FabSwingers.com forum: Signs she maybe cheating?

By *irstimeswinger OP Man
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

What would be the tell tale signs that your partner in particular female maybe cheating on you?

Some words of advice please. All appreciated.

Thanks all for looking, please comment.

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By *oxerjoshleeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Signing up to this site as a 'single'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would be the tell tale signs that your partner in particular female maybe cheating on you?

Some words of advice please. All appreciated.

Thanks all for looking, please comment."

Are you asking in respect of your own partner or in general ?

If so does she know your on here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you find her profile on here xx

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By *lyce and Mister MCouple
over a year ago

Falkirk

"What would be the tell tale signs that your partner in particular female maybe cheating on you?

Some words of advice please. All appreciated.

Thanks all for looking, please comment."

Being happier

seriously a bit extra attention makes u happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming in from a 'health spa' (Ha!) looking like she'd been up all night shagging, instead of looking 'radiant' ... well, that's what my ex did..

Seriously though, it was tiny little changes in behaviour. Almost imperceptible at first, but then something completely out of the 'norm' happens and then you are on to it...

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

in my experiance accusing you of cheating is always 1 having a 2nd phone or even just a sim and the biggest give away off all finishing work early when working nights an catching the fucker at it in your bed for me that was briskly followed by a crash course in flying down my stairs stalk bollock naked. .....ohh how I laughed but by feck it was the best thing to ever happen to me.

joking aside an I wasn't really but hayho sympathys if she is at it mate its a killer to start with but maybe like me shes doing you the biggest favor she possibly could. best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone's said above, tiny changes in behaviour. Biggest giveaway.

Cheating is vile, so if she's at it, then good luck. It won't end well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being over protective over mobile phone, going for coffee with friends more often, taking a spare pair of knickers out ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And your not cheating being on her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Signing up to this site as a 'single'"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buying you flowers

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"As someone's said above, tiny changes in behaviour. Biggest giveaway.

Cheating is vile, so if she's at it, then good luck. It won't end well. "

couldn't agree more compleatly vile an no need if you want a new relationship have the respect to end the 1 your in 1st

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Perhaps she's not cheating at all - only swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would be the tell tale signs that your partner in particular female maybe cheating on you?

Some words of advice please. All appreciated.

Thanks all for looking, please comment."

OP does your partner know your here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Double standards mate you here as single so clearly you in no position to criticise your alleged partner.

Could this be roundabout way of look at me post

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Coming in plastered in cum ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Double standards mate you here as single so clearly you in no position to criticise your alleged partner.

Could this be roundabout way of look at me post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your condoms are going missing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your condoms are going missing

Spat coffee out moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone else's dick is in her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But why are people slagging op, he hasn't said its his gf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As i said earlier is the OP asking on behalf of hmself or in general ??

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By *z ThongzWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

accusing u of cheating because they are doing it themselves , going out more often than usual , dressing more carefully , using perfume or aftershave when they dont usually , bathing more , changing of normal habits , lots of things to indicate someone is cheating but if u know ur partner well u will notice the subtle changes .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just finished with my girlfriend so this is quite raw for me. 1st sign was she was looking vacant (still enjoying it but not there during sex) I am not confident in the bedroom even though im vwe as ive not had many partners. 2nd was the small little white lies she began to tell. 3rd was the way she would express herself on Facebook and txt, she could put an act on when we were face to face but the way she started to msg me was "different"

Jokes on her though as the guy she cheated with is the biggest loser ever. No job in a year ( he is an actooooorrr) manic depressive and generally a bumbling fool

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Just finished with my girlfriend so this is quite raw for me. 1st sign was she was looking vacant (still enjoying it but not there during sex) I am not confident in the bedroom even though im vwe as ive not had many partners. 2nd was the small little white lies she began to tell. 3rd was the way she would express herself on Facebook and txt, she could put an act on when we were face to face but the way she started to msg me was "different"

Jokes on her though as the guy she cheated with is the biggest loser ever. No job in a year ( he is an actooooorrr) manic depressive and generally a bumbling fool

dont take this the wrong way but was she aware of your profile on here..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jokes on her though as the guy she cheated with is the biggest loser ever. No job in a year ( he is an actooooorrr) manic depressive and generally a bumbling fool

How long were you together?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From experience little white lies that accumulate over time. My ex suddenly started travelling to stay with friends she'd never mentioned before. And went from being constantly available on text or email (not that i ever checked up, just normal communication) to being uncontactable for hours at a time for the most odd and unbelievable reasons.

All suspicions confirmed weeks after we split when her "new" profile appeared on here which had been created months earlier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jokes on her though as the guy she cheated with is the biggest loser ever. No job in a year ( he is an actooooorrr) manic depressive and generally a bumbling fool

dont take this the wrong way but was she aware of your profile on here..?

