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"Tell them straight...old enough to not play childish games. " I don't know if it's always childish games if someone isn't direct. Different styles/ways of communicating isn't it? | |||
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"You find someone attractive. It's fun, right? The potential flirting, seeing them. All the good stuff. How do you go about letting them know*? Do you make it obvious? Do you flirt in the way you like to be flirted with? *inspired by a friend's Saturday night's musing." I have no idea how to flirt and no idea if someone's flirting with me. I've had a woman literally hug my head into her boobs and thought "she's just being nice" | |||
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I think im pretty clear when I’m into someone but experience has told me that I am not as clear as I think I am  | |||
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"I'm terrable at flirting, I'm way too foward for it" But that might be good flirting to some people... you know, clear, direct, they know where they stand. | |||
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"I struggle with that first bit. With finding someone attractive, how does that happen? "Erm my way is weird. Everyone has their own way. Normally I'm friends with someone for some time and then one day I realise I do actually find them attractive. I wouldn't recommend this approach. | |||
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"I prefer the direct approach, because I'm not always good at picking up subtlety: just say you want to fuck me. *Then* we can continue with the fun, flirty bit. " I fancy you Fancy a fuck? No? Mind if I have i one A mate once got away with that.... | |||
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"I prefer the direct approach, because I'm not always good at picking up subtlety: just say you want to fuck me. *Then* we can continue with the fun, flirty bit. " I want to fuck you 🤝🏾 | |||
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"You find someone attractive. It's fun, right? The potential flirting, seeing them. All the good stuff. How do you go about letting them know*? Do you make it obvious? Do you flirt in the way you like to be flirted with? *inspired by a friend's Saturday night's musing. I have no idea how to flirt and no idea if someone's flirting with me. I've had a woman literally hug my head into her boobs and thought "she's just being nice"" Fair though. Sometimes women give boob hugs just to be nice. Everything is better with a good boob hug. | |||
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"I prefer the direct approach, because I'm not always good at picking up subtlety: just say you want to fuck me. *Then* we can continue with the fun, flirty bit. I want to fuck you 🤝🏾" The front door's unlocked, I'm upstairs waiting...  | |||
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"I prefer the direct approach, because I'm not always good at picking up subtlety: just say you want to fuck me. *Then* we can continue with the fun, flirty bit. I want to fuck you 🤝🏾 The front door's unlocked, I'm upstairs waiting... "Fantasies 🥰 | |||
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"I prefer the direct approach, because I'm not always good at picking up subtlety: just say you want to fuck me. *Then* we can continue with the fun, flirty bit. I want to fuck you 🤝🏾 The front door's unlocked, I'm upstairs waiting...
Fantasies 🥰"Fucking hell Pickles. You stallion. Easy as that eh. Show me your ways. | |||
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"I prefer the direct approach, because I'm not always good at picking up subtlety: just say you want to fuck me. *Then* we can continue with the fun, flirty bit. I want to fuck you 🤝🏾 The front door's unlocked, I'm upstairs waiting...
Fantasies 🥰
Fucking hell Pickles. You stallion. Easy as that eh. Show me your ways. "😂😂😂😂 | |||
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"We’re pretty direct. If we get the sense that the desire is mutual we’ll make it clear where we want things to go "How could it not be mutual with you the beautiful pair that you are? Don't talk nonsense. | |||
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"I loooove flirting but I need that certainty that they are interested first. My fear of rejection makes it difficult "Real. I need someone to tell me CLEARLY that they fancy me | |||
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"I loooove flirting but I need that certainty that they are interested first. My fear of rejection makes it difficult
Real.
I need someone to tell me CLEARLY that they fancy me"I agree, I need a green light in case I make an absolute knob of myself. | |||
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"Apparently I am flirty by nature so if I really mean it all the textbook body language will be obvious to see … either that or I will be forward if I sense there is something there and they are holding back. " Duly noted ...📋📋 ...so sometimes you make it easy to..Spot? | |||
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"I loooove flirting but I need that certainty that they are interested first. My fear of rejection makes it difficult
Real.
