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I practice safe penetrative sex with irregular or new playmates, but not with my committed partners, so I test every hole every 3 months like a very good girl. | |||
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"Safe sex "It's only safe if you have no engagement with anyone Pickle | |||
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It's only safe if you have no engagement with anyone Pickle "Well I don’t have sex if that counts  | |||
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"STI tested? Do you need to?" 1.weeks again and every 12 weeks religiously. 2. If you’re on here and active with more than one partner without a doubt. You are responsible for your own sexual health not blame others if you get something x | |||
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"Mid-December. I need to order another kit soon" Same | |||
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"Just out of interest what actually comes in a home test kit? I test every three months at my local hospital and it's two vials of blood, urine test, mouth throat swab, penis swab, not done anal as of yet. " Depends on what you ask for. You can get a kit that has blood vials mouth swabs anal swabs. Or you can do one with just blood vials no oral anal swabs. | |||
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"Just out of interest what actually comes in a home test kit? I test every three months at my local hospital and it's two vials of blood, urine test, mouth throat swab, penis swab, not done anal as of yet. Depends on what you ask for. You can get a kit that has blood vials mouth swabs anal swabs. Or you can do one with just blood vials no oral anal swabs." Also seems to depend on area and how you answer in relation to your lifestyle. I use SHL (inner London only) and always say that I participate in group sex even when I don't. That way I get vag, oral and anal tests plus the option of going on Prep if I wanted to | |||
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"Just out of interest what actually comes in a home test kit? I test every three months at my local hospital and it's two vials of blood, urine test, mouth throat swab, penis swab, not done anal as of yet. Depends on what you ask for. You can get a kit that has blood vials mouth swabs anal swabs. Or you can do one with just blood vials no oral anal swabs. Also seems to depend on area and how you answer in relation to your lifestyle. I use SHL (inner London only) and always say that I participate in group sex even when I don't. That way I get vag, oral and anal tests plus the option of going on Prep if I wanted to " I use SHL and I’m in Outer London | |||
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"Just out of interest what actually comes in a home test kit? I test every three months at my local hospital and it's two vials of blood, urine test, mouth throat swab, penis swab, not done anal as of yet. " It depends on the service that is offered in your area. I get asked a series of questions and based on my answers I get a throat and vagina swab, and blood spot tests for HIV and Syphilis. If I answer the questions differently they would offer anal swabs and Hepatitis C blood tests. Some people I know only get swabs for chlamydia and gonorrhea and no blood tests. | |||
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"Beginning of December. There are no postal kits for my age group in my area anymore, so I now have to go to the SH clinic."  | |||
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"I’ve got a new test in the post and I did my last one just over 3 weeks ago. I’m not getting laid I’m just a hypochondriac." Fair play | |||
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"No postal testing here, I have to go in person. Last one was November so due another. Mrs TMN x" Ghetto | |||
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"STI tested? Do you need to?" Yes you need to Safe and clean always | |||
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"Mid November, home test kits just arrived so I will be completing it tonight once I psyche myself up enough to do the blood test vial 😅 " This is me too 🤣 | |||
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"Mid November, home test kits just arrived so I will be completing it tonight once I psyche myself up enough to do the blood test vial 😅 This is me too 🤣" And me! I do exercise, make sure my hands are warm, make sure I'm hydrated just so I don't go through the horror of pricking multiple fingers 😂 | |||
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"Mid November, home test kits just arrived so I will be completing it tonight once I psyche myself up enough to do the blood test vial 😅 This is me too 🤣 And me! I do exercise, make sure my hands are warm, make sure I'm hydrated just so I don't go through the horror of pricking multiple fingers 😂" We’re so manly. Grrrr 🤜🏻 | |||
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"About a month ago. The nurse was asking me about my sexual history/partners and said, “I’ve never had a woman say that before” so now I suspect I must be way freakier or way lamer than I think I am " What did you say,or was it for the nurse's ears only? x | |||
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"About a month ago. The nurse was asking me about my sexual history/partners and said, “I’ve never had a woman say that before” so now I suspect I must be way freakier or way lamer than I think I am What did you say,or was it for the nurse's ears only? x" I really don’t think it was that shocking. She asked me if I get paid for sex and I said no, she asked me if my partner is paid for sex and she ticked no before I could answer, and the truth is there’s a cub I’ve been meeting for some time who half my age and far more attractive than I am and men pay him for his company - he says there’s no sex but I’m not sure I believe him . So i was trying to explain this to her and she was staring at me like I was telling her that every second Tuesday I eat fresh dog turds off the pavement. | |||
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"About a month ago. The nurse was asking me about my sexual history/partners and said, “I’ve never had a woman say that before” so now I suspect I must be way freakier or way lamer than I think I am What did you say,or was it for the nurse's ears only? x I really don’t think it was that shocking. She asked me if I get paid for sex and I said no, she asked me if my partner is paid for sex and she ticked no before I could answer, and the truth is there’s a cub I’ve been meeting for some time who half my age and far more attractive than I am and men pay him for his company - he says there’s no sex but I’m not sure I believe him . So i was trying to explain this to her and she was staring at me like I was telling her that every second Tuesday I eat fresh dog turds off the pavement."They must of heard it all before,they have to be unshockable,i like the idea of being asked this question,not having sex for over twenty years,must be more shockable. | |||
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"About a month ago. The nurse was asking me about my sexual history/partners and said, “I’ve never had a woman say that before” so now I suspect I must be way freakier or way lamer than I think I am What did you say,or was it for the nurse's ears only? x I really don’t think it was that shocking. She asked me if I get paid for sex and I said no, she asked me if my partner is paid for sex and she ticked no before I could answer, and the truth is there’s a cub I’ve been meeting for some time who half my age and far more attractive than I am and men pay him for his company - he says there’s no sex but I’m not sure I believe him . So i was trying to explain this to her and she was staring at me like I was telling her that every second Tuesday I eat fresh dog turds off the pavement.
