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"So a certain young man got his ego hurt today and called my fab lifestyle slutty. Well I don't give two monkeys about what he thinks. But would love to know, what makes you, men of a similar mindset think, that your actions are any different and perhaps more acceptable? " Is "slutty" a bad thing? | |||
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"I’d go back and say “and look at you, you can’t even pull the sluttiest of sluts” "I'll need to use that one  | |||
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"I’d go back and say “and look at you, you can’t even pull the sluttiest of sluts” "Couldn’t even pull prime Kat Slater! | |||
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"I’d go back and say “and look at you, you can’t even pull the sluttiest of sluts”
Couldn’t even pull prime Kat Slater! "I wasn’t just a little bit of a slag, I was a TOTAL SLAG! | |||
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"So a certain young man got his ego hurt today and called my fab lifestyle slutty. Well I don't give two monkeys about what he thinks. But would love to know, what makes you, men of a similar mindset think, that your actions are any different and perhaps more Acceptable? Is "slutty" a bad thing?" He wanted to offend me by that, so I reminded him of his actions. | |||
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"I’d go back and say “and look at you, you can’t even pull the sluttiest of sluts”
Couldn’t even pull prime Kat Slater!
I wasn’t just a little bit of a slag, I was a TOTAL SLAG!"You get it 😂🤝🏾 | |||
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"I think it’s something something misogyny something. Ultimately these men do not like women. " But they are very Nice Guys, total Gentlemen, blah blah blah. When they think it'll benefit them  | |||
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"So a certain young man got his ego hurt today and called my fab lifestyle slutty. Well I don't give two monkeys about what he thinks. But would love to know, what makes you, men of a similar mindset think, that your actions are any different and perhaps more acceptable? " It will be a jealousy thing. Ladies on this site, attractive or not are gonna have a queue of guys waiting to fuck them. Men have to be 6 foot, look like a lumberjack, 50k plus income, nice car and like dogs. Takes a while for some to get over this | |||
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"I think it’s something something misogyny something. Ultimately these men do not like women. " They like us when we're gobbling down their cocks. | |||
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"I think it’s something something misogyny something. Ultimately these men do not like women. But they are very Nice Guys, total Gentlemen, blah blah blah. When they think it'll benefit them "They are the ‘Not all men!’ Something something ‘ruining it for US NICE GUYS’ | |||
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"I believe a lot of men on here think the women are sluts. They want to fuck us but wouldn't want to take us home to their mothers. " I’ve got no problem taking you home to my mother but you have to promise not to fuck my dad. | |||
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"I believe a lot of men on here think the women are sluts. They want to fuck us but wouldn't want to take us home to their mothers. I’ve got no problem taking you home to my mother but you have to promise not to fuck my dad." I'll try, but I can't promise anything. | |||
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"I think it’s something something misogyny something. Ultimately these men do not like women. They like us when we're gobbling down their cocks." They don’t like you. They enjoy access to you. | |||
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"I think it’s something something misogyny something. Ultimately these men do not like women. They like us when we're gobbling down their cocks. They don’t like you. They enjoy access to you. " Oh wait. I’m just saying this to try and get laid. How do I delete | |||
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"I think it’s something something misogyny something. Ultimately these men do not like women. But they are very Nice Guys, total Gentlemen, blah blah blah. When they think it'll benefit them
They are the ‘Not all men!’ Something something ‘ruining it for US NICE GUYS’"Unlike other men, I would never do xyz, I'm such a nice guy. Ladies love a nice guy. I've got my head on a swivel and decry any misandry because I am so secure and I know my worth, which is why I'm so sensitive to any accusations of otherwise. | |||
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"I think it’s something something misogyny something. Ultimately these men do not like women. They like us when we're gobbling down their cocks. They don’t like you. They enjoy access to you. Oh wait. I’m just saying this to try and get laid. How do I delete" | |||
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"So a certain young man got his ego hurt today and called my fab lifestyle slutty. Well I don't give two monkeys about what he thinks. But would love to know, what makes you, men of a similar mindset think, that your actions are any different and perhaps more acceptable? It will be a jealousy thing. Ladies on this site, attractive or not are gonna have a queue of guys waiting to fuck them. Men have to be 6 foot, look like a lumberjack, 50k plus income, nice car and like dogs. Takes a while for some to get over this" I certainly don't need a guy like that btw. | |||