I need someone to tell me CLEARLY that they fancy me
I agree, I need a green light in case I make an absolute knob of myself. "Note to self: carry a green light with me to let people know 😉👍 | |||
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"You find someone attractive. It's fun, right? The potential flirting, seeing them. All the good stuff. How do you go about letting them know*? Do you make it obvious? Do you flirt in the way you like to be flirted with? *inspired by a friend's Saturday night's musing." I've tried the direct route.its never reciprocated... Oh well . 🤐 | |||
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"I prefer the direct approach, because I'm not always good at picking up subtlety: just say you want to fuck me. *Then* we can continue with the fun, flirty bit. I want to fuck you 🤝🏾 The front door's unlocked, I'm upstairs waiting...
Fantasies 🥰
Fucking hell Pickles. You stallion. Easy as that eh. Show me your ways. "Hah... And you can't even do a social with me 🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"I loooove flirting but I need that certainty that they are interested first. My fear of rejection makes it difficult
Real.
I need someone to tell me CLEARLY that they fancy me
I agree, I need a green light in case I make an absolute knob of myself. "🚦🚦🚦🚦🚦🚦🚦 It’s green! No but I get you. Like the embarrassment?! I’ll just want to kms | |||
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In person, I'm rubbish at flirting so will probably tell them a TMI and will the ground to swallow me up  | |||
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"I’m a hypocrite because I can be quite coy but expect potential partners to be as subtle as a sledgehammer 🤣🤣" 🔨 | |||
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"I struggle with that first bit. With finding someone attractive, how does that happen?
Erm my way is weird. Everyone has their own way. Normally I'm friends with someone for some time and then one day I realise I do actually find them attractive. I wouldn't recommend this approach."This is my trick too! 🤣 | |||
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"I just continue getting to know them and flirting. I may be suggestive or discuss options for things we might do together. It's an iterative process, feeding off each other and building. " I like that. Yes, it's about two people isn't it? How they interact together - what makes them both respond in a certain way. It's wonderful when it works. | |||
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"I loooove flirting but I need that certainty that they are interested first. My fear of rejection makes it difficult
Real.
I need someone to tell me CLEARLY that they fancy me
I agree, I need a green light in case I make an absolute knob of myself.
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It’s green!
No but I get you. Like the embarrassment?! I’ll just want to kms"If it had been a red, I'd never have recovered 🥳 | |||
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"Apparently I am flirty by nature so if I really mean it all the textbook body language will be obvious to see … either that or I will be forward if I sense there is something there and they are holding back. Duly noted ...📋📋 ...so sometimes you make it easy to..Spot? " Spot on, but only if I like them. Otherwise they get a little patty bye bye 👋🏻 | |||
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"normally bark. or something else equally horrific and embarrassing... but i have the flirting skills of an oxo cube 🥴 Px " You must know some pretty randy oxo cubes - on the forums you can be such a flirt! Don't do yourself a disservice. | |||
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"I’m a hypocrite because I can be quite coy but expect potential partners to be as subtle as a sledgehammer 🤣🤣 🔨 " 💥 | |||
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"I've pretty much given up telling people lol" Why? Do it! | |||
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"I’m a hypocrite because I can be quite coy but expect potential partners to be as subtle as a sledgehammer 🤣🤣 🔨 💥 " 🍑 | |||
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"I've pretty much given up telling people lol Why? Do it! " Entirely pointless...it's never reciprocated  | |||
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"I’m terrible at knowing. Sometimes I think I can tell if someone is into me but also I’ve been wrong about these things
I think im pretty clear when I’m into someone but experience has told me that I am not as clear as I think I am "Do you know what you should get? Little business cards with "Jamie Hants" on one side and "I fancy you" on the other. And then you know you've been super clear and left no room for confusion. You're very welcome. 🖤 | |||
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"I've pretty much given up telling people lol Why? Do it! Entirely pointless...it's never reciprocated "So like, nobody you’ve ever fancied has ever fancied you back? | |||
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"I've pretty much given up telling people lol Why? Do it! Entirely pointless...it's never reciprocated "**ahem** | |||
