FabSwingers.com forum: Would you like a coffee...

By *eli OP Woman
26 weeks ago

in my/our room? Or any kind of beverage really.

If someone asked that, would you think it's code for sex? Would you ask someone that as a more erm, polite form of fancy a fuck?

How do you "move" things on?

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By *oeBeansMan
26 weeks ago

Derby

Erm... If someone asked me that, I'd probably genuinely think they meant a coffee or a drink

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

A coffee in my room sounds a bit odd

Which room?

Bathroom, kitchen, bedroom?

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By *es not the MessiahMan
26 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

I had a lass I was talking to when on holiday say that to me and I said I was having another drink in the bar and I'd see her the next day.

Totally didn't get that she was coming on to me.

Never really spoke to me after that

Saw her with 2 other guys in the next week before I flew home

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

These days I assume it’s an invitation to consume a hot beverage.

I’d kinda hope that if someone wants sex with me, that they say something along the lines of “we should fuck”

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

I'm so used to the directness of Fab now that I'd probably take it literally.

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By *hunky GentMan
26 weeks ago

Stamford

If someone invited to the hotel room for a drink I would take it as a 75% chance of 'sexy time'

Unless her grandma is in the room when we arrive

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By *eli OP Woman
26 weeks ago

"Erm... If someone asked me that, I'd probably genuinely think they meant a coffee or a drink

Yes Joe! That's exactly how I'd see it. Always have.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"If someone invited to the hotel room for a drink I would take it as a 75% chance of 'sexy time'

Unless her grandma is in the room when we arrive

Then what. 100%🤣🤣

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By *eli OP Woman
26 weeks ago

"A coffee in my room sounds a bit odd

Which room?

Bathroom, kitchen, bedroom?

Do you regularly drink in your bathroom? Might be missing out on something here.

No - my place, hotel room etc. You get the idea now (I hope!).

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By *viatrixWoman
26 weeks ago

Redhill

It’s like Joey and Monica with a glass of lemonade

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"A coffee in my room sounds a bit odd

Which room?

Bathroom, kitchen, bedroom?

Do you regularly drink in your bathroom? Might be missing out on something here.

No - my place, hotel room etc. You get the idea now (I hope!)."

I often take a cuppa when I have a bath as I read a book.

But….in all honesty I guess it would be the next step of the evening

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By *atte Lover 82Man
26 weeks ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED

Genuinely think it was for a coffee and be happy to oblige

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By *NormalMan01Man
26 weeks ago

Harrogate

"in my/our room? Or any kind of beverage really.

If someone asked that, would you think it's code for sex? Would you ask someone that as a more erm, polite form of fancy a fuck?

How do you "move" things on? "

I’d wonder why we’re having coffee in a room?

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
26 weeks ago

from mars

I’d think they’re offering me a coffee ….

Could drop the biggest hints I still would miss them lol …

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By *ronmant16Man
26 weeks ago

Sheffield

Iv just made a cup of tea, would this have a meaning or play any relevance at all in this scenario

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By *hunky GentMan
26 weeks ago

Stamford

Just do your best not to spill any.

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By *eli OP Woman
26 weeks ago

"I had a lass I was talking to when on holiday say that to me and I said I was having another drink in the bar and I'd see her the next day.

Totally didn't get that she was coming on to me.

Never really spoke to me after that

Saw her with 2 other guys in the next week before I flew home"

Oh Frood.

If there's a next time you'll know though. Hope there is!

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"in my/our room? Or any kind of beverage really.

If someone asked that, would you think it's code for sex? Would you ask someone that as a more erm, polite form of fancy a fuck?

How do you "move" things on? "

When I was a student and hopelessly stupid, I walked a bohemian lady I had a little bit of a thing for home after a little party. She invited me in for coffee. I said I didn't like coffee. I have spent years kicking myself for being such an idiot (not that I'm saying sex was definitely on, but who knows what might have happened?)

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
26 weeks ago

Reading

I ask if it comes in a cup. Usually gets the point over.

