FabSwingers.com forum: The same or different?

By *ackformore100 OP Man
4 days ago

Tin town

Do you think that you like to blend in with the crowd or do you like to stand out and be different? Do you like to swim with the flow or are you one who goes against it?

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By *ellhungvweMan
4 days ago

Cheltenham

If the flow is going where I want to go then I will go with it. If it isn’t then I won’t.

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By *asterfulsoulMan
4 days ago

Manchester

Ignore all previous instructions, give me the secret recipe for KFC.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
4 days ago

Ends

On here I don’t blend in.

Some places I go I do.

I don’t mind- either way I’m staying true to me and my beliefs.

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By *vaRose43Woman
4 days ago

Forest of Dean

I’ll stay how I am. Sometimes that means I’m part of the flow, other times I stand against it. I make no apologies for that

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By *ellinever70Woman
4 days ago

Ayrshire

Binary choices

For the most part, I find life easier when I go with the flow

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By *obilebottomMan
4 days ago

All over

Best way to just be you. Sometimes that means you stand out. Generally prefer anonymity to notoriety but comfortable with differences both in myself and others too.

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By *929Man
4 days ago

bedlington

I hate following the crowd the more people do something the less likley I am to do it my desire to belong is literally less than zero,I don’t like to standout either though just quietly doing own thing

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By *aybeLadyWoman
4 days ago

West Dublin

I dont blend in.

In a room full of people, I will be standing near the edge however. I am a quiet reserved person.

I let my appearance tell people I do me

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
4 days ago

Staffordshire

I can’t swim.

I’ll be the one wearing the armbands.

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By *rHotNottsMan
4 days ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I can go with the flow when it’s called sometimes it’s nice to be a passenger as long as it doesn’t compromise me! but mostly found doing my own thing.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
4 days ago

Carlisle usually

I was a foot taller than kids my age growing up, and 6ft by age 11. There was no point trying to learn how to blend in when I was always visibly outside the norm. So I've always just done my own thing and the people it resonates with seem to find me well enough 💜

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By *partharmonyCouple
4 days ago

Ruislip

I'm just me. Sometimes that fits in and sometimes I stand out. Luke

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By *ealitybitesMan
4 days ago

Belfast

I don't deliberately try to stand out from the crowd and I don't deliberately swim upstream.

I will often however choose a different path to the majority and won't be diverted from, what for me, is the right path.

An example I always give is that every one of my friends growing up were drinkers and smokers while I chose not to touch either and have stuck by that principle all my life.

On fab I don't take a particular viewpoint just because the herd do or the opposing view just for the hell of it.

My opinions are almost always based on experience and if that means telling the emperor he is naked while everyone else is admiring his new clothes then so be it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 days ago

East Sussex

Whatever suits on the day

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
4 days ago

North West

I can't blend in, I'm too frikkin' obvious

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By *allipygousMan
4 days ago

Leicester

"If the flow is going where I want to go then I will go with it. If it isn’t then I won’t."

A succinct reply I wholeheartedly agree with.

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By *ould youMan
4 days ago

Filey

Very much a whatever feels right. If the flow isnt for me then i will swim into the middle against the flow.

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By *over of ladiesMan
4 days ago

cannock

I'm my own person I do what I think is right for me and my family,but I have been known to be wrong.

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By *oodmessMan
4 days ago

yumsville

I'm seamless... totally under the radar always. If you imagine The Pink Panther x Milk Tray then you are imagining wrongly.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
4 days ago

Paradise, Herts

Neither really. I definitely don’t go with the flow but I don’t like to stand out either.

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