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"I've pretty much given up telling people lol Why? Do it! Entirely pointless...it's never reciprocated
So like, nobody you’ve ever fancied has ever fancied you back?"I'm past being disappointed with myself for punching above my weight | |||
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"You find someone attractive. It's fun, right? The potential flirting, seeing them. All the good stuff. How do you go about letting them know*? Do you make it obvious? Do you flirt in the way you like to be flirted with? *inspired by a friend's Saturday night's musing. I have no idea how to flirt and no idea if someone's flirting with me. I've had a woman literally hug my head into her boobs and thought "she's just being nice" Fair though. Sometimes women give boob hugs just to be nice. Everything is better with a good boob hug." Oh I know, I do too, but with hindsight - by which I mean the taxi home from the club - I had a moment of clarity and was like "oh f--king hell" | |||
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"You find someone attractive. It's fun, right? The potential flirting, seeing them. All the good stuff. How do you go about letting them know*? Do you make it obvious? Do you flirt in the way you like to be flirted with? *inspired by a friend's Saturday night's musing. I have no idea how to flirt and no idea if someone's flirting with me. I've had a woman literally hug my head into her boobs and thought "she's just being nice" Fair though. Sometimes women give boob hugs just to be nice. Everything is better with a good boob hug." Oh I know, I do too, but there was more to the interaction than that and with hindsight - by which I mean the taxi home from the club - I had a moment of clarity and was like "oh f--king hell" | |||
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"We’re pretty direct. If we get the sense that the desire is mutual we’ll make it clear where we want things to go
How could it not be mutual with you the beautiful pair that you are?
Don't talk nonsense."
Thank you beautiful friend but we’re well aware not everyone finds us irresistible.
Besides… there’s only so much beautiful penis to go around! | |||
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"Apparently I am flirty by nature so if I really mean it all the textbook body language will be obvious to see … either that or I will be forward if I sense there is something there and they are holding back. Duly noted ...📋📋 ...so sometimes you make it easy to..Spot? Spot on, but only if I like them. Otherwise they get a little patty bye bye 👋🏻 " Oh Lord!! ⛪ | |||
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"I've pretty much given up telling people lol Why? Do it! Entirely pointless...it's never reciprocated
So like, nobody you’ve ever fancied has ever fancied you back?
I'm past being disappointed with myself for punching above my weight "Hmm fair | |||
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"I've pretty much given up telling people lol Why? Do it! Entirely pointless...it's never reciprocated
So like, nobody you’ve ever fancied has ever fancied you back?
I'm past being disappointed with myself for punching above my weight "surely theres someone who fancies you. you seem to be doing well on here regardless your veris speak for themselves | |||
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"I prefer the direct approach, because I'm not always good at picking up subtlety: just say you want to fuck me. *Then* we can continue with the fun, flirty bit. " Would you be as direct with others? I kind of like when it's not out and out said but you know. All the flirting points that way. | |||
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"It depends really. If it's someone on here I'm normally a bit shy to just be like "hey, I like your profile, or your forum posts and you seem interesting and I fancy you a bit" I never make the first move. If they show me interest first, then I will be more likely to be like "yes, I fancy you too!" in response and be a bit more confident. I'm probably a bit better in real life at socials/clubs I feel I'm quite friendly and approachable and can get a feel from someone's body language and the conversation we are having if they might be interested and I may drop hints. But again it's difficult sometimes to determine when someone is just being friendly or flirty. It's a bloody minefield 😅 I loooove flirting but I need that certainty that they are interested first. My fear of rejection makes it difficult "hey, I like your profile, or your forum posts and you seem interesting and I fancy you a bit 😁 I might be a small fish in a big pond, so the phrases I tell myself are: “You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.” — Take the shot! “You won't win the lottery if you don't buy a ticket.” — Buy the ticket! I've still not won a game and I'm not rich either, but I'm gonna keep tryin' 😉 | |||
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"I struggle with that first bit. With finding someone attractive, how does that happen?
