FabSwingers.com forum: First meeting

By *eeman1200 OP Man
24 weeks ago

Paulton Nr Bristol

First meeting should it be in the coffee place where people can relax and get to know each other?

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

It can be wherever you like.

There’s no hard n fast rule around social get togethers.

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By *uacksplat.Woman
24 weeks ago

Star Trekking Across The Universe

precisely which coffee place?

i think ive been doing my 'first meets' wrong 🫣

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
24 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Not many people really want to be seen in a Costa with me

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By *atgirl and RobinCouple
24 weeks ago

Durham

We're meeting people for the first time in Club F this week

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
24 weeks ago

East Sussex

For us yes or a bar.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

For me, yes. My rule is a social in a coffee shop or a bar first. Sometimes someone comes along though, and there's really no need. Well, rules are made to be broken right?

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"precisely which coffee place?

i think ive been doing my 'first meets' wrong 🫣 "

THE coffee place obviously.

See ya there shortly?

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By *uteinasuitMan
24 weeks ago

Herts

I've been quite lucky and mostly got down and dirty within the first 5 mins

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By *bi HaiveMan
24 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"precisely which coffee place?

i think ive been doing my 'first meets' wrong 🫣 "

Costa.

Or Nero.

Never Starbucks.

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By *eroLondonMan
24 weeks ago

Covent Garden

He knows... ... ... ⬆️

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Nope. Some people skip the social altogether.

You do whatever you’re comfortable with.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
24 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Wait. So it’s not in the grubby axe shop hidden down that side street? I’ve been doing it wrong

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By *each needs some creamWoman
24 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

It's time to individual choice.

Personally I couldn't sit in a coffee shop or bar and talk about sex.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
24 weeks ago

Trowbridge

I prefer coffee places

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By *allySlinkyWoman
24 weeks ago

Leeds

"I've been quite lucky and mostly got down and dirty within the first 5 mins

In the Coffee Shop toilets ?

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By *inkShyWoman
24 weeks ago

near Windsor

Costco. And treat them to free samples so they think you're fancy.

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By *elloWoman
24 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Oh is that what you're meant to do, closest I've done to that was half finish a drink in the hotel bar before rushing up to the room.

Oh and another meet where half way through the day we left the hotel to have a Toby carvery and then back to the room.

What do people on a meet talk about, apart from which positions and hard limits, not enough topic in the time it takes to finish a nice coffee.

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By *uteinasuitMan
24 weeks ago

Herts

"I've been quite lucky and mostly got down and dirty within the first 5 mins

In the Coffee Shop toilets ?"

Lol. Have you seen the state of some of those toilets

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
24 weeks ago

Bedfuck

Personally I'm easy going, a social coffee n cake is fine, or a message chat then meet home , club, or hotel.

I mainly do a club meet these days.

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By *unx2019Couple
24 weeks ago

Moray

Used to be coffee shop first, but life too short, so now it's coffee at ours then usually upto the bedroom

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By *anonfire96Man
24 weeks ago

Mansfield

Met several people on here never actually done a social, and everyone has been an amazing meets. I do insist on video chat before hand. So sort of a social.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
24 weeks ago

Leeds

"Met several people on here never actually done a social, and everyone has been an amazing meets. I do insist on video chat before hand. So sort of a social."

I am very different to you. I have never done a video chat and only once a phone call when a couple were inviting me to their home.

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By *ewtfaceMan
24 weeks ago

Bracknell

I always think a social on neutral ground is good; and safer for all concerned. Coffee or a pub for a drink works ok for me usually.

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By *enelope2UWoman
24 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

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By *enelope2UWoman
24 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

For me no I find that boring. Just like vanilla sex!

I like to go somewhere that can strike flirtations laughing I can see how we flow together personality wise. Is he spontaneous dies he take initiative can he read the vibes..

bowling billiards etc.. i

f he can't laugh at mistakes, if we can't set reasonable dares wagers, if we can't create teasing and I can't see how easy he is to be around and enjoyable I don't want a stagnant coffee interview.

So I prefer billiards, bowling, darts SOMETHING with more personality

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By *enelope2UWoman
24 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

"It's time to individual choice.

Personally I couldn't sit in a coffee shop or bar and talk about sex. "

I'd be bored...

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
24 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

I find the most interesting topic of conversation is Fab meets and disastrous ones at that. Coffee shops aren't the best place for that. A bar for me

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By *issmorganWoman
24 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Yeah it can be, or a bar

Wherever they both feel comfortable.

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