FabSwingers.com forum: Single guys has it been difficult for you on fab?

By *rrrMannnn122 OP Man
4 weeks ago

Walsall

How has your experiences been??

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By *eoBloomsMan
4 weeks ago

Springfield

Hard, very hard.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
4 weeks ago

North West

It has been on and off. I've done quite well... better than a lot. So I can't complain. I just try to treat everyone with respect and if I don't get a message or a meet doesn't happen. Not the end of the world. Fab is what you make it. You can either moan and be miserable that you don't have constant meets and sex or you can have fun regardless.

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By *ynamicnatureMan
4 weeks ago

Doncaster

"How has your experiences been?? "

I've met some awesome characters on Fab so I can't complain at all really,

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By *eroLondonMan
4 weeks ago

Mayfair

I still haven't had a meet. I'm totally befuddled by this place. The future looks bleak...

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
4 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"How has your experiences been?? "

In a word......great. 🤷‍♂️

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By *elloWoman
4 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Just upload a photo of yourself holding a cake, surrounded with puppies and kittens, add your address and you'll be swamped in bodily fluids in no time.

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By *aughty by nature 76Man
4 weeks ago

Walsall

It’s difficult to be honest

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By *oober698Man
4 weeks ago

Lincoln

Not the best! Some rude and ignorant folk about to say the least.

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By *oredhorny42Man
4 weeks ago

stirling

"Just upload a photo of yourself holding a cake, surrounded with puppies and kittens, add your address and you'll be swamped in bodily fluids in no time."

Hahaha solid advice

Id eat the cake and refuse entry so i could cuddle the puppies and kittens

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By *oredhorny42Man
4 weeks ago

stirling

I just try and be nice to everyone.

Block button does get used as there are some right muppets on here 😂

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By *etrelsMan
4 weeks ago

North East Uk

I find it certainly in my area to consist of

Fakes

Mentally unstable

Picture sellers

Body sellers

About sums it up

Spoke to 1 or 2 decent genuine people but they are in the minority

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By *radleywigginsMan
4 weeks ago

northwest

The women certainly aren’t shy about making a point of their numerical inferiority

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By *ellhungvweMan
4 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"Just upload a photo of yourself holding a cake, surrounded with puppies and kittens, add your address and you'll be swamped in bodily fluids in no time.

Hahaha solid advice

Id eat the cake and refuse entry so i could cuddle the puppies and kittens"

I am not an expert but I think I might have worked out where you are going wrong

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By *ager 2 PleaseMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham/midlands

It’s always going to be hard for most guys, so it’s worth going to a club to chat with people and show your personality that way.

Ladies and couples are (generally) more likely to prefer a social anyway, so chatting in a club offers you opportunity to find out more in a safe, no expectations, kind of way. Well worth trying

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By *ansexualPandaMan
4 weeks ago

Might Be Close

"Difficult"?

Difficult to find a mutual near enough and wanting the same thing? Yes.

Difficult as in it's a waste of time? No.

Luckily, I don't rely on Fab for hooking up. I'm mostly here for some flirting but wouldn't turn down the right profile.

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By *il-widgeMan
4 weeks ago

Stoke on Trent

Pretty decent tbh so far, met a few people for socials and a little more, with a few more in the pipeline....

I find if you're not a dick and be as decent and honest as you should be in person then it's all good. I have had some messages women and couples have been sent, and its no wonder some guys struggle on here, ffs!? 🤦‍♂️😂😂🙄

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

In the words of Coldplay nobody said it was easy.

You get good and bad days on here. You just have realistic expectations but at the same time that doesn't mean to say lower your standards

Things are looking up though right now so it's all good.

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By *ealitybitesMan
4 weeks ago

Belfast

I've had a few negative experiences over the years but never had any problems getting replies to messages or meeting people so no it hasn't been particularly difficult.

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By *oughmanMan
4 weeks ago

Sunderland

I wouldn't say it's been hard. I pretty much knew what I was walking into. I don't even bother sending out messages all that much. So lack of response is on me. However I do like hanging out on forums.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
4 weeks ago

Reading

"I find it certainly in my area to consist of

Fakes

Mentally unstable

Picture sellers

Body sellers

About sums it up

Spoke to 1 or 2 decent genuine people but they are in the minority "

Body sellers??

