FabSwingers.com forum: Is sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

Is sex all that?

I’m very happy in life with no sex, now sex with the right person that’s different

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By *aybeLadyWoman
24 weeks ago

West Dublin

I agree.

I actually didnt really miss it before I rejoined Fab. I just wanted to put myself first for a change & socialise also.

I've no huge desire to have sex. But if I do happen to find amazing sex, I know its a game changer.

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By *arialoueWoman
24 weeks ago

Doncaster

I'm happy with no sex life unless I find my forever someone, I've never been in to nsa

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By *eliWoman
24 weeks ago

It's not *all* that but it can be pretty darn incredible.

I wouldn't be happy with a sexless life. I also wouldn't be happy with crap sex. Luckily for me I only have average sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I could live much longer without sex, coffee and whisky, but what would be the point?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
24 weeks ago

Reading

I love sex so wouldn't be as happy without it. But you get used to it.

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By *ngel7disguiseWoman
24 weeks ago

Loughborough

I couldn’t live a sexless life!

I may have to go without while my messy divorce goes through but I’ll be back at it when the times right.

And with the right person, not looking for lots of notches on the bed post.

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By *antricSeeker60Man
24 weeks ago

Durham

It's pretty great for me and many other people, offering connection and fun, but it totally depends on your personal perspective and experiences, you know?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
24 weeks ago

Haydock

Sex is the purest high when you both are on the same page sexually. Orgasms so intense that you feel you are going to pass out.

When another person joins us and we all look at each other afterwards and think ‘WTF just happened’ and we have smiles for days as well as the raging desire to do it again, then it’s also an incredible feeling too…🥵

I could live without crap sex, average sex but not without the hottest sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I have had long periods without sex. It's horrible. Not the orgasm - I can provide those for myself. But to go too long without feeling that someone finds me attractive, to not feel the softness of a woman's body, or to experience their aromas and tastes, or to hear their thrilling moans of pleasure...I'd rather a life of ONS than not experience that again.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Having gone long stretches without sex in the past, I can confidently say it’s pretty important to me. Not just for the sake of a shag, but with someone I trust and care about, whether that’s a partner or a FWB. I get emotional intimacy from friends and family, but physical intimacy is much rarer in my life, and it plays a big role in my overall well-being. Plus, it’s loads of fun! Life is short and we should take our joy where we can.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
24 weeks ago

Reading

"I have had long periods without sex. It's horrible. Not the orgasm - I can provide those for myself. But to go too long without feeling that someone finds me attractive, to not feel the softness of a woman's body, or to experience their aromas and tastes, or to hear their thrilling moans of pleasure...I'd rather a life of ONS than not experience that again."

Lack of opportunity does not say anything about your level of attractiveness. Please don't listen to the voices in your head.

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By *NormalMan01Man
24 weeks ago

Harrogate

I think people often get predetermined thoughts.

“I like this.” “This is what I like.” “I’m not the other.”

Then the partner has their perception of what that means, often the two can align. But frequently they don’t, also.

Sometimes it’s best to just talk vaguely about things, build a connection and don’t rush.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Sex is all that.

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By *eoBloomsMan
24 weeks ago

Springfield

Sex without emotional connection is a meaningless experience. But as meaningless experiences go it's pretty damn hot !

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

It’s not ALL that. I don’t miss it when I go through a dry spell. But I fuckin love it when the spell is wetter than an otters pocket.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Sex is all that and more. I'd put it high up on what I think is important in my relationships.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
24 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I enjoy sex to much for me it's an important part of my life. When you have sex the the brain releases dopamine, oxytocin, endorphins, and prolactin all of which makes for a happy person.

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By *rHotNottsMan
24 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I love sex. I used to think FAB was a community of like minded people and at least in that respect if nothing else - That we all share a passion for lots of great sex with different people!

If you don’t, I really wonder why you are here?

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By *vaRoseWoman
24 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Good sex is most definitely all that. Mediocre sex with no chemistry…. I’d rather have a wank

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
24 weeks ago

London

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

If it's with the right person and the chemistry is there sex is amazing, if not it's as dry as the Sahara desert for me

Mrs

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By *ouble-SidedCouple
24 weeks ago

Voldsøy

With the right people, yes!

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By *enelope2UWoman
24 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

It's a necessity for me unfortunately people here don't like having the full package.. communication, compatabilities and continuous sex.. going without it brings on the worse withdrawal symptoms until you regret engaging in it again...

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By *eroLondonMan
24 weeks ago

Covent Garden

Sex is everything for me. My body wanes and my mind deteriorates if it's not been sated by sex. But it has to be meaningful and wholesome sex with someone I feel intrinsically bonded to. I don't have to have sex every day, nor do I crave it on a daily basis, but I cannot live without it.

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By *aybeLadyWoman
24 weeks ago

West Dublin

"Sex is all that and more. I'd put it high up on what I think is important in my relationships. "

I'm not dateable....this is my issue. I'd love to be in a relationship but thats not really an option for me. Therefore I dont have that intimate sexual connection with a man which makes sex special.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
24 weeks ago

Llanelli

Sex is always great with the right person, luckily I've found that with my partner 😍

Can I go without it, yes I can but I wouldn't through choice but I'll also not just have sex with anyone because I got the horn.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I wouldn't be here if I didn't think sex was all that. I'd join a crochet club instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"Good sex is most definitely all that. Mediocre sex with no chemistry…. I’d rather have a wank "
sometimes you have no connection and the chemistry is just there and it’s like ‘WOW’. They’re my favourite

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