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would you say black guys on here have a better chance at meets than white guys?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago

sorry just seems like so many people here want either black men or a type of white guy that is muscular and/or tattooed. just tough on here

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

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By *exxyyDy11Man
25 weeks ago

North West

OP, no offence. I've checked your green arrows and you seem to get quite irritated by people who have racial preferences. All I can say is focus on yourself, and if you feel like you're getting nowhere. Than maybe fab isn't for you. And I'm sure Black guys have it as tough as the rest of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Would you like to be Black? You love talking about us

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
25 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Fucking Jesus OP. Give it a rest. Please.

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By *inkShyWoman
25 weeks ago

near Windsor


"sorry just seems like so many people here want either black men or a type of white guy that is muscular and/or tattooed. just tough on here "

I think people that have information on their profile have a better chance at meeting than those that have nothing.

🤗

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
25 weeks ago

Reading

I think some guys do really well and some don't but I think its a lot more complex than race.

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By *awpleasureMan
25 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

No photos on your profile does not help whatever race you are.

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By *oiluvfunMan
25 weeks ago

Penrith


"sorry just seems like so many people here want black men "

Unlike you, living in Walsall, I live in an area with very few black guys around, however, many profiles local to me state a preference for black men. I just block them, and move on to others I'm more likely to match with.

I suggest you get acquainted with your own block button OP, and remove those profiles you don't match. Fab will become a much more rewarding/enjoyable place for you I'm sure....

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By *exxyyDy11Man
25 weeks ago

North West


"Fucking Jesus OP. Give it a rest. Please."

Where is Jesus actually? Yet to find him on here.

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By *midnight-Woman
25 weeks ago

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You haven't even got a picture on your profile.. I would imagine that is massive barrier to meeting ANY person on the site

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By *arleycplWoman
25 weeks ago

Leyburn

Perhaps they have taken time to write there profile and add a few photos, unlike yours

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"Fucking Jesus OP. Give it a rest. Please.

Where is Jesus actually? Yet to find him on here. "

Out for the rest of the season

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By *oiluvfunMan
25 weeks ago

Penrith


"Fucking Jesus OP. Give it a rest. Please.

Where is Jesus actually? Yet to find him on here. "

Have faith....

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By *r SensualMan
25 weeks ago

London


"sorry just seems like so many people here want either black men or a type of white guy that is muscular and/or tattooed. just tough on here "

I can tell you for a fact that being a black man, muscular and/or tattooed or not makes no difference whatsoever. I have 2 out of 3 of these what you mentioned. I reach out to people cold and get the same response or lack thereof as you are getting.

My block list is full or profiles who state “Caucasian/white men/BWC only” or “No black guys/BBC”

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By *rincipessaWoman
25 weeks ago

your wildest dreams,

You know I saw the thread title and knew it was you who had posted. Serious question, do you have a problem coz you seem to post all the time about either this or not getting replies from women

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
25 weeks ago

Middle England

OP. What's with the profile? You seem like you want to put in the minimum amount of effort but get the maximum amount of attention.

Are you really wondering why you might be finding it tough on here. You could be the best kept secret on here and no one would ever know!

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

‘Anyone else jealous of Black men’

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By *exxyyDy11Man
25 weeks ago

North West


"‘Anyone else jealous of Black men’

"

I am jealous of you Pickles you bloody stallion you 😘

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
25 weeks ago

Reading


"‘Anyone else jealous of Black men’

"

Only entitled white men.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"‘Anyone else jealous of Black men’

I am jealous of you Pickles you bloody stallion you 😘"

Don’t be

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"‘Anyone else jealous of Black men’

Only entitled white men."

More

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"‘Anyone else jealous of Black men’

Only entitled white men."

Hate us cos they ain’t us

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Plot twist, the OP isn’t even white

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By *ros40Man
25 weeks ago

Bedford

Have a wank and sandwich

You'll be fine

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By *host63Man
25 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

Yes it's the number one female fantasy.

At parties i have seen white women literally beg black guys to F*uck them and in vanilla settings too.

Is what it is.

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By *rLicksMan
25 weeks ago

Worcester

OP…. Totally agree with you…. Black guys have a better chance of meeting those who have a preference for black guys.

However… if you open your eyes you will see that not everyone is seeking black men only… therefore level playing field?

Everyone has preferences - some like black, others don’t, some like white, others don’t, some like Asians, others don’t…. I’m sure I don’t need to list every racial preference there may be.

Some also like tall, some like profiles with pics, some like cheese on toast

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
25 weeks ago

People who have a profile picture have a better chance at meets.

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By *host63Man
25 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham


"Yes it's the number one female fantasy.

At parties i have seen white women literally beg black guys to F*uck them and in vanilla settings too.

Is what it is."

And like everything it's a matter of preference which I have no problem with at sll because While it'd not set in stone I am more attracted to some than others and accept that I wouldn't be attractive to a lot of women too.

That's life

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
25 weeks ago

Reading


"‘Anyone else jealous of Black men’

Only entitled white men.

Hate us cos they ain’t us"

They just don't think they should ever not be number 1 in anything.

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By *uckurcumMan
25 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

Feel like I've travelled back in time ...

Seriously, a thread of this nature in 2025 !

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

🥱

This is getting boring now.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
25 weeks ago

London

OP, don’t be a troll. It’s getting boring now and slightly annoying.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
25 weeks ago

in Lancashire


"sorry just seems like so many people here want either black men or a type of white guy that is muscular and/or tattooed. just tough on here "

It's tough on here if anyone is going round and round in circles of negativity and blaming others for their own perceived lack of success..