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By *ife NinjaMan
4 weeks ago

Dunfermline

It takes patience, willingness and the ability to attend socials and clubs. Once you click over 50, the hard facts are that you're pool of friends gets less 🤓

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By *NormalMan01Man
4 weeks ago

Harrogate

It’s just about being yourself and taking the site for what it is. I think a lot of blokes think it’s an easy shag to start with. You’ve fallen at the first hurdle there.

People have lives and different wants from the site.

It is what it is. Be patient, find friends, take your time.

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By *ympho6969Woman
4 weeks ago

glasgow

"I still haven't had a meet. I'm totally befuddled by this place. The future looks bleak..."

You have 14 meet in person verifications?

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By *elboy1978Man
4 weeks ago

Jarrow

I am finding it really hard to find a meet on here

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By *ife NinjaMan
4 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"I am finding it really hard to find a meet on here"

Show some style. Try flirting like you would in a pub. Not 'you've got nice tits' kinda messages 👍🤓

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By *illy IdolMan
4 weeks ago

Midlands

Tough! I'm convinced this place is full of bots🤖

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By *ympho6969Woman
4 weeks ago

glasgow

"Tough! I'm convinced this place is full of bots🤖"

I've wondered the same about some of the guys messaging me. Cos wow

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By *ife NinjaMan
4 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Tough! I'm convinced this place is full of bots🤖

I've wondered the same about some of the guys messaging me. Cos wow"

Spread your age range for a more refined message 🤓

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By *inkShyWoman
4 weeks ago

near Windsor

"Just upload a photo of yourself holding a cake, surrounded with puppies and kittens, add your address and you'll be swamped in bodily fluids in no time."

🤣🤣🤣

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By *illy IdolMan
4 weeks ago

Midlands

"Tough! I'm convinced this place is full of bots🤖

I've wondered the same about some of the guys messaging me. Cos wow"

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By *ympho6969Woman
4 weeks ago

glasgow

"Tough! I'm convinced this place is full of bots🤖

I've wondered the same about some of the guys messaging me. Cos wow

Spread your age range for a more refined message 🤓"

My age range is find for what I'm looking for

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By *ude LawMan
4 weeks ago

Harrogate

"Tough! I'm convinced this place is full of bots🤖

I've wondered the same about some of the guys messaging me. Cos wow

00110 010 000111010101 00111000101 0011101010001110 1011"

Don't call me a cunt, Willy.

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By *illy IdolMan
4 weeks ago

Midlands

"Tough! I'm convinced this place is full of bots🤖

I've wondered the same about some of the guys messaging me. Cos wow

00110 010 000111010101 00111000101 0011101010001110 1011

Don't call me a cunt, Willy."

I knew I should have checked whether you were online 🙈

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By *Ollyinone.Man
4 weeks ago

Warwickshire

Got on just fine. I’ve found It’s more fun the more busy your area is.

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By *ife NinjaMan
4 weeks ago

Dunfermline

"Tough! I'm convinced this place is full of bots🤖

I've wondered the same about some of the guys messaging me. Cos wow

Spread your age range for a more refined message 🤓

My age range is find for what I'm looking for"

You don't know what you're missing 🤷‍♂️😂🤓

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By *olden PoleMan
4 weeks ago

London

I find Fab ok. Sure there’s lots of no reply or unread messages but those that do are fun and interesting to say the least.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
4 weeks ago

Excommunicdo.

It’s alright

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By *tticus Finch 76Man
4 weeks ago

Northampton

Only one meet from here but I go to clubs so I don't really need Fab to find swinging sex.

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By *itty9899Man
4 weeks ago

Craggy Island

I don't try. I just go to the clubs, I ain't wasting time on here.

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By *layfullsamMan
4 weeks ago

Solihull

Not to bad, lowered my expectations and enjoy the forums and odd chat with some lovely people

I live life glass half full and don’t spend my life on here expecting to get a meet and then be devastated when I don’t

If anything happens and I get a meet it’s a bonus

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By *cottish guy 555Man
4 weeks ago

London

Pretty good thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

If you join thinking you will get loads of meets ,you will generally be disappointed, i personally dont care if i meet or not,have going out and actually talking to people in person for that

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By *arriedminxCouple
4 weeks ago

leeds

Yes.. being a single guy is tough on here if you are looking for the wrong thing. I was a single guy on here. I was always polite. Always took part in forum fun. Was patient. And never had a cock shot on show unless a forum challenge or requested. Attended socials and clubs. I met Minx here. And we are back as a married couple… I’m slightly shocked by the lack of respect and care and general decorum some single guys have... manners make the the man afterall

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By *urry BlokeMan
4 weeks ago

I think they would have been more trying had I been straight

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By *rSpontaneous92Man
4 weeks ago

Oxford

I’ve found it hard finding couples or woman near me but have had countless men message me😅 and yeah I finally gave in and met a few 😂

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By *eroLondonMan
4 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I still haven't had a meet. I'm totally befuddled by this place. The future looks bleak...

