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"I agree, don't need a specific day to show someone you care about them. You should be making them feel loved every day and feeling loved in return. Rather than someone value me all year round than buy me dinner and chocolates one day a year. " That suggest those two things aren't compatible? My experience is the people who don't bother marking 'special' days (Birthdays, Christmas, etc) are less likely to make any effort at other times, or only make an effort when it suits them. | |||
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"Who isn’t big into Valentine’s Day? I never have been, whether in a relationship or out of it. Figure if you want to show or tell someone you love them, or wanna bonk them, or whatever, you can do that any day! Am I missing something about it? Mrs TMN x" Not really no. Every day is valentines day if you want it to be. Like any of the other "days" we are forced to consume... Fucking pizza day or cream filled donuts day... Lesbian day big penis day, you name it Clinton's cards has a day for it and some fucker will be tik toking about it | |||
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"Missed out the amount of money companies make out of it, for mainly cheap tat that lands in landfill. Can you tell I love it? ![]() Ha ha! I hear you. | |||
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"I’m not when I’m single ![]() Kiss and a titwank sounds like a winner every day ![]() | |||
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"I agree, don't need a specific day to show someone you care about them. You should be making them feel loved every day and feeling loved in return. Rather than someone value me all year round than buy me dinner and chocolates one day a year. " Yeah that’s similar to my feelings. It feels really performative to me. | |||
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"I got four cards one year. I was into it then." ![]() | |||
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"Where I come from, we’ve always called this day “Dia del amor y la amistad” “Day of Love and Friendship” So from a very early age we learned to give a little token of appreciation to our friends. ![]() Day of Love and Friendship! I love that. | |||
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"It's like any other celebratory days. It will mean something different to everyone or nothing at all. Viva la difference ![]() ![]() Very true. I’m not knocking people who celebrate. | |||
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"Who isn’t big into Valentine’s Day? I never have been, whether in a relationship or out of it. Figure if you want to show or tell someone you love them, or wanna bonk them, or whatever, you can do that any day! Am I missing something about it? Mrs TMN x Not really no. Every day is valentines day if you want it to be. Like any of the other "days" we are forced to consume... Fucking pizza day or cream filled donuts day... Lesbian day big penis day, you name it Clinton's cards has a day for it and some fucker will be tik toking about it " But you're not forced to consume anything🤷♂️ You are an individual Mr B ! | |||
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"I agree, don't need a specific day to show someone you care about them. You should be making them feel loved every day and feeling loved in return. Rather than someone value me all year round than buy me dinner and chocolates one day a year. That suggest those two things aren't compatible? My experience is the people who don't bother marking 'special' days (Birthdays, Christmas, etc) are less likely to make any effort at other times, or only make an effort when it suits them. " That doesn’t sound like a positive experience ![]() | |||
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"Who isn’t big into Valentine’s Day? I never have been, whether in a relationship or out of it. Figure if you want to show or tell someone you love them, or wanna bonk them, or whatever, you can do that any day! Am I missing something about it? Mrs TMN x Not really no. Every day is valentines day if you want it to be. Like any of the other "days" we are forced to consume... Fucking pizza day or cream filled donuts day... Lesbian day big penis day, you name it Clinton's cards has a day for it and some fucker will be tik toking about it But you're not forced to consume anything🤷♂️ You are an individual Mr B !" Endure is a better choice of word than consume. And in which case yes we are forced to endure many, but yes we are all individuals. | |||
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"Fuck that shit and fuck love too!! " Gizza hug. ![]() | |||
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"Fuck that shit and fuck love too!! " Hello to you, my name is Love ![]() | |||
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"It's ended up far too commercial. Just a chance for flower shops and restaurants to up their prices. . I don't see the romance in being told to do it on a specific day. . " That’s a bit of me too! The relationship anarchist in me. Don’t tell me how and when to show my affection ![]() | |||
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"I've never been able to get excited about it. Although I did get a card this year and now feel slightly guilty for not reciprocating ![]() Ah sack those unwritten societal expectations that make us feel bad ❤️ | |||
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"Never seen the point. But I'm the same with mothers and fathers day, and even birthdays as I've got older. Why spend one day showing someone you care?" I don’t think it is. How can whether you buy someone a card or not be a measure of your affection? I don’t get it. | |||
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"Who isn’t big into Valentine’s Day? I never have been, whether in a relationship or out of it. Figure if you want to show or tell someone you love them, or wanna bonk them, or whatever, you can do that any day! Am I missing something about it? Mrs TMN x Not really no. Every day is valentines day if you want it to be. Like any of the other "days" we are forced to consume... Fucking pizza day or cream filled donuts day... Lesbian day big penis day, you name it Clinton's cards has a day for it and some fucker will be tik toking about it " I’ve never felt forced to consume it. It’s just not for me. | |||
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"Fuck that shit and fuck love too!! " All of the stars are fading away Just try not to worry, you'll see them someday Take what you need, and be on your way And stop crying your heart out | |||
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"Fuck that shit and fuck love too!! " Ooh, fighting talk! And from us Valentine’s photo challenge peeps too ![]() | |||
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"Nope, never been into it. This one is the most effort I've put into Schmalentine’s Day. Can't resist a photo challenge ![]() I do enjoy a photo challenge. What is St Dwynwen’s Day? | |||
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"Basically, the Welsh version of Valentine's Day 😅" Ah! Thank you. Are there different traditions? | |||
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"I detest it. Tough. You’re getting this love. " Love me tomorrow instead. | |||
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"I detest it. Tough. You’re getting this love. Love me tomorrow instead. " But Misty, will you still love me tomorrow? Your schedule is filling up there ![]() | |||
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"I detest it. Tough. You’re getting this love. Love me tomorrow instead. But Misty, will you still love me tomorrow? Your schedule is filling up there ![]() Forever and ever babe | |||
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"I detest it. Tough. You’re getting this love. Love me tomorrow instead. " Busy. I’ll send you some dates | |||
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"Basically, the Welsh version of Valentine's Day 😅 Ah! Thank you. Are there different traditions?" Pretty much the same, but only commercialised in recent years. There's a place near us, Llanddwyn Island that people like to visit. It's beautiful in it's own right, but the lore is fun. Also Welsh love spoons! That's not just a statement ![]() | |||
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"It's ended up far too commercial. Just a chance for flower shops and restaurants to up their prices. . I don't see the romance in being told to do it on a specific day. . That’s a bit of me too! The relationship anarchist in me. Don’t tell me how and when to show my affection ![]() Woohoo. Now get ya kit off. ![]() | |||
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"Missed out the amount of money companies make out of it, for mainly cheap tat that lands in landfill. Can you tell I love it? ![]() But I will admit, loving all the galentine love I've been recieving this week. Think that is one of the positives from Valentine's ♥️ | |||
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"Fuck that shit and fuck love too!! Ooh, fighting talk! And from us Valentine’s photo challenge peeps too ![]() Oh bugger.. err yeah, up with love 😭😭😭 | |||
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"The demand avoidant part of me rebels. But the people pleaser part of me would hate someone I love to feel rejected just because I get pouty about it being over-commercialised. " Repeat after me: I am not responsible for other people’s emotions. I am not responsible for other people’s emotions. I am not responsible for other people’s emotions. X | |||
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