help you.

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By *istyblue1967 OP   Man
25 weeks ago

manchester

did you start small ??

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
25 weeks ago

Preston


"My advice would be to start smaller than any toy attached to a strap on. A finger or 2. Maybe a butt plug (small) and work up to a a strain, trusting etc.

No need to jump in the deep end right away"

This xx

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Oi mate. Do it at the back of the bus

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By *hubbyfatbottomMan
24 weeks ago

Manchester

I want a female or couple male and female mostly over 50 to pegging me with small cockstrap in Manchester and to be her sub and to dominate me.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
24 weeks ago

Holibobs

If you are unhappy about asking your gp for 'is it safe advice" try your gum clinic, they are medical professionals.

Re dildos, I trained my sub with a anal training pack, which came with 5 anal dildos of different sizes and lengths and advice on which to use. Douching and plenty of lube is quite important, enjoy your researching

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Pegging can be extremely exciting for both parties but it has to be with mutual consent and a lot of trust.

Start small, lube, lube and more lube.

I’ve always found it best for first timers if they ease themselves at their own pace onto the dildo. So preferable sat astride the pegger.

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By *othwaysnudeMan
24 weeks ago

branpton

What’s small for a first timer

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By *each needs some creamWoman
24 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

LUBE, small butt plug, LUBE, medium sized butt plug, LUBE, larger butt plug, LUBE, then work up to a small dildo, the most important thing is Lube lots and lots of lube, Liquid Silk is good.

Durex lube in my opinion is the worst lube.

Don't jump into pegging without some training.

LUBE LUBE

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By *KentMan
24 weeks ago

Canterbury

Plenty of lube my friend, plenty of lube!!!

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By *arnayguyMan
24 weeks ago

Durham Tees

1. Use lots of lube.

2. No run up.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago


"1. Use lots of lube.

2. No run up."

Aww, the run up is the best part

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago


"did you start small ??"

I started with a 6 inch strap with the first girl who pegged me, though I'd definitely used toys back there previously but smaller than the dildo

The biggest I've had used on me was 8 and it was a challenge

Just relax, remember your partner is not put to hurt you and is probably more nervous than you because they have no tactile feeling

If you haven't maybe set up safe words

Don't rush, a little at a time

Try and "push out" as she's pushing in to open up

Remember you're both there to have fun and if you both end up laughing your asses off it's all good

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By *oymaster69Man
24 weeks ago

EALING

Sounds too painful to me

Does it feel like your having a shit on the pull out

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