You have 14 meet in person verifications?"

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There's no fooling you, my Caledonian sweet·nectar. Verifications can be misleading: a few of them were trysts, a few more were clandestine encounters, one or two were casual dalliances and the remaining were afternoon tea soirées. Which of them were bonking I cannot say; my lips are sealed.

And I still haven't met you.

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By *orthern BeardMan
4 weeks ago

The North West

Hasn’t been difficult at all really. Once you got a few verifications it’s easier.

You also only get out what you put in I find

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
4 weeks ago

the moon

Nope …. 🙄

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By *he Silver FuxMan
4 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

I have a lot of fun on here - clubs and socials and meets via messages. Some of the interactions on here lead nowhere as there are a lot of fantasists but as soon as it looks as though they just fooling around online with no intention of meeting I tell them I’m bored and block them.

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By *oredhorny42Man
4 weeks ago

stirling

"Hahaha solid advice

Id eat the cake and refuse entry so i could cuddle the puppies and kittens

I am not an expert but I think I might have worked out where you are going wrong

Brilliant, i think it mau be the refuse entry part 🤦‍♂️

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By *rdimpsMan
4 weeks ago

Hull

When it first started it was v good, now it's just a social club, I don't even bother paying nowadays.

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By *rHotNottsMan
4 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

No complaints, met some awesome women. Veris mean absolutely nothing , mine are all hidden and only one person has ever asked to see some ! Veris only matter to people who are bad judges of character

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By *iaisonseekerMan
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

It has been a relentless cavalcade of quim from day one.

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By *hagTonightMan
4 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

I havent found mrs shag yet.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
4 weeks ago

Essex

I think I’d like to scream

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By *pontaneous_coupleCouple
4 weeks ago

Hoddesdon

Single men struggle on here. Couples range depending on their profile and single women are swapped no matter what their profile looks or says or even if it looks fake

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By *alm_one4Man
4 weeks ago

RM16

Been on here, off and on, for 10 years or so. I’ve done ok, slowing down now though.

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
4 weeks ago

the moon

"I think I’d like to scream "

Cream …..

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

When I read lots of the comments here I guess the only conclusion I can draw from my difficulty in meeting people is, it must be a problem with me.

I will be honest its been a hard lesson to learn that you are undesirable but like all hard lessons it a lesson learned well.

On a positive note, it's good to know your place in things.

I hope you all have a good time.

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By *ea monkeyMan
4 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

fab is always going to be difficult for solo guys, especially if you’re only using this as your outlet for meeting people or making connections.

If you don’t understand the dissonance between on line vs in person and how that will impact on you meeting people, then there’s not much hope. Verifications don’t matter, a good profile will help a bit but meeting good people, being of good character and not being an asshole is *very* important.

People talk, too much maybe but they definitely talk about the assholes, especially in person. Get to clubs, go to socials and get known for the right reasons, then fab might work for you

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By *Silver-Man
4 weeks ago

Southend

"When I read lots of the comments here I guess the only conclusion I can draw from my difficulty in meeting people is, it must be a problem with me.

I will be honest its been a hard lesson to learn that you are undesirable but like all hard lessons it a lesson learned well.

On a positive note, it's good to know your place in things.

I hope you all have a good time."

Everyone is desirable to someone, everyone has their own beauty.

You'll meet someone at some point, stop kicking yourself, don't take meeting someone to seriously. Just go with the flow, be patient and enjoy.

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
4 weeks ago

the moon

"When I read lots of the comments here I guess the only conclusion I can draw from my difficulty in meeting people is, it must be a problem with me.

I will be honest its been a hard lesson to learn that you are undesirable but like all hard lessons it a lesson learned well.

On a positive note, it's good to know your place in things.

I hope you all have a good time."

Hey pal stop giving yourself a hard time …. Just go with the flow … patience is a virtue …. Get involved and have a laugh .. 🍀

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By *anks101Man
4 weeks ago

Clitheroe

It was never this boring and hard but now I think it’s all gone down and too many time wasters.

