FabSwingers.com forum: Crap blowjobs

By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

Guys u meet a girl who is a good fit in everyway but crap at bj and doesn’t even like giving them. Could u live with it or is it a deal breaker

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By *oldyoudown41Man
24 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Of course you can live with that…. You crazy

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
24 weeks ago

Central

If people are open to giving them, they can learn. But it sounds like the OPs position is she doesn't like giving them

Perhaps it's a ploy, giving bad ones, so that she gets out of it

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By *litlicker77Man
24 weeks ago

dirty old town

Good oral is a deal breaker for me

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By *igboobstCouple
24 weeks ago

barrow

Deal breaker for me, a good blowjob is a mental health essential

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By *elloWoman
24 weeks ago

alpha centauri

"Guys u meet a girl who is a good fit in everyway but crap at bj and doesn’t even like giving them. Could u live with it or is it a deal breaker "

You just invite a bi guy (or a fab straight guy) to join in and he could do the bits the lady doesn't enjoy or is crap at . Win win

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By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

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By *ympho6969Woman
24 weeks ago

glasgow

"Guys u meet a girl who is a good fit in everyway but crap at bj and doesn’t even like giving them. Could u live with it or is it a deal breaker "

I'd rather live with it or walk away than have them feel they need to do something they clearly don't enjoy. I get no pleasure from someone doing something out of obligation.

Had a similar chat with a friend recently who didn't like giving anal but would if a girl liked it. Doesn't do anything for me if they don't like it. So it was instantly off the table

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By (user no longer on site) OP
24 weeks ago

"Deal breaker for me, a good blowjob is a mental health essential

Agreed

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By *2000ManMan
24 weeks ago

Worthing

I think what I do inside and outside of bedroom would mean anything she does is going to be good.

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By *oistknickersCouple
24 weeks ago

London

This is what education is about, you’ve got to find common ground and work together to solve this serious issue.

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By *vaRoseWoman
24 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

"Guys u meet a girl who is a good fit in everyway but crap at bj and doesn’t even like giving them. Could u live with it or is it a deal breaker

I'd rather live with it or walk away than have them feel they need to do something they clearly don't enjoy. I get no pleasure from someone doing something out of obligation.

Had a similar chat with a friend recently who didn't like giving anal but would if a girl liked it. Doesn't do anything for me if they don't like it. So it was instantly off the table"

Enthusiasm counts for so much. I’d rather never have it than have it given because they felt duty bound to provide it

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By *each needs some creamWoman
24 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

On the flip side as I am a woman,

If the man was crap at sex then it would be a deal breaker, I couldn't have a sexless relationship.

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By *iddle ManMan
24 weeks ago

Walsall

I guess it could be a deal breaker, but I have never had a bad blowjob. Yes some are much better than others but I've never thought that was terrible. Even with teeth and pain, I've still had it in someone's mouth and they have taken the time and effort to do it.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
24 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Guys u meet a girl who is a good fit in everyway but crap at bj and doesn’t even like giving them. Could u live with it or is it a deal breaker "

Would you enjoy if she did it and really didn’t like doing it though?

Actually this could be an interesting thread to do

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By *anonfire96Man
24 weeks ago

Mansfield

It has to be a mutual thing for both parties, if one doesn't like doing it then why make a problem out of it. If everything else is perfect.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
24 weeks ago

in Lancashire

One could of course communicate openly with respect for the other person and learn together if one or both are less experienced in any aspect of sex..

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Its a deal breaker for me.

I had a f**k buddy who was a size 6/8 which is what I go for. Absolutely supermodel figure but wouldn't suck cock and missionary only.

It didn't last long, being sucked is essential, espcially if they expect me to lick them out.

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By *rHotNottsMan
24 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"If people are open to giving them, they can learn. But it sounds like the OPs position is she doesn't like giving them

Perhaps it's a ploy, giving bad ones, so that she gets out of it"

If you have a small dry mouth and big teeth, there’s not much learning can help

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By *anonfire96Man
24 weeks ago

Mansfield

See I'd give a woman oral and expect absolutely nothing in return, I get so much pleasure out of seeing the woman satisfied.

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By *igboobstCouple
24 weeks ago

barrow

"See I'd give a woman oral and expect absolutely nothing in return, I get so much pleasure out of seeing the woman satisfied. "
can see that on a meet but a life time of crap blowjobs is a long time to be giving pleasure for not a lot in return

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By *upersonic SamMan
24 weeks ago

wigan

No chance, buy her a wand and get shot as quickly as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Not a deal breaker for me. Enjoy them like all men do but lots of other things you can do. I actually prefer kissing a lady slowly as she gives me a slow sloppy hand job.

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By *andN987Couple
24 weeks ago

north east

"Guys u meet a girl who is a good fit in everyway but crap at bj and doesn’t even like giving them. Could u live with it or is it a deal breaker

I'd rather live with it or walk away than have them feel they need to do something they clearly don't enjoy. I get no pleasure from someone doing something out of obligation.

