FabSwingers.com forum: Help for single guy

By (user no longer on site) OP
25 weeks ago

I’ve been on and off this site a few times over the last couple years. But I tend to end up deleting as most of the time my messages don’t even get opened let alone responded to.

I’ve had I think only 2-3 meets in total from here before.

Any suggestions on what I should / shouldn’t be doing?

I’m aware that single guys will obviously get less attention than couples or single women.

But I was hoping that this time around I might actually manage to have some success on here and ideally meet a few people for regular fun.

Any advice or help will be appreciated

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By *urry BlokeMan
25 weeks ago

A few questions

- how much shagging were you expecting to do?

- what's your 'hit rate' away from the site?

- what are you doing differently this time that made you think you'd do better than other times?

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By *rdere OpusCouple
25 weeks ago

Brum - ish

Main advice would be to sort your profile.

I don’t know what your messages are like but most look at profiles first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
25 weeks ago

Any tips for my profile?

And to be honest I do find a lot of the time people I message don’t even view my profile lol.

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By *obilebottomMan
25 weeks ago

All over

Chat in forums

Send messages that acknowledge and address points in their profiles

Make sure your profile tells enough about you

Go to socials and present yourself well

Oh, and make sure those measurements are accurate. No margin for error

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By (user no longer on site) OP
25 weeks ago

To answer your questions.

1. I had 0 expectations just wanted to give it another go.

2. Off the site I do pretty good. But I thought it might be fun to try meet people from here as it’s more to the point. We are all on the site for the same reasons at the end of the day.

3. I guess this time around I try to put more effort into my messages. I’ve uploaded more photos and always send face pics with my first message. I’m also older now. I don’t know if when I was on here as a 22-23ish year old that may have been too young for some people.

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By *erald 1999Man
25 weeks ago

carmarthen

I think the trouble is people have changed , it may be that nothing you could change will improve your chances, I've been fairly lucky , probably just by chance , but often send a polite message and no response , it's the world we are now living in , I try to be polite and respond to messages from unwanted male messages , and I know people say you can put filters in to out messages from men , but lol then I'd never get any mail ha ha

You've got to live in hope

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By *rdere OpusCouple
25 weeks ago

Brum - ish

"Any tips for my profile?

And to be honest I do find a lot of the time people I message don’t even view my profile lol. "

They will be but in stealth mode.

Your profile should allow people to gauge compatibility, what you’re looking for and what you offer.

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By *olinOfBathMan
25 weeks ago

Corsham

"Any tips for my profile?

Get rid of the pointless cut-and-paste nonsense at the bottom of your profile.

When someone posts the "FabSwingers is a publicly traded entity..." drivel, it serves only to tell readers that the poster is not very bright.

Read the site FAQ, link at bottom right of the home page.

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By *elloWoman
25 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"Any tips for my profile?

And to be honest I do find a lot of the time people I message don’t even view my profile lol. "

45 worded profile and 2 photos one of which is a penis, nope can't give any tips to your profile it's a masterpiece

I think most of us just read the first few words of a message so if it's not anything interesting chances are it's not being opened,

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