FabSwingers.com forum: If you fwb is married

By *ntrigued888 OP Woman
24 weeks ago

Herts, Beds & Bucks

Are you technically having an affair 🤔

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

If their partner knows, no

If they don’t, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"If their partner knows, no

If they don’t, yes."

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"If their partner knows, no

If they don’t, yes."

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

That closes that thread.

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
24 weeks ago

Swansea

"That closes that thread.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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24 weeks ago

East Sussex

Of course most people in affairs with partenered folk are fwbs.

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By *NormalMan01Man
24 weeks ago

Harrogate

"Are you technically having an affair 🤔"

Yes. You are the affair.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Yes.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
24 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I’ve never really seen it like that tbh. Although it probably is. To me an affair is more intense, maybe includes love. Dunno 🤷‍♀️

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By *ungfun84Man
24 weeks ago

Doncaster

Would love a married fwb

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By *eroLondonMan
24 weeks ago

Covent Garden

I like to think of them as clandestine encounters or covert trysts. They sound more whimsical and forgiving that way, a tad benign, in fact.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
24 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

Though there is a question of semantics. If you are not the one in a relationship are *you* the one having an affair? The person you are sleeping with is having an affair, no question, as they have a partner. But if you don't have a partner, but you are sleeping with someone who is being adulterous, are you also having the affair? 🤔

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By *icecouple561Couple
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24 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Though there is a question of semantics. If you are not the one in a relationship are *you* the one having an affair? The person you are sleeping with is having an affair, no question, as they have a partner. But if you don't have a partner, but you are sleeping with someone who is being adulterous, are you also having the affair? 🤔"

People say

'she/he is having an affair with a married man/woman'. So I would say that both parties are having an 'affair'.

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By *eroLondonMan
24 weeks ago

Covent Garden

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If you're the singleton then you are considered the interloper. That's how I would see it. But I would also equally agree with the other aforementioned viewpoints. There is no single answer when discussing one's moral compass.

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By *NormalMan01Man
24 weeks ago

Harrogate

The person who has come in to the established relationship is the affair. Equally, the person who has broken wedlock is having an affair.

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By *ene FairfaxMan
24 weeks ago

Dover

We both were but not to each but a lot of fun was had by all, but a gentleman never tells all lol

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By *parkle1974Woman
24 weeks ago

Leeds

Any sexual interactions behind a partners back without them knowing is an affair.

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By *over of ladiesMan
24 weeks ago

cannock

If your single,but the fwb is married,then the fwb is having an affair,your not

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By *cLovin2Man
24 weeks ago

London

"If your single,but the fwb is married,then the fwb is having an affair,your not"

You're not!

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By *vaRoseWoman
24 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

"If their partner knows, no

If they don’t, yes."

This

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By *llicitnickMan
24 weeks ago

Sheffield

"If their partner knows, no

If they don’t, yes."

100% this

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By *over of ladiesMan
24 weeks ago

cannock

"If your single,but the fwb is married,then the fwb is having an affair,your not

You're not!"

You arnt cheating on anybody so how can you possibly be having an affair,the fwb is having an affair

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
24 weeks ago

Reading

No they are having the affair.

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By *parkle1974Woman
24 weeks ago

Leeds

"If your single,but the fwb is married,then the fwb is having an affair,your not

You're not!

You arnt cheating on anybody so how can you possibly be having an affair,the fwb is having an affair "

He was correcting the grammar!

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By *olvesfunguyMan
24 weeks ago

WOLVERHAMPTON

"Are you technically having an affair 🤔"

Depens if you are a man or woman!

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By *jgittes_ukMan
22 weeks ago

leighton buzzard

"Are you technically having an affair 🤔

Depens if you are a man or woman!

Haha

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By *oodmessMan
22 weeks ago

yumsville

If they have a t-shirt saying it's not cheating, no it's not.

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By *dz69247Man
22 weeks ago

Manchester

If you are single and meeting a FWB who is married, then no you are not having an affair, they are.

However my kink is married ladies, like seriously, if a lady says they are married and cheating, I’m hard immediately, so I don’t judge at all, it’s a really bad kink as it can ruin lives, but I’m a horny fucker and thinks with my dick way more than I should.

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