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"I think it’s something something misogyny something. Ultimately these men do not like women. They like us when we're gobbling down their cocks. They don’t like you. They enjoy access to you. Oh wait. I’m just saying this to try and get laid. How do I delete" Are you a white knight, Pickle? | |||
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"I think it’s something something misogyny something. Ultimately these men do not like women. They like us when we're gobbling down their cocks. They don’t like you. They enjoy access to you. Oh wait. I’m just saying this to try and get laid. How do I delete Are you a white knight, Pickle?" Do I look white to you? | |||
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"Who invented the word slut anyway? And who decided on its meaning? Probably a man a bazillion years ago . We need a new language. " It comes from the word "slattern" which meant, in the late Victorian/Edwardian period, a woman who kept an unclean or untidy home. I'm unclear when the shortened "slut" version came to refer to anything to do with sex. My Grandma would call it "slutty" if someone's house was unclean/cluttered and she genuinely did not mean anything whatsoever to do with their sex lives! | |||
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"I think it’s something something misogyny something. Ultimately these men do not like women. They like us when we're gobbling down their cocks. They don’t like you. They enjoy access to you. Oh wait. I’m just saying this to try and get laid. How do I delete Are you a white knight, Pickle? Do I look white to you? " Only if I put my really weird specs on | |||
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"I’d go back and say “and look at you, you can’t even pull the sluttiest of sluts” "Love this! (Also I know I couldn’t, but then I’d also never speak to a woman in that way and am comfortable / experienced at rejection 😂) | |||
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"I think it’s something something misogyny something. Ultimately these men do not like women. They like us when we're gobbling down their cocks. They don’t like you. They enjoy access to you. Oh wait. I’m just saying this to try and get laid. How do I delete Are you a white knight, Pickle? Do I look white to you? "  | |||
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"I think it’s something something misogyny something. Ultimately these men do not like women. " I was gonna type out a whole big reply to this thread but instead just going to say +1 to this | |||
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"I believe a lot of men on here think the women are sluts. They want to fuck us but wouldn't want to take us home to their mothers. " I’d take all of you to meet my mum and say I can’t cope with any of you, mum would give me a clip round th’ear’ole and say step my game up and then pour the wine for all the girls. be who you be, if anyone calls you a slut, it’s just a word….. coming from someone who would dearly love you to be a slut means you got inside their head and they couldn’t cope, poor lamb, we salute you | |||
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"It's surprising how many women also think like this. What they do is ok because they're 'different '. " 🤫 Don't go asking people to own their shit Mrs NC. The cognitive dissonance is too difficult. | |||
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"It's surprising how many women also think like this. What they do is ok because they're 'different '. " Tokens get spent 🤷♀️ | |||
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"It's surprising how many women also think like this. What they do is ok because they're 'different '. · Tolkiens get spent 🤷♀️" ㅤㅤ This isn't Middle-Earth, Swing. 😉 | |||
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"It's surprising how many women also think like this. What they do is ok because they're 'different '. · Tolkiens get spent 🤷♀️ ㅤㅤ This isn't Middle-Earth, Swing. 😉" No. Just a political environment where the FAFO is hard and fast. | |||
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"No doubt he would have been singing your praises if you had agreed to meet him too. You deffo dodged a bullet." Worthy of a "treat her with respect" verification | |||
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"It's surprising how many women also think like this. What they do is ok because they're 'different '. 🤫 Don't go asking people to own their shit Mrs NC. The cognitive dissonance is too difficult. " Soz.  | |||
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"So a certain young man got his ego hurt today and called my fab lifestyle slutty. Well I don't give two monkeys about what he thinks. But would love to know, what makes you, men of a similar mindset think, that your actions are any different and perhaps more acceptable? " Was he on fab and hitting on you or just a separate conversation and he’s not a swinger? | |||
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"So a certain young man got his ego hurt today and called my fab lifestyle slutty. Well I don't give two monkeys about what he thinks. But would love to know, what makes you, men of a similar mindset think, that your actions are any different and perhaps more acceptable? It will be a jealousy thing. Ladies on this site, attractive or not are gonna have a queue of guys waiting to fuck them. Men have to be 6 foot, look like a lumberjack, 50k plus income, nice car and like dogs. Takes a while for some to get over this" Im sure thinking like this helps some guys cope with rejection better, but although some women on here may be interested in a guys money, I'm sure most won't even ask. Why would we? | |||