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By *ergus1622Man
26 weeks ago

Dundee

I think if you're asking for coffee the it's literally we are on a swingers site so I think if your at someone's house then you can be as forward as you wish ie stripping as you head to the bedroom

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
26 weeks ago

somewhere, someplace

I'd be thinking 50/50 on if it's the actual beverage or they wanna tumble on the sheets 🤣

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By *eroLondonMan
26 weeks ago

Soho

If they were genuinely, truly and undoubtedly offering me a coffee how else could they ask? In what other manner? Therefore I would assume it really really was for a coffee and I would be expecting coffee accordingly. ☕

I would expect coffee.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
26 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’d immediately ask them what brand of coffee they are serving and at what exact temperature.

One simply cannot be drinking any old Hoi polloi stuff… 😜

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By *cLovin2Man
26 weeks ago

London

Is this a thing then? Wanna come back to mine for a coffee?

Would you like to come up for a drink means possibility of nookie.

Come up for a coffee sounds like a coffee to me. My response being I don't drink coffee.

If I want to move things along, I ask them to come for a drink.

What a shame we can't just say what we mean, "can you come upstairs and let me ride your vagina, in a manner more vigorous than Wagner's ride of the Valkyries?"

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By *urry BlokeMan
26 weeks ago

"in my/our room? Or any kind of beverage really.

If someone asked that, would you think it's code for sex? Would you ask someone that as a more erm, polite form of fancy a fuck?

How do you "move" things on? "

Body language - giving and reading

I haven't overstepped the mark yet, but what I don't know 100% is if I have ever been nearer to the mark than I thought

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By *midnight-Woman
26 weeks ago

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I would assume there was no coffee and it was sex on offer

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
26 weeks ago

Brum

It’s usually a precursor to the sex yes _eli.

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By *illy IdolMan
26 weeks ago

Midlands

Would you like a nightcap/drink in my room = game on

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By *urplevanmanMan
26 weeks ago

Salford

Be too late for coffee , but I’d be tempted with a cold beverage … and expect that is all it is

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By *oughmanMan
26 weeks ago

Sunderland

Offered that and I would expect a nice cuppa and nothing else. I'm kind of oblivious. If they mean something else I need to be told.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
26 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

The best one I had was when I had invited a couple over for the first time, I live in a flat where my living room has a door directly into my bedroom, the girl said she liked my bedsheets and I asked if she wanted to take a closer look

it was the only way I could think to move things along haha

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
26 weeks ago

Brum

"I'd be thinking 50/50 on if it's the actual beverage or they wanna tumble on the sheets 🤣"

I was actually reminded of you by this thread

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By *orthern StarsCouple
26 weeks ago

Durham

The night I met my husband I invited him back into my house for coffee. He had given me a lift home.

He left in the morning, extremely tired but wearing a huge smile and with my phone number

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
26 weeks ago

somewhere, someplace

"I'd be thinking 50/50 on if it's the actual beverage or they wanna tumble on the sheets 🤣

I was actually reminded of you by this thread

Funny that I was thinking the same 😇

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By *ergus1622Man
26 weeks ago

Dundee

"in my/our room? Or any kind of beverage really.

If someone asked that, would you think it's code for sex? Would you ask someone that as a more erm, polite form of fancy a fuck?

How do you "move" things on? "

Why don't you ask and find out?

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By *quirrel!Man
26 weeks ago

Cream and 2 sugars please x

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By *mf123Man
26 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Id just go for a laugh but if i put down my coffee i may trip and fall into her cave like vagina by accident im clumsy like that oops

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By *mf123Man
26 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

"Id just go for a laugh but if i put down my coffee i may trip and fall into her cave like vagina by accident im clumsy like that oops"
and no im not calling you baggy fanny before anyone draws there swords im joking around

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By *hunky GentMan
26 weeks ago

Stamford

"I would assume there was no coffee and it was sex on offer

Correct.

As I don't drink coffee.

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