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By *eroLondonMan
4 weeks ago

Mayfair

"fab is always going to be difficult for solo guys, especially if you’re only using this as your outlet for meeting people or making connections.

People talk, too much maybe but they definitely talk about the assholes, especially in person. Get to clubs, go to socials and get known for the right reasons, then fab might work for you "

Tea, my handsome chum, if you're struggling at the moment then I'm more than happy to give you a few pointers. Perhaps invite you down to ye olde London Towne and do Åfternoon Teå with the ladies.

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By *enelope2UWoman
4 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

"I still haven't had a meet. I'm totally befuddled by this place. The future looks bleak...

You have 14 meet in person verifications?"

For most meet means fucking.. haven't read his verifications but when most grumble it's because they expect to fuck on first in person visual

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By *ris007Man
4 weeks ago

Tunbridge Wells

Mixed results

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
4 weeks ago

the moon

"When I read lots of the comments here I guess the only conclusion I can draw from my difficulty in meeting people is, it must be a problem with me.

I will be honest its been a hard lesson to learn that you are undesirable but like all hard lessons it a lesson learned well.

On a positive note, it's good to know your place in things.

I hope you all have a good time."

gone with the wind 💨🌬

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By *Silver-Man
4 weeks ago

Southend

"When I read lots of the comments here I guess the only conclusion I can draw from my difficulty in meeting people is, it must be a problem with me.

I will be honest its been a hard lesson to learn that you are undesirable but like all hard lessons it a lesson learned well.

On a positive note, it's good to know your place in things.

I hope you all have a good time.

gone with the wind 💨🌬"

So it seems lol

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
4 weeks ago

the moon

"When I read lots of the comments here I guess the only conclusion I can draw from my difficulty in meeting people is, it must be a problem with me.

I will be honest its been a hard lesson to learn that you are undesirable but like all hard lessons it a lesson learned well.

On a positive note, it's good to know your place in things.

I hope you all have a good time.

gone with the wind 💨🌬

So it seems lol"

Bless him …. Got to him the end !

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By *ot so needyMan
4 weeks ago

Galway

I wouldn't say it's been hard.

But I never expected much from here either.

I have definitely found something I wasn't looking for but so glad I did.

I have met someone that I can see us seeing each other for a long time.

So all is good here.

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By *olinOfBathMan
3 weeks ago

Corsham

Awful, consistently awful. It's been over four hours since a lady Fabber wanted to play with me - and she doesn't really count, because she's tried me several times already...

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
3 weeks ago

the moon

"Awful, consistently awful. It's been over four hours since a lady Fabber wanted to play with me - and she doesn't really count, because she's tried me several times already..."

Go on Colin 👏 … top man

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By *ornucopiaMan
3 weeks ago

Bexley

"I find it certainly in my area to consist of

Fakes

Mentally unstable

Picture sellers

Body sellers

About sums it up

Spoke to 1 or 2 decent genuine people but they are in the minority

Body sellers??

Harey Burkes?

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By *arcus263Man
3 weeks ago

Liskeard

3 meets over 6 years so not many. All 3 were fantastic MMF sessions though, very exhilarating.

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By *nsaneronMan
3 weeks ago

Plymouth

"It takes patience, willingness and the ability to attend socials and clubs. Once you click over 50, the hard facts are that you're pool of friends gets less 🤓"

55 next week so I’m doomed lol

But seriously I’ve had my profile for years started it with my late partner which got swamped everyday.

I left it dormant until changing it to single a few years ago. I’ve had very very few women or couple reply to messages. (Never started with Fancy a shag).

Recently changed to bi-curious and get a few from guys now but still nothing from women. Yes I understand they hold all the power when it comes to it.

Never been to a club as I’d feel like a perv going on my own.

It feels like a sausage fest at times lol

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By *upptMan
3 weeks ago

Swansea

Yes

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By *hil most chillMan
3 weeks ago

South East & Europe

I've been here long enough to have adjusted my expectations. If you treat this place as an occasional hobby, it's great. If you expect extended dry spells between the bouts of fun, you won't be disappointed. I'm very chill about it these days (my name is no accident), and hence my experience here is a good one

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By *ibs4Man
3 weeks ago

Romford,poitiers france and torrevieja spain

No problem really,it’s a bit difficult here in France but all good,a couple of meetings,like chatting with people every week

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
3 weeks ago

The last house on the left…

It’s been…as expected. Fab works as soon as you “get the hang of it”.

