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How was your first experience?

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
26 weeks ago

Midlands

Hello, everyone.

How was your first experience when introducing someone else to the bedroom, with a partner you loved?

What sort of thoughts and feelings were going through your mind, whilst you were watching them with someone else?

What was the biggest surprise for you?

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By *each needs some creamWoman
26 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

The very first time I payed I was still with my now ex husband, at the time we had been together for 20 years. He bought up the subject and I agree to try swinging.

Our first meet was about a week after joining, we got on so well we meet up 2 days later for a play. I lost my bi cherry that night and it started my wonderful discovery into the world of sex.

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By *eeshellsCouple
26 weeks ago

Reading

It was two weekends ago. We were nervous because we have a loving relationship and we didn't want to ruin it.

We had a great time and both loved being in sexual contact with other people. The best bit was bonding at the end of the session, both couples having sex with the correct partners next to each other.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
26 weeks ago

Lincs

I didn’t know how I’d feel watching C enjoy another guy. My head was all over the place.

I arranged the meet with another guy - it was a blindfold meet so I think that helped as I was fully involved.

I felt numb as it was all new but once I saw the fire in C’s eyes and felt the heat in the room I was hooked 🥵

K

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

It was an unplanned MMF with an ex partner after a Fab social event, with someone I'd been chatting to for a month or so beforehand.

What surprised me most was how much I enjoyed seeing my partner enjoy someone else. Big compersiony type feelings. There was really strong 3 way attraction, so no risk of anyone feeling left out, and it felt very organic and natural.

It was a well-established relationship of several years. I'm not sure how I'd have felt if we'd done it within the first couple of years of being together before the relationship was fully "bedded in".

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

A fb introduced me to her friend

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
26 weeks ago

Midlands

Thanks for the replies. It's nice to hear you all found it enjoyable, and it hasn't put you off. I think you're right that a strong foundation is key first.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
26 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Willy, I’m all wrong footed here. A serious thread from you? Gosh.

Our first was with a girl we’d been chatting to for a few weeks online, cammed together, then she came to visit for the day. We were in a fairly new relationship ourselves at the time so it was all quite relaxed. As I recall I got my tits out after a while and things evolved organically from there. It was very laid back and enjoyable, no major expectations or rules on either side.

Mrs TMN x

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
26 weeks ago

Midlands


"Willy, I’m all wrong footed here. A serious thread from you? Gosh.

Our first was with a girl we’d been chatting to for a few weeks online, cammed together, then she came to visit for the day. We were in a fairly new relationship ourselves at the time so it was all quite relaxed. As I recall I got my tits out after a while and things evolved organically from there. It was very laid back and enjoyable, no major expectations or rules on either side.

Mrs TMN x"

I do serious threads, but they all die pretty quickly. I'll be back tomorrow with a thread about Tumble dryers

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

I didn’t watch Mrs Wick for our first time with someone else. I took her over to a guys place for a night of hotwifing.

So many thoughts ran riot through my mind all evening. What they were up to, if she was enjoying herself, etc. There were brief moments of jealousy but very fleeting and replaced with filth very quickly.

It was a spectacular success, and it’s paved the way for many more solo adventures for both of us.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
26 weeks ago

North West

It's a shame this thread hasn't had more traction Willy. It was a huge turn on watching him with someone else. I think we were both surprised how 'unpossessive' we felt. The other big surprise was that the other guy roared like a lion when he came. Really fucking loud. 🦁

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
26 weeks ago

Brum


"Hello, everyone.

How was your first experience when introducing someone else to the bedroom, with a partner you loved?

What sort of thoughts and feelings were going through your mind, whilst you were watching them with someone else?

What was the biggest surprise for you?

"

Hello Willy

It was surreal and fantastic.

Henriette introduced another woman to our room at a wedding.

The thoughts that were going through my mind were “play it cool Sam, just don’t fuck this up.”

The biggest surprise I remember at the time was how much H seemed to enjoy sharing me and that she then went on to insist we did it regularly for the next 26 or so years

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"It's a shame this thread hasn't had more traction Willy. It was a huge turn on watching him with someone else. I think we were both surprised how 'unpossessive' we felt. The other big surprise was that the other guy roared like a lion when he came. Really fucking loud. 🦁"

Like an actual lion?