Had a similar chat with a friend recently who didn't like giving anal but would if a girl liked it. Doesn't do anything for me if they don't like it. So it was instantly off the table"

100% agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Given I've no interest in them then that would be perfect

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By *eganMayWoman
24 weeks ago

Clevedon

Perhaps you haven’t washed well and taste/smell awful.

Perhaps you’re too thrusty and she doesn’t like gagging.

Maybe you need to shave down there.

Loads of reasons why some women’s don’t like it.

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By *usie pTV/TS
24 weeks ago

taunton

Crikey if you have a good sex life other than bj count your blessings and look after her with all your might.

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By *oiluvfunMan
22 weeks ago

Penrith

"Guys u meet a girl who is a good fit in everyway but crap at bj and doesn’t even like giving them. Could u live with it or is it a deal breaker "

Not a deal breaker for me, as it’s the norm lol! I’ve just accepted women suck cock for foreplay, and look forward to the actual sex

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
22 weeks ago

in Lancashire

"Crikey if you have a good sex life other than bj count your blessings and look after her with all your might."

This..

Such threads and 'issues' scream entitlement and self, self,self..

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By *viatrixWoman
22 weeks ago

Redhill

I think I’ve only discovered I never really liked giving blowjobs.

I like the effect doing it causes

but it makes my jaw sore and I’d much rather have the cock up my foof than in my mouth.

So blowjobs will be off the table if you meet me. Be warned, LOL. 😂😂😂😂

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By *afkaMan
22 weeks ago

Nottingham

"Guys u meet a girl who is a good fit in everyway but crap at bj and doesn’t even like giving them. Could u live with it or is it a deal breaker "

Lived with her for twenty odd years

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Meet would be nice

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By *appyhitsMan
22 weeks ago

Midlands

A bad blow job is like bad pizza, still good

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
22 weeks ago

Chester

It’s not a great experience - for you.

I’m sorry if this is a shock to anyone, but not everyone likes the same thing, so your terrible bj might be her previous partner’s best bj ever.

Talk to her! Find out why she doesn’t like it and see if there’s a way through.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
22 weeks ago

in Lancashire

"It’s not a great experience - for you.

I’m sorry if this is a shock to anyone, but not everyone likes the same thing, so your terrible bj might be her previous partner’s best bj ever.

Talk to her! Find out why she doesn’t like it and see if there’s a way through. "

You mean communicate with the one who shares your life to gain understanding and compromise..?

What kind of sorcery is this in these modern times of spewing it all out there on social media to complete strangers..?

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Chichester

id just tell them to give me a rimbjob instead then , job done and life is good

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By *k62023Man
22 weeks ago

Enfield

Sadly have to live with it, but I'm yet to receive a bad BJ from a trans - it's definitely the answer to any BJ issues 😊

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Chichester

"Sadly have to live with it, but I'm yet to receive a bad BJ from a trans - it's definitely the answer to any BJ issues 😊"

tbh anyone that has a cock is generally great at sucking cock ,, it is just how It is ..

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By *k62023Man
22 weeks ago

Enfield

"Sadly have to live with it, but I'm yet to receive a bad BJ from a trans - it's definitely the answer to any BJ issues 😊

tbh anyone that has a cock is generally great at sucking cock ,, it is just how It is .. "

Hopefully mine are good too, certainly had no complaints x

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By *naswingdressWoman
22 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I think I’ve only discovered I never really liked giving blowjobs.

I like the effect doing it causes

but it makes my jaw sore and I’d much rather have the cock up my foof than in my mouth.

So blowjobs will be off the table if you meet me. Be warned, LOL. 😂😂😂😂"

Agreed.

It makes my jaw ache, can make me gag even if hygiene is perfect - and yes I do have to ask if it is

Why not do something that actually, physiologically, can provide pleasure to both of us?

I'm happy to be a no go for people who insist I have to like something

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By *layfull pairingCouple
22 weeks ago

Bristol

Jesus, some people are awful fussy... any blowjob is better than none

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By *ary69321Man
22 weeks ago

Newcastle upon tyne

My last girlfriend was crap at blowjobs, I broke up with her not because of that, it was just one thing on a list of many problems she had, or I had with her.

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By *ildTimes.Man
22 weeks ago

Wherever I May Roam

I've had more crap blowjobs than decent ones but the decent ones were really good, it's not a deal breaker but they better make up for it in other ways, or else they're gone! 🥪

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
22 weeks ago

Chester

"It’s not a great experience - for you.

I’m sorry if this is a shock to anyone, but not everyone likes the same thing, so your terrible bj might be her previous partner’s best bj ever.

Talk to her! Find out why she doesn’t like it and see if there’s a way through.

You mean communicate with the one who shares your life to gain understanding and compromise..?

What kind of sorcery is this in these modern times of spewing it all out there on social media to complete strangers..?

I know, I don’t know what I was thinking! Back to my crystal ball I go.

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