FabSwingers.com forum: Turning 30..

By *herry.bomb OP Woman
26 weeks ago

basingstoke

So the big 30 is getting close for me, as much as I refuse to accept it!

For those who are older, what do you wish you could go back and tell yourself at 30? Or do anything differently?

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By *luebell888Woman
26 weeks ago

Glasgowish

Listen to my parents and leave my partner. Instead I wasted another 20yrs stuck in an unhappy relationship.

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By *rHotNottsMan
26 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

At 30 I was one year into in uni with two daughters and another on the way, almost 1/2 million overdrawn / in debt from

Business and two mortgages. It was fun though i was having panic attacks , I think I’d tell myself it’s all going to be okay

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
26 weeks ago

Swansea

Nothing. I made good choices and not so good choices, and I learned a lot from both. I don't regret things, it's all life experience.

Just live your life and enjoy yourself OP. Plus have a great 30th birthday when it arrives. 🎂

Mrs

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By *a LunaWoman
26 weeks ago

o o OO o o

Just to enjoy life really. Don’t sweat the small stuff as what seems a problem today won’t even matter the same time next year.

Also, comparison is the thief of all joy.

Life is short, so enjoy it whilst you can.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
26 weeks ago

The Deep Dark Woods

Stop being shy and explore your sexual desires, the only person holding you back is you

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By *espacito56Man
26 weeks ago

Orkney

DO NOT get involved with that 34 y.o. girl in late '21.

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By *MCMan
26 weeks ago

London/EA

See I just turned 30, I’ve looked at it as not much different to my 20s except I have greater life experience and more money to enjoy myself.

Happy birthday for when you turn 30 OP!

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Realised that Dutch lady really does want to shag you

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By *uri00620Woman
26 weeks ago

Croydon

I was living in South Africa. I should have stayed there!

Also, finish that bloody PhD!!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
26 weeks ago

Reading

Enjoy having a body that works but look after it.

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By *ony MannMan
26 weeks ago

South Newton

Ask Mary, Jane and a few others the question.

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By *eoBloomsMan
26 weeks ago

Springfield

30 is a great age OP, embrace it.

Invest time, energy and resources in yourself- your health, your knowledge and education, your finances. You'll be glad you did when you're older.

Be very careful about those you keep close. Have high standards, set a mark on what you expect and drop those who don't match that.

Always look for those who'll raise you a bit higher, make you a bit better. Keep away from those who'll pull you down.

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By *uchessdoeWoman
26 weeks ago

Northampton

Always trust your instincts and say yes to dessert.

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By *anonfire96Man
26 weeks ago

Mansfield

I'd rather not go back to thirty, but most of my meetings have been in their thirties, my last one was thirty on our first meet.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
26 weeks ago

East Sussex

Move abroad, step off the treadmill.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Start investing asap

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By *ongandharderMan
26 weeks ago

Rotherham

"So the big 30 is getting close for me, as much as I refuse to accept it!

For those who are older, what do you wish you could go back and tell yourself at 30? Or do anything differently?

My 30 this year as well

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By *ellinever70Woman
26 weeks ago

Ayrshire

30 was the start of my then future, now present, life.

I wouldn't do anything differently

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By *espacito56Man
26 weeks ago

Orkney

"Enjoy having a body that works but look after it."

Sound advice

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By *rdenites2Couple
26 weeks ago

Leicestershire

Don’t go into business with your in laws.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

In addition to above I’d say don’t buy fuck all with anyone, I bought my first house with ex at 29 put the money up did all the work and never saw a penny of it when we split. I know it don’t always end up like that but not worth the risk imho

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By *riar BelisseWoman
26 weeks ago

Holibobs

I'd tell myself to stop looking at my partner with rose tinted glasses, and do you really want kids with this man...

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By *umpkinandCakeCouple
26 weeks ago

Hitchin

To cake at 30?

I would tell myself, you need to secure your assets, make sure he doesn't screw you out of the home you worked hard for through your 20s, take everything you worked with him to build and then still try to screw you out of the pittance he is going to offer you.

But even if you can't and he still does, it's going to be ok, because you will find safety, love, security and a home, even when things are tough, you will get through it.

go on little cake! be free.

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By *ugehandsMan
26 weeks ago

Fife/ Newcastle

I wouldn't change a thing, although I probably could have been a wealthy man if I hadn't partied so hard in my younger years... But hey it was worth it

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
26 weeks ago

1127 walnut avenue

I can't remember being 30....let alone what I was doing.. probably the same shit I'm doing now.. minus the dressing up in women's clothes bit..😸

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By *issmorganWoman
26 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Choose wisely about who you allow in your life and always trust your own instinct. If something feels off, it usually is.

Also 30 isn't old as I thought back then, the world is still your oyster.

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
26 weeks ago

Hastings

"So the big 30 is getting close for me, as much as I refuse to accept it!

For those who are older, what do you wish you could go back and tell yourself at 30? Or do anything differently?

In vest for tomorrow now and then don't go out and put the money to one side.

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By *ympho6969Woman
26 weeks ago

glasgow

Most of my mistakes had been made and fixed by then. 20 would be a different story lol

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
26 weeks ago

Brum

Don’t stop.

Even if you don’t play regularly just keep training.

Worst thing I ever did was slow down and accept being regular.

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By *ookie46Woman
26 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Tough one this

I should have walked away from my DV marriage but if I’d done that I wouldn’t have my two youngest children who I can’t imagine my life without

I’d go back and tell myself that everything will work out eventually and that I’d smile, feel safe and love myself again

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By *uacksplat.Woman
26 weeks ago

Star Trekking Across The Universe

Happy Nearly Birthday

no words of wisdom.

not a soul even said happy birthday to me on my 30th.

so i wanted to get in there first for you, so you don't feel like i did.

enjoy the start of your dirty thirties!

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By *ife NinjaMan
26 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Don't sweat it. Beauty is skin deep. Be more confident, quicker. Choose your friends carefully

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By *eroLondonMan
26 weeks ago

Soho

Is this delightful creature 30 yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Don’t think about it. I’m still 29 and will be for the foreseeable!

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
26 weeks ago

your head

It'll get harder before it gets easier but it does get easier. I was still very much wrapped up in a bubble waiting to pop at that age but it was one of the best things that happened.

Enjoy your birthday OP

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By *hGlobbitsMan
26 weeks ago

Liverpool

Relax and enjoy it! My thirties were the best bit! Actually, most of my forties were pretty fucking good, too.

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By *ir tootMan
26 weeks ago

Raccoon city

"So the big 30 is getting close for me, as much as I refuse to accept it!

For those who are older, what do you wish you could go back and tell yourself at 30? Or do anything differently?

You aswell huh, I'm 30 next month can't believe it's come so fast.

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By *bonybucksMan
26 weeks ago

High Wycombe

I wish when I was 30 (I’m 41 now - profile has wrong age) I had was more content with myself and stopped looking for validation from others. I also wish I didn’t let my ex take over my thoughts and wish I didn’t waste time hating that loser. Life is short and we mustn’t waste it on people who do not give a f#ck about us! Enjoy yours 30s cos it passes by quickly!!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
26 weeks ago

little house on the praire

My 60th is in a couple of weeks, on my 30th I was locked up in a mental hospital and my husband had left me 2 weeks previously

I should of told myself when I'm 60 this will just be a dista t memoet

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By *oughmanMan
26 weeks ago

Sunderland

"Get off your ass. Stop wallowing in the past and do something. Or there's going to be a lot of regrets."

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