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yes I was thinking same ?

maybe you should chat ? to her.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Jokes on her though as the guy she cheated with is the biggest loser ever. No job in a year ( he is an actooooorrr) manic depressive and generally a bumbling fool

Im sure she was aware of all that when she was with him....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps she's not cheating at all - only swinging."

cheating and swinging should not be in the same sentance they have nothing to do with eachother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When his 'other' girlfriend calls you lol????!!!!!

Not my best day i can tell you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would be the tell tale signs that your partner in particular female maybe cheating on you?

Some words of advice please. All appreciated.

Thanks all for looking, please comment."

When you arrange a meet and your gf turns up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really think you two should chat ? Your a swinger ... she maybe is doing nothing ..if she is well best to know. But if your open about it all .. It may make you closer ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Double standards mate you here as single so clearly you in no position to criticise your alleged partner.

Could this be roundabout way of look at me post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would be the tell tale signs that your partner in particular female maybe cheating on you?

Some words of advice please. All appreciated.

Thanks all for looking, please comment.

When you arrange a meet and your gf turns up!

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Jokes on her though as the guy she cheated with is the biggest loser ever. No job in a year ( he is an actooooorrr) manic depressive and generally a bumbling fool

With a massive cock

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

OP, if this is about your girlfriend I would hope that she knows you are on here and that you would then just have an honest conversation. If she doesn't know that you are on here then her behaviour changes may be about the fact she is trying to work out if you are cheating.

I have always known when a man has cheated on me by the spring in their step and the smell of another person on them (or sometimes the smell of being freshly showered after a long day at work). Women that I have seen cheating spend more time on their appearance and smile a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kept the profile active whilst we were seeing each other, as there are a couple of people I enjoy talking too on here. I seriously doubt she knew. As for the massive cock comment he must have as mine isnt small. lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

It can be any sign you like.

If you look hard enough you'll find it. Even is she's not cheating.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I know I'm tired and all that....but isn't this thread just a little bit ironic?

As I said I'm bloody tired, maybe it's just me reading it with my cynical glasses on.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"It can be any sign you like.

If you look hard enough you'll find it. Even is she's not cheating."

Truth!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I know I'm tired and all that....but isn't this thread just a little bit ironic?

As I said I'm bloody tired, maybe it's just me reading it with my cynical glasses on."

there has been a lot of irony about recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know I'm tired and all that....but isn't this thread just a little bit ironic?

As I said I'm bloody tired, maybe it's just me reading it with my cynical glasses on.

there has been a lot of irony about recently"

Anybody fancy doing MY ironing then?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I know I'm tired and all that....but isn't this thread just a little bit ironic?

As I said I'm bloody tired, maybe it's just me reading it with my cynical glasses on.

there has been a lot of irony about recently

Anybody fancy doing MY ironing then?

I don't fancy doing my own let alone anyone elses......most hated job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she's got a lock on her phone

Buying knickers you never see her wear.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Taking more care in her appearance.

Being very protective of her phone, and laptop, desktop.

Buying nice clothes you never see her wear.

Making excuses not to have sex with you.

Recoiling at kisses and cuddles.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Well op, you don't really need any clues from us: if she's acting like you...

You've a brass neck, I'll give you that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im guessing you dont give her any attention in any way? My OH is the same as you if that is the case. So if she is cheating, then that could be why. Its the reason im here, lack of attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beginning to think you are full of contradictions, OP. You have registered on a swinging contact site as a single male, yet you seem to have a problem that your partner/GF may be 'cheating' on you..????

Add to that the fact that you claim to be straight, yet you seek the attentions of TV's/TS's..????

Hmmm..... Next time you look in the mirror and gaze upon your undoubted loveliness, may I suggest you look a bit deeper... Maybe a LOT deeper...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Beginning to think you are full of contradictions, OP. You have registered on a swinging contact site as a single male, yet you seem to have a problem that your partner/GF may be 'cheating' on you..????

Add to that the fact that you claim to be straight, yet you seek the attentions of TV's/TS's..????

Hmmm..... Next time you look in the mirror and gaze upon your undoubted loveliness, may I suggest you look a bit deeper... Maybe a LOT deeper..."

Indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Coming in plastered in cum ?"

Lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add to that the fact that you claim to be straight, yet you seek the attentions of TV's/TS's..????

Hmmm..... Next time you look in the

mirror and gaze upon your undoubted

loveliness, may I suggest you look a bit

deeper... Maybe a LOT deeper...

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easiest way.

One day completely out of the blue just ask...."are you cheating on me"

You'll know immediately from their reaction the truth.

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over a year ago

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"If she's got a lock on her phone

Buying knickers you never see her wear.

I have a lock on my phone but doesn't meantime cheating on anyone

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"I know I'm tired and all that....but isn't this thread just a little bit ironic?

As I said I'm bloody tired, maybe it's just me reading it with my cynical glasses on.

there has been a lot of irony about recently"

Ooo, can someone do my shirts then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Signing up to this site as a 'single'

Ha ha perhaps she went through your messages saw you were at it , and thought hey if he can do it so can I .

What goes around comes around as they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she comes home from working late and has dry cum round her mouth

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