They must of heard it all before,they have to be unshockable,i like the idea of being asked this question,not having sex for over twenty years,must be more shockable."Right? She made a real point that no woman had said that to her before, what was I meant to say “well I fuck hotties”??? | |||
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"About a month ago. The nurse was asking me about my sexual history/partners and said, “I’ve never had a woman say that before” so now I suspect I must be way freakier or way lamer than I think I am What did you say,or was it for the nurse's ears only? x I really don’t think it was that shocking. She asked me if I get paid for sex and I said no, she asked me if my partner is paid for sex and she ticked no before I could answer, and the truth is there’s a cub I’ve been meeting for some time who half my age and far more attractive than I am and men pay him for his company - he says there’s no sex but I’m not sure I believe him . So i was trying to explain this to her and she was staring at me like I was telling her that every second Tuesday I eat fresh dog turds off the pavement.
They must of heard it all before,they have to be unshockable,i like the idea of being asked this question,not having sex for over twenty years,must be more shockable.
Right? She made a real point that no woman had said that to her before, what was I meant to say “well I fuck hotties”??? "Maybe other folk are more cagey about there sex lives,you were just being honest. | |||
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"Not had sex for over twenty years so dont see the point,unless there are other ways of catching an Std?" no oral or sexual contact either? | |||
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"Not had sex for over twenty years so dont see the point,unless there are other ways of catching an Std? no oral or sexual contact either? " Aren't there some that you can get just from skin contact?? Herpes maybe?? | |||
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"Not had sex for over twenty years so dont see the point,unless there are other ways of catching an Std?" I'm in the same boat dude but I still got it done. Because of my job I sometimes deal with other peoples bodily fluids and it potentially puts other people at ease. | |||
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"Not had sex for over twenty years so dont see the point,unless there are other ways of catching an Std? no oral or sexual contact either? Aren't there some that you can get just from skin contact?? Herpes maybe?? " I’m here for this kind of negativity 🤣 What a kick in balls. Zero sympathy | |||
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"Just got my SH:24 kit for my 3 monthly test. I’ll stand in the bathroom tonight after a hot shower deciding which finger is going to get it🖕🤜 🩸 " Those bloody lancettes are a bugger to use, really difficult to get enough blood out! | |||
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 going to order a test now, thanks for the reminder x | |||
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"Not had sex for over twenty years so dont see the point,unless there are other ways of catching an Std? no oral or sexual contact either? Aren't there some that you can get just from skin contact?? Herpes maybe?? " Or sitting on public loo seats? | |||
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"STI tested? Do you need to?" What.. People don't? Every 3mths minimum and if I feel like it random times too We are all adults on here yes ? | |||
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"I think it was September. They don't accept walk-ins now so I get the home test kit. " We can't get clinic based testing (appointment or otherwise) for asymptomatic screening here. BUT mega news is that it seems we can now get SH24 test kits! This is a new development. Previously we had to pay for kits because we were too old for free testing. We've not been in the slightest bit active since before last summer, due to my incessant health problems and haven't even been massively doing the Sex much between us, even. So not bought a kit since August last year. I've just availed myself of the fact we CAN now get SH24 and await its arrival! | |||
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"Not had sex for over twenty years so dont see the point,unless there are other ways of catching an Std? no oral or sexual contact either? Aren't there some that you can get just from skin contact?? Herpes maybe?? Or sitting on public loo seats?" I always hover those..you just don’t know what’s lingering | |||
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"It's probably time I did another one" Indeed even if you feel well you still could be infected so a test before and after is advisable | |||
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