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
26 weeks ago

North West


"It's a shame this thread hasn't had more traction Willy. It was a huge turn on watching him with someone else. I think we were both surprised how 'unpossessive' we felt. The other big surprise was that the other guy roared like a lion when he came. Really fucking loud. 🦁

Like an actual lion? "

Yes, like an actual lion.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"It's a shame this thread hasn't had more traction Willy. It was a huge turn on watching him with someone else. I think we were both surprised how 'unpossessive' we felt. The other big surprise was that the other guy roared like a lion when he came. Really fucking loud. 🦁

Like an actual lion?

Yes, like an actual lion. "

How peculiar, yet quite epic at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"It's a shame this thread hasn't had more traction Willy. It was a huge turn on watching him with someone else. I think we were both surprised how 'unpossessive' we felt. The other big surprise was that the other guy roared like a lion when he came. Really fucking loud. 🦁

Like an actual lion?

Yes, like an actual lion.

How peculiar, yet quite epic at the same time."

Like an MGM film

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

I haven't done it yet. Swinger disaster, as my profile states

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
26 weeks ago

North West


"It's a shame this thread hasn't had more traction Willy. It was a huge turn on watching him with someone else. I think we were both surprised how 'unpossessive' we felt. The other big surprise was that the other guy roared like a lion when he came. Really fucking loud. 🦁

Like an actual lion?

Yes, like an actual lion.

How peculiar, yet quite epic at the same time.

Like an MGM film"

Aaaaaargh, flashbacks 😂

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By *orthern StarsCouple
26 weeks ago

Durham

I knew before hand I would love seeing my husband with another woman, but actually, I really, REALLY fucking loved it!

It's just incredibly hot and sexy, in every possible sense of the words.

Ruby

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
26 weeks ago

Midlands

These are great to read.

It would be interesting to hear from those who struggled with various aspects of it and see how they dealt with it.

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
26 weeks ago

Midlands


"It's a shame this thread hasn't had more traction Willy. It was a huge turn on watching him with someone else. I think we were both surprised how 'unpossessive' we felt. The other big surprise was that the other guy roared like a lion when he came. Really fucking loud. 🦁"

Does Beef not roar?😱 I thought everyone did.

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
26 weeks ago

Midlands


"Hello, everyone.

How was your first experience when introducing someone else to the bedroom, with a partner you loved?

What sort of thoughts and feelings were going through your mind, whilst you were watching them with someone else?

What was the biggest surprise for you?

Hello Willy

It was surreal and fantastic.

Henriette introduced another woman to our room at a wedding.

The thoughts that were going through my mind were “play it cool Sam, just don’t fuck this up.”

The biggest surprise I remember at the time was how much H seemed to enjoy sharing me and that she then went on to insist we did it regularly for the next 26 or so years "

Hello, Sam. How was it for you the first time a gent was with you both?

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By *midnight-Woman
26 weeks ago

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"These are great to read.

It would be interesting to hear from those who struggled with various aspects of it and see how they dealt with it."

How was your first time Willy, or is that what you are working up to?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
26 weeks ago

Brum


"Hello, everyone.

How was your first experience when introducing someone else to the bedroom, with a partner you loved?

What sort of thoughts and feelings were going through your mind, whilst you were watching them with someone else?

What was the biggest surprise for you?

Hello Willy

It was surreal and fantastic.

Henriette introduced another woman to our room at a wedding.

The thoughts that were going through my mind were “play it cool Sam, just don’t fuck this up.”

The biggest surprise I remember at the time was how much H seemed to enjoy sharing me and that she then went on to insist we did it regularly for the next 26 or so years

Hello, Sam. How was it for you the first time a gent was with you both?"

I had a feeling that question would come.. the experience was so fucking hot and the first time I didn’t have a single bad thought, it was just great fun to see things from the other side of the dynamic and since then we’ve not done much of it but when we have it’s been ace.

The problem with me personally has come around straight swap scenarios, that I found really difficult.

It’s being detached from her.

I don’t like it at all and have struggled to feel comfortable with the other woman alone.

I’m much better with it now that it’s become more regular and I’ve been lucky that our friends are very patient and supportive.

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By *illy Idol OP   Man
26 weeks ago

Midlands


"These are great to read.

It would be interesting to hear from those who struggled with various aspects of it and see how they dealt with it.

How was your first time Willy, or is that what you are working up to? "

I've never done it with someone I've had strong feelings for, so I was just curious to hear others experiences with it. Maybe one day.

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