Isn't an attractive look regardless of gender, age, marital status, sexuality etc..

Concentrating on those who will meet is a better use of ones time and energy..

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

May as well just say ‘feed me’

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"‘Anyone else jealous of Black men’

Only entitled white men.

Hate us cos they ain’t us

They just don't think they should ever not be number 1 in anything."

If I speak I’ll be in big big trouble.

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By *B..Woman
25 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Concentrate on yourself would be a good start

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By *uchessdoeWoman
25 weeks ago

Northampton


"Yes it's the number one female fantasy.

At parties i have seen white women literally beg black guys to F*uck them and in vanilla settings too.

Is what it is.

And like everything it's a matter of preference which I have no problem with at sll because While it'd not set in stone I am more attracted to some than others and accept that I wouldn't be attractive to a lot of women too.

That's life"

You know what all women's number one fantasy is, as a man?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Chichester


"Yes it's the number one female fantasy.

At parties i have seen white women literally beg black guys to F*uck them and in vanilla settings too.

Is what it is."

Lol quite wild odds there

I woukd comfortably say that out of the hundreds of people I have met over the years prob less than 30% expressed interest in non white persons.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
25 weeks ago

North West


"sorry just seems like so many people here want either black men or a type of white guy that is muscular and/or tattooed. just tough on here

I can tell you for a fact that being a black man, muscular and/or tattooed or not makes no difference whatsoever. I have 2 out of 3 of these what you mentioned. I reach out to people cold and get the same response or lack thereof as you are getting.

My block list is full or profiles who state “Caucasian/white men/BWC only” or “No black guys/BBC” "

There we go OP. Black guys have it as tough as the rest of us. See you can rest easy now. Just relax and stop worrying about other people.

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By *illy IdolMan
25 weeks ago

Midlands


"Yes it's the number one female fantasy.

At parties i have seen white women literally beg black guys to F*uck them and in vanilla settings too.

Is what it is.

And like everything it's a matter of preference which I have no problem with at sll because While it'd not set in stone I am more attracted to some than others and accept that I wouldn't be attractive to a lot of women too.

That's life

You know what all women's number one fantasy is?...Willy Idol "

Tis true

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
25 weeks ago


"Yes it's the number one female fantasy."

Where did you get that statistic from? It’s not the number one fantasy for me or any of my female friends. I’m sure it will be for some women but I think ‘number one female fantasy’ is a stretch...

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By *ad NannaWoman
25 weeks ago

East London

No.

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By *inkShyWoman
25 weeks ago

near Windsor


"Yes it's the number one female fantasy.

"

No, it isn't.

Our number one fantasy is a person that's a sex God/Goddess, does the dishes, helps with chores, doesn't leave wet towels everywhere, can cook, understands mood swings, and tells us we are pretty.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
25 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Yes it's the number one female fantasy.

No, it isn't.

Our number one fantasy is a person that's a sex God/Goddess, does the dishes, helps with chores, doesn't leave wet towels everywhere, can cook, understands mood swings, and tells us we are pretty. "

The truth. Right there ⬆️

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
25 weeks ago

Hounslow

Op your profile resembles and a house with no toilet. Nothing to go on!

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

When you go to the pub or a bar or a club it's likely a woman would find half those people attractive and the other half not.. just like a guy would..

Fab is just another bar or pub.. if someone enjoys the company of someone a certain race that is simply an attraction they have.

Don't take it personally OP and like others have said focus on your own positive traits and others will soon see them as well

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By *eathrow pineappleCouple
25 weeks ago

Hounslow


"When you go to the pub or a bar or a club it's likely a woman would find half those people attractive and the other half not.. just like a guy would..

Fab is just another bar or pub.. if someone enjoys the company of someone a certain race that is simply an attraction they have.

Don't take it personally OP and like others have said focus on your own positive traits and others will soon see them as well "

everyone has some sort of preference (which should be respected) but op hasn't even made an effort with his profile! You've got to give yourself a fighting chance if you want to get anywhere.

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
25 weeks ago

Norwich

Perhaps your profile is at fault rather than deflecting onto others.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
25 weeks ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Er…I’m black

Been on here over 7years.

Only have 3Meet Veris to my name 🤷🏽‍♂️

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
25 weeks ago

from mars

Cry me a river 😭

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By *teff_RedTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Greenhouse or northwich

Judging by the amount of profiles stating no Black or Asian men then no…

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By *mf123Man
25 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

No

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By *aron110011Man
25 weeks ago

Leeds

I don't know if black guys have better chance but a lot of time when people find out i'm south asian, they stop replying.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
25 weeks ago

Leeds


"I don't know if black guys have better chance but a lot of time when people find out i'm south asian, they stop replying. "

How do they find out ?

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
25 weeks ago

Bedfuck

A bit like busty blondes maybe.

I don't keep a check on the situation, black guys aren't that particularly in demand, neither are muscular guys.

But looking at it logically if you went to the market to buy some fruit n veg you'd pick the ones you prefer and fancy, some you wouldn't bother with.

It's preference and personal taste, not worth taking it personally, life's too short.

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By *aron110011Man
25 weeks ago

Leeds


"I don't know if black guys have better chance but a lot of time when people find out i'm south asian, they stop replying.

How do they find out ?"

While chatting,not everybody but quite a few people do ask if I'm asian.

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