I am not & would not use any other site of its kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Never easy I like it that way (cries in corner)

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By *enk15Man
3 weeks ago

Evesham

You can turn the difficulty level down in the settings

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By *olinOfBathMan
3 weeks ago

Corsham

"You can turn the difficulty level down in the settings

I didn't even realise this until I read that section of FAQ properly...

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By *moothdickMan
3 weeks ago

stoke

The older I’ve got, it’s become more exclusive instead of inclusive… just an age thing, one thinks

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By *enegadeMMan
3 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

It’s not easy I would say mainly due to the vast difference in numbers of males vs females / couples / tvts

But there’s so many other factors…. The standard of message…. The time of day ….. the day

We just got to keep fighting the fight (jovial comment)

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

I just can't be arsed with it anymore, I only do the forums now.

I do think if you have 'no game' in real life, Fab will only make a single guys confidence worse, not better.

I think you have to be exceptional as a guy to get success, a Ferrari in a car park full of Ford Focus's if you like.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
3 weeks ago

Ends

Rubbish. I’ve been used and abused. I’ve been led on and strung along. I’ve been friend zoned and rejected.

But I charged it to the game

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
3 weeks ago

Ends

Seriously though, I’ve met two or three amazing women who have reciprocated my attraction. And that’s enough for me.

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By *VANDYMan
3 weeks ago

Dawlish

Obviously I’m a newbie but no luck at all. Sent several messages, polite and respectful, probably sounded like I was after a date

No dicpix although two insisted so I did. I guess it’s just the sheer number of males.

I have a FWB on here who I met before I knew FAB existed and she gets nearly a thousand a week so it’s hard to stand out. I wasn’t expecting a shag fest and I understand for most it’s not just about that and I’m the same. I think the club near me, Utopia?, has a Solo Night coming up so might try getting accepted for that, again more for curiosity than for sex at this stage.

Another option is to be a couple with my FWB but she pretty much only does clubs.

This isn’t a moan, more a progress so far.

Happy Fabbing everyone.

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By *iker JackMan
3 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

As one of the perceived number of single males on here I don’t find it hard as I have zero expectations of what this place is

For me the mistake some make is thinking that the forums are the ultimate answer to success. They are used by a very small percentage of people on here and whilst sometimes can highlight you in a positive way can also do the same in a negative. And that’s the same for everyone on here not just the men

Also for me I have a real acceptance of who I am and who or what situation works for me and I won’t try and jump through multiple hoops to please others. As men we can also say “no thanks”

So is it hard or difficult here, I guess it depends on what you’re looking for and how you try and achieve that

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By *enegadeMMan
3 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"Obviously I’m a newbie but no luck at all. Sent several messages, polite and respectful, probably sounded like I was after a date

No dicpix although two insisted so I did. I guess it’s just the sheer number of males.

Another option is to be a couple with my FWB but she pretty much only does clubs.

This isn’t a moan, more a progress so far.

Happy Fabbing everyone. "

Hold on a moment …. You found unicorns who want dick pics

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By *llicitnickMan
3 weeks ago

Sheffield

Like everyone new I misunderstood how this place works, however I think I get it now. Luckily I don't rely on fab for meets - tinder etc still works well for me so I can't complain (meeting a lovely ebony lady tomorrow for drinks after work - and I can't wait!)

I think it's the lack of acknowledgement of sent messages which makes it frustrating - maybe I'm just unattractive which is fine, I'd like to know though

I reckon it would be simple to ease some frustrations if when deleting a message they could select a reason if they wanted to - not attracted, bad profile etc.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Stockport

Well good and bad , had a social , she said your not for me

We stayed in touch as we actually got on

Went to a club , has sex , moved in together , got married

And are now a fab couple

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By *BWHunterMan
3 weeks ago

Liverpool Street, London

"Rubbish. I’ve been used and abused. I’ve been led on and strung along. I’ve been friend zoned and rejected.

But I charged it to the game"

Deffo have to charge it! Had someone dissect my bio last week. Got me down a bit. Had to remix it up afterwards

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
3 weeks ago

Ends

"Rubbish. I’ve been used and abused. I’ve been led on and strung along. I’ve been friend zoned and rejected.

But I charged it to the game

Deffo have to charge it! Had someone dissect my bio last week. Got me down a bit. Had to remix it up afterwards "

Bro, don’t let this website get you down. It honestly isn’t worth any of that space in your head.