Erm my way is weird. Everyone has their own way. Normally I'm friends with someone for some time and then one day I realise I do actually find them attractive. I wouldn't recommend this approach."That sounds WAY LONG. | |||
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"It was dead in here without you " Reply and quote Pickle, reply and quote. Geez. | |||
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"General rule for women to follow. The vast majority of men do not pick up on vibes, hints or small compliments. We are totally oblivious to it all, we're not used to it, nor experienced it. Just be straight with us, and 99 times out of a hundred you be met with a positive response. After we get over the shock. "Not sure about that. I've been friendzoned enough times 😅 | |||
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"It was dead in here without you Reply and quote Pickle, reply and quote. Geez." it was to you.  | |||
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"It depends really. If it's someone on here I'm normally a bit shy to just be like "hey, I like your profile, or your forum posts and you seem interesting and I fancy you a bit" I never make the first move. If they show me interest first, then I will be more likely to be like "yes, I fancy you too!" in response and be a bit more confident. I'm probably a bit better in real life at socials/clubs I feel I'm quite friendly and approachable and can get a feel from someone's body language and the conversation we are having if they might be interested and I may drop hints. But again it's difficult sometimes to determine when someone is just being friendly or flirty. It's a bloody minefield 😅 I loooove flirting but I need that certainty that they are interested first. My fear of rejection makes it difficult "But what happens if they need the certainty that you're interested? You end up not really doing anything about it which seems a shame doesn't it? It can be difficult to work out if it's just a friendly flirty thing or flirting with intent sometimes. Especially virtually! Face to face you get so many little indicators that are lacking on here. It's far easier to know interest, engage with it face to face. | |||
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"I prefer the direct approach, because I'm not always good at picking up subtlety: just say you want to fuck me. *Then* we can continue with the fun, flirty bit. Would you be as direct with others? I kind of like when it's not out and out said but you know. All the flirting points that way." I'm usually direct in response to their directness - I let them make the first big move after a little chase, then tell them exactly what I want. | |||
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"I prefer the direct approach, because I'm not always good at picking up subtlety: just say you want to fuck me. *Then* we can continue with the fun, flirty bit. Would you be as direct with others? I kind of like when it's not out and out said but you know. All the flirting points that way. I'm usually direct in response to their directness - I let them make the first big move after a little chase, then tell them exactly what I want. " Truth  | |||
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"Apparently I am flirty by nature so if I really mean it all the textbook body language will be obvious to see … either that or I will be forward if I sense there is something there and they are holding back. Duly noted ...📋📋 ...so sometimes you make it easy to..Spot? Spot on, but only if I like them. Otherwise they get a little patty bye bye 👋🏻 Oh Lord!! ⛪" Or share a 🍩 if I’m hungry | |||
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"It depends really. If it's someone on here I'm normally a bit shy to just be like "hey, I like your profile, or your forum posts and you seem interesting and I fancy you a bit" I never make the first move. If they show me interest first, then I will be more likely to be like "yes, I fancy you too!" in response and be a bit more confident. I'm probably a bit better in real life at socials/clubs I feel I'm quite friendly and approachable and can get a feel from someone's body language and the conversation we are having if they might be interested and I may drop hints. But again it's difficult sometimes to determine when someone is just being friendly or flirty. It's a bloody minefield 😅 I loooove flirting but I need that certainty that they are interested first. My fear of rejection makes it difficult
But what happens if they need the certainty that you're interested? You end up not really doing anything about it which seems a shame doesn't it?
It can be difficult to work out if it's just a friendly flirty thing or flirting with intent sometimes. Especially virtually! Face to face you get so many little indicators that are lacking on here. It's far easier to know interest, engage with it face to face."I agree it's much easier to gauge in person! Sometimes I will feel brave and if I feel like we have been chatting a while maybe drop some hints or say "you have a really nice face" or "I like your pics" or something flirty to turn the conversation that way and see how they reciprocate. I am trying to be better and more confident! But I struggled with shyness when I was younger. Going to things like socials and meets helps as I do feel a bit more confident than I used to. | |||
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On here? I tell them.
Sometimes I get the impression I’m an outlier in this regard. I dunno. I just appreciate clarity so that’s how I operate.