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"So a certain young man got his ego hurt today and called my fab lifestyle slutty. Well I don't give two monkeys about what he thinks. But would love to know, what makes you, men of a similar mindset think, that your actions are any different and perhaps more acceptable? " He said your lifestyle. Why assume he meant the rest of us gals ? | |||
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"I’d go back and say “and look at you, you can’t even pull the sluttiest of sluts” "I’ve said similar “Yes darling, even a slut has standards” 😘 | |||
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"I believe a lot of men on here think the women are sluts. They want to fuck us but wouldn't want to take us home to their mothers. " I'll always want to take my slut home to meet my mother. Sluttery is no reason to have her anywhere but proudly by my side. Own what you are and want. I am immensely proud of my partner. | |||
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"Sadly he was coming from a deeply traditional common patriarchal perspective. And that's learned or acquired behaviour. He wasn't born that way. You did not fit the expected mould (yay for you!) and he was threatened or challenged by it, so he lashed out. You have learned how to unprogram. He has not. One of you is moving forwards and evolving as a person, the other is still chained to acquired behaviour. One is free. The other is not." +1 to this 
The funny thing is how even educated men are susceptible to thinking that they are superior to a woman by the simple virtue of having a penis. It's bizarre, outdated and the thinking of small minds. | |||
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"So a certain young man got his ego hurt today and called my fab lifestyle slutty. Well I don't give two monkeys about what he thinks. But would love to know, what makes you, men of a similar mindset think, that your actions are any different and perhaps more acceptable? " I haven't got a similar mindset but in the late 60's and early 70's, some girls were labelled sluts but I don't remember an alternative label being applied to blokes. | |||
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"So a certain young man got his ego hurt today and called my fab lifestyle slutty. Well I don't give two monkeys about what he thinks. But would love to know, what makes you, men of a similar mindset think, that your actions are any different and perhaps more acceptable? " As you say, this sounds like hurt feelings. Being a male is a story of constant rejection: you have to learn to accept that is just how it is. Just because I fancy someone, it doesnt mean they have to reciprocate. The Andrew Tate model of the world is based on some idea the alpha male (which is a non-sense theory) and entitlement. Lastly, he approached you (I assume) because of those attributes he desired and by turning him down you demonstrated you have standards. Basically he is a tool. | |||
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"So a certain young man got his ego hurt today and called my fab lifestyle slutty. Well I don't give two monkeys about what he thinks. But would love to know, what makes you, men of a similar mindset think, that your actions are any different and perhaps more acceptable? " I’m not saying I’m one of these men, I’d like to think I’m the opposite and don’t take this site too seriously at all. But I believe what you’ve just described is male privilege and spoilt bratty behaviour. | |||
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"Men are bad Woman are good Did I get that right? Fucking he’ll hahaaha " If you see yourself in what's being discussed, that says something about you. | |||
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"Men are bad Woman are good Did I get that right? Fucking he’ll hahaaha " What are little boys made of: slugs and snails and puppy dogs tails What are little girls made of: sugar and spice and everything nice. | |||
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"Well this is a loaded thread and question! What's a slut? By definition, offensive or not, it's a woman who has many casual sexual partners! I didn't make the word up. I'm a fuckboy apparently so..who am I to judge? The way I see it is, if you don't want the label applied, dont do it! It's just a word, you can choose to upset by it and the person or not or you can get on with your life and ignore them and it. " This does though lead into the topic of why gendered adjectives are so often derogatory towards women but not to men. Eg. (and lets do the big one first) calling someone a cunt is very nasty, there's just no way of making it a compliment. But saying that someone is a cock is merely mildly humorous, and can even be praise viz. "cock of the walk" meaning the big guy of the locality. Bitch = scheming, nasty. But dog = virile. Absolutely anything that implies a woman who has lots of sex = an insult. But absolutely anything that implies a man who has lots of sex = a compliment. Yes I'm sure that there may be some occasional example of the reverse, but I think that most forum contributors will agree? Somebody please prove me wrong, or at least tell me that gendered use of language is improving? | |||
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"It’s a very common attitude. Try throwing in the concept that a person has autonomy over their own body and can do whatever they like with it…" GTFO with your logical talk!
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"I think it’s something something misogyny something. Ultimately these men do not like women. They like us when we're gobbling down their cocks. They don’t like you. They enjoy access to you. Oh wait. I’m just saying this to try and get laid. How do I delete" It won't work anyway. You have to be 6 foot, look like a lumberjack, 50k plus income, nice car and like dogs. | |||
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