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By *i_alternative_coupleCouple
3 weeks ago

cradley

I have been here as a single guy before and did fine. You just have to be respectful have decent info and pics on your profile and not be horrible and pushy it's not really that difficult to be honest.

That's just my 2 cents

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
3 weeks ago

Home

Yes but I'll keep plugging along

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By *ony MannMan
3 weeks ago

Lagos, Portugal// Andover

It has its ups and downs better years and not so good.

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By *bo7118Man
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

Yes, impossible when it comes to women. But at least the forums and pics that people share keep me entertained

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By *LiamMan
3 weeks ago

Midlands

It's not been too bad for me. We will see as I get older though

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By *iss.BellaWoman
3 weeks ago

Wales

"It's not been too bad for me. We will see as I get older though"

so old..

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By *S74Man
3 weeks ago

Bury

Yes and no- Ive been on and off for a decade and it can be cyclical .

I found it goes up when verified- so get to socials or clubs and also be realistic in that they’re real women or couples and a shit message or dick pic just doesn’t get far.

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By *LiamMan
3 weeks ago

Midlands

"It's not been too bad for me. We will see as I get older though

so old..

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you didn't mind🤷‍♂️

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By *iss.BellaWoman
3 weeks ago

Wales

"It's not been too bad for me. We will see as I get older though

so old..

you didn't mind🤷‍♂️"

I still don't

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By *ewtfaceMan
3 weeks ago

Bracknell

Like unloading a lorry load of sand with a pitchfork ~ hard going! But not without some successes, so mustn't grumble

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By *reetogoodhomeMan
3 weeks ago

Hereandthere

When you dont take anything serious here & you really don't care how things go , it doesn't matter thb but if you think here is a guaranteed F**k & you're not getting it it plays hell with your mentality, always remember nothing that happens here should affect your well being , it's easy to fall into that trap, to answer the OP's question, things here went wayyyyy better that l ever imagined tbh .

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By *jonesMan
3 weeks ago

Plymouth

It's not so difficult if you don't rely on messaging on fab...ie go to socials or clubs.

Everyone finds messaging on fab hard work , flakey , fakes , weirdos, no shows.

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By *eedsmale36Man
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Can’t complain, I’m more Cess Pitt than Brad Pitt but had some great meets with couples and females.

I’ve even said no thanks to several couples that have contacted me…..check me out

Some couples / females have even come back for more.

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By *attM73Man
2 weeks ago

Oldham

"How has your experiences been?? "
my experience of Fab has been crap, it’s a definitely a unwelcoming environment to say the least.

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By *hubbycheckerMan
2 weeks ago

Porstmouth

It's been monstrously hard, however I stuck at it glad I did as I managed to meet up with an absolute gem

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By *hoenix_1Man
2 weeks ago

richmond

It's always been hard for single guys on fab, but eventually well both the effort

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By *olte121Man
2 weeks ago

just up the road and first left

Keeping the faith.

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By *orny lad 12345Man
2 weeks ago

Scarborough

Very hard!

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By *loydyMan
2 weeks ago

British

"How has your experiences been?? "
waste of time

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By *ldNewbie64Man
2 weeks ago

Bury

Impossible.

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By *aryportmeatMan
2 weeks ago

Whitehaven

Absolutely vile would be my description, 1 in 10 messsges replied too, munters who think They are made of gold and deserve the world, women who wants nice and honest but don’t give anyone a chance, it’s absolutely horrible; to the point I’ve given up, I just stick to the forums, where I’m also blanked.

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By *aryportmeatMan
2 weeks ago

Whitehaven

But from the female side, it is a complete sausage fest,

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By *ecadentDeviantsCouple
2 weeks ago

Northwich

I would imagine it would be hard as a single guy as to be blunt ladies wield a lot more pulling power than an equivalent male. Mrs has a single fem profile on here looking for select guys & even though she is now past her prime at 53 due to sheer volume of messages she can be picky. Nay, very picky.

She gets so many messages she frequently has to hide her profile to stem the tide. It’d be a fab tsunami otherwise!

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By *oonbath89Man
2 weeks ago

radstock

I’ve met 2 people and made some good friends however it’s definitely a needle in a haystack , right place right time kind of thing , it’s is exceptionally hard for single guys on here but unfortunately as infuriating as it can be it’s the price of ticket , unfortunately for us single men couples and woman are more sort after , I will be honest I had more shags off tinder than here but I’ll Perceiver for little while longer

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By *upanovaMan
2 weeks ago

Sheffield

"I would imagine it would be hard as a single guy as to be blunt ladies wield a lot more pulling power than an equivalent male. Mrs has a single fem profile on here looking for select guys & even though she is now past her prime at 53 due to sheer volume of messages she can be picky. Nay, very picky.