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"You find someone attractive. It's fun, right? The potential flirting, seeing them. All the good stuff. How do you go about letting them know*? Do you make it obvious? Do you flirt in the way you like to be flirted with? *inspired by a friend's Saturday night's musing." Oh, I like to keep things playful—just the right mix of charm, mischief, and the occasional lingering glance that says, ‘I’m picturing you in ways that would make a librarian blush.’ If I’m feeling bold, I’ll drop a teasing compliment—something that makes them smile but also wonder just how much trouble I’d be if left unsupervised. And if they flirt back? Well, that’s when the real fun begins. | |||
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"I'll answer this within the context of Fab... There seems to be a cursory theme on here where people are saying "I just tell them..." or the "...direct approach". Tell them how? I'm genuinely curious. Does one utter "I really like you / I fancy you" or the more brazen approach "I'm attracted to you / I wish to have sex with you!" ...? How are they telling them and ensuring that it's not just another perfunctory remark? If memory serves me, I've never told anyone directly how I feel about them, other than on the forum challenges, games or "I like you" threads. Outside of this I don't believe such parlance exists. The only way I've managed in "letting them know...and stuff" is through flirting, cheeky innuendo, well-intentioned chat and missives...and then suggesting to meet for a date. This is the same method they've let me know because no woman has ever been direct with me (I suppose being fanciable would help to some degree!)." I’ve no problem with telling someone outright that I’m attracted to them/fancy them. I don’t mention doing sex, unless the reciprocal attraction is converted to me in a similarly clear way. | |||
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"I'll answer this within the context of Fab... There seems to be a cursory theme on here where people are saying "I just tell them..." or the "...direct approach". Tell them how? I'm genuinely curious. Does one utter "I really like you / I fancy you" or the more brazen approach "I'm attracted to you / I wish to have sex with you!" ...? How are they telling them and ensuring that it's not just another perfunctory remark? If memory serves me, I've never told anyone directly how I feel about them, other than on the forum challenges, games or "I like you" threads. Outside of this I don't believe such parlance exists. The only way I've managed in "letting them know...and stuff" is through flirting, cheeky innuendo, well-intentioned chat and missives...and then suggesting to meet for a date. This is the same method they've let me know because no woman has ever been direct with me (I suppose being fanciable would help to some degree!)." If the signs are all there and you can feel the sexual energy then I’m brazen with a “I’d like to kiss you” comment. The responses have, to date (thankfully), been positive and then you take it from there. If the kisses were good, I’ll want to meet them again. I’m too old to dance around the houses. | |||
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"It depends really. If it's someone on here I'm normally a bit shy to just be like "hey, I like your profile, or your forum posts and you seem interesting and I fancy you a bit" I never make the first move. If they show me interest first, then I will be more likely to be like "yes, I fancy you too!" in response and be a bit more confident. I'm probably a bit better in real life at socials/clubs I feel I'm quite friendly and approachable and can get a feel from someone's body language and the conversation we are having if they might be interested and I may drop hints. But again it's difficult sometimes to determine when someone is just being friendly or flirty. It's a bloody minefield 😅 I loooove flirting but I need that certainty that they are interested first. My fear of rejection makes it difficult "Mrs FF all of the above...quite shy really..Mr FF usually takes the lead on chatting i always feel a bit awkward.. | |||
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"I've pretty much given up telling people lol Why? Do it! Entirely pointless...it's never reciprocated
So like, nobody you’ve ever fancied has ever fancied you back?
I'm past being disappointed with myself for punching above my weight
surely theres someone who fancies you. you seem to be doing well on here regardless your veris speak for themselves "🤷 Not usually the people I like like though lol | |||
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"I’m terrible at knowing. Sometimes I think I can tell if someone is into me but also I’ve been wrong about these things
I think im pretty clear when I’m into someone but experience has told me that I am not as clear as I think I am
Do you know what you should get? Little business cards with "Jamie Hants" on one side and "I fancy you" on the other. And then you know you've been super clear and left no room for confusion. You're very welcome. 🖤"Oh I love that idea. I’m going to start doing that. I might start putting my underwear in pockets too. I like the subtle approach | |||
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"Tell them straight...old enough to not play childish games. " It's not that for me. It's a self confidence issue bit I'm trying to change that and be more proactive | |||
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"I'm not sure anymore. I thought I knew but Saturday has changed that, I surprised myself by being incredibly direct." I've been thinking about this and maybe I match energy. If someone I'm attracted to is indirect and coy then I'm also shyer, more likely to mention after the event in writing. If someone I like makes it obvious they like me then I'm braver and more direct. Although sometimes I will just go full awkward. That's always a possibility. 🫣😆 | |||
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