She gets so many messages she frequently has to hide her profile to stem the tide. It’d be a fab tsunami otherwise!

Definitely not past her prime at 53! It is a tough gig as guy in here, women definitely hold the power. But I have managed to chat and meet even had a relationship with someone I met on here.

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By *hoc TitanMan
2 weeks ago

Peterborough

It was easier a decade ago when I first got into the scene, could say the same thing with tinder etc etc....but always treated it like a vacation so to speak , plus living up north was a better scene imo .

Clubs and parties are better long term than online just as in the real world .

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By *parrow77Man
2 weeks ago

cheshire

Difficult for me last meet was 3 yrs ago I feel either something about me puts ladies and couples off that I don’t get anything or if do chat soon as send pic they vanish wish kind of makes me think am so bad looking.

Maybe that’s just how I feel but seems no one wants me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

It’s hard for older single men, as know one believes that your single

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By *ypersoonMan
2 weeks ago

WHITCHURCH, Shropshire

Yes though mixed at same time, been over a year since I received my last verifications at a public social in Shrewsbury where I made a very good impression showing I am polite & chatty. Mind did have a little success at Club Alchemy last Saturday in my 1st visit for a year through a meet-fuck (very rare style among swingers) with 2 women in a female gloryhole.

In between those moments, no success though almost had a meet with a cuckold couple on NYE. The plan was meet up, have a few drinks together, go back to theirs & fuck her in front of him. But on the day, the hubby fell ill, his wife tried (& struggled) to find a female pal to chaperone so they cancelled as I'd just arrived via rail replacement bus in Shrewsbury

as willing as I'd be to give them a second chance, they disappeared off Fabbers a few weeks afterwards.

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By *imon_hydeMan
2 weeks ago

Stockport

Happy to be on the site but I rarely meet. Largely due to my mental health over the past year or so but also due to my age, looks and personality. ')

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By *uilder.funMan
2 weeks ago

Bristol

I don't think its meant to be easy. Just because it's a swinger sex site doesn't mean your guaranteed to get laid. Doesn't work that way in real life why would it work here. I tell you what though....being here is a lot of fun isn't it

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
2 weeks ago

Oldham

Good so far, I hope for even better times ahead.

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By *scaMan
2 weeks ago

St Albans

I guess it all depends on you’re expectations and what you’re looking for. Everyone will tell you it’s tough for single guys on Fab - but that’s not been my experience.

Honesty, friendliness and knowing what you want go a long way in helping you find your ‘people’ here. Happy to offer advice to any guys who might be struggling at the moment. There’s no rocket science to it all really.

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By *akeland-ladMan
2 weeks ago

South Lakes

Not difficult but not been drowning in it since. Had a social with a local couple and I've gone on to fuck the Mrs a couple of times (wether Mr knows I'm not sure but I'm not going to poke that bear). Also had a couple of meets with females.

Honestly I've found I've just been lucky in being right place, right time, and able to work that to my advantage over the hundreds of other single guys locally who are all after the same shallow pool of single women profiles and or couples who would meet men.

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By *ustamanMan
2 weeks ago

weymouth

Define difficult, have I been drowning in pussy - no. Have I generally enjoyed myself otherwise yes.

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By *_FynnMan
2 weeks ago

Near You

"How has your experiences been?? "

Awesome 👌

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By *ggdrasil66Man
2 weeks ago

Saltdean

It was great when I first joined, I met some really nice sexy people, mainly couples. But as I get older I find it impossible. I try to be honest in my profile because I’d hate to go visit someone and disappoint people if I got a meeting.

Still here though, because you never know, right?

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By *2000ManMan
2 weeks ago

Worthing

About what I expected...use it for forum/cam room chat which is good.

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By *dz69247Man
2 weeks ago

Manchester

Fab isn’t the best if you are looking for vanilla sex with ladies and couples, you are in a sea of a thousand faces (and dicks) and will struggle to find reliable meets.

My advice is always use the hot list feature, search for people that match your criteria using the nearby feature and search, check the profiles and make sure they have recent veris to show they regularly meet, then add them to your hotlist.

Build up your hotlist like this, and check daily for updates, a lot of people looking to meet will usually post on the day, if not the hour they want to play, you just have to hope your timings match, and if you send a decent message with some decent pics you are likely to get a reply.

Fab is great for different things, I love it for gangbangs, but the majority of my casual escapades have been through dating sites, and affair sites (I’m single but love the thrill of a married lady).

I’ve also moved back home with my parents for a short while whilst I’m buying a house, and have experienced a ten fold drop in fun as I can no longer accommodate, this is only short term however, but being able to accommodate is 10x improvement on a chance to meet.

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By *orester891Man
2 weeks ago

It’s difficult if you’re genuine finding a way through the fakes, fantasists and all the rest

Ever the optimist though

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By *iss.BellaWoman
2 weeks ago

Wales

Another cry fest 🎻🙄

Sod the men!

It's worse for women! Unsolicited dick pics and hairy holes.

A hundred essays about how he'll lick your left flap and have you squirting for hours (it's piss🤷‍♀️)

And I definitely don't want to come to your hotel because you're currently in the area. Ta.

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By *eoBloomsMan
2 weeks ago

Springfield

"Another cry fest 🎻🙄

Sod the men!

It's worse for women! Unsolicited dick pics and hairy holes.

Hairy Holes ! 🤣🤣

(Adds Veet to the shopping list

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By *ase4122Man
2 weeks ago

Lancashire

"Another cry fest 🎻🙄

Sod the men!

It's worse for women! Unsolicited dick pics and hairy holes.

A hundred essays about how he'll lick your left flap and have you squirting for hours (it's piss🤷‍♀️)

And I definitely don't want to come to your hotel because you're currently in the area. Ta."

Is a chat out of the question lol

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By *antassack889Man
2 weeks ago

Ware

It's a grind put it that way lol like someone else said there's guys that ruin it for the genuine ones, I don't send unsolicited dick pics and don't constantly message people but still find myself on here lol

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By *iss.BellaWoman
2 weeks ago

Wales

"Another cry fest 🎻🙄

Sod the men!

It's worse for women! Unsolicited dick pics and hairy holes.

Hairy Holes ! 🤣🤣

(Adds Veet to the shopping list

Veet?!

I wouldn't 😬😬 get yer razor out and take your time!

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By *rcraigMan
2 weeks ago

alfreton

Virtually impossible for me to get a meet with a nice lady or couple x

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By *ildTimes.Man
2 weeks ago

Colchester/London

"Another cry fest 🎻🙄

Sod the men!

It's worse for women! Unsolicited dick pics and hairy holes.

Hairy Holes ! 🤣🤣

(Adds Veet to the shopping list

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Veet?!

I wouldn't 😬😬 get yer razor out and take your time!

Spoken like a true pro! 🥪

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
2 weeks ago

The Side of the Mersey

Harder recently than it used to be. More time wasters now than there used to be and I think more idiot blokes ruin it for the decent blokes. But I’m not as fussed if I meet as I used to be.

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By *iss.BellaWoman
2 weeks ago

Wales

Spoken like a true pro! 🥪"

Only going off what you told me about the third degree burns around yours

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By *llshaun88Man
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

Fun

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By *lackmamba2004Man
2 weeks ago

manchester

Not at all

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By *xstaceyxxTV/TS
2 weeks ago

longeaton,ng10

Not very good to be honest, I keep trying but fail due to people not turning up.Packing it in soon.

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By *eoBloomsMan
2 weeks ago

Springfield

"Another cry fest 🎻🙄

Sod the men!

It's worse for women! Unsolicited dick pics and hairy holes.

Hairy Holes ! 🤣🤣

(Adds Veet to the shopping list

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Veet?!

I wouldn't 😬😬 get yer razor out and take your time!

Gillette Mach 3 and a mirror...might finally make Page 1 of Hot Pics if I video that.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I’m thinking of leaving but I’ll know I’ll be back so I just stay

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By *il-widgeMan
2 weeks ago

Stoke on Trent

"I’m thinking of leaving but I’ll know I’ll be back so I just stay "

Looks like he changed his mind....

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By *ray_BTWMan
2 weeks ago

Worcester

Tbh, fortunately not too bad at all...had some fun so can't complain.

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By *olte121Man
2 weeks ago

just up the road and first left

I’ve been on here as a couple and singleton

Couples get loads of Interest but often for desperado men.

So having seen both sides I understand why it’s difficult for guys

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