FabSwingers.com forum: What's Your Lucky Charm for a Good Date? 🍀

By *l_JJ OP Man
5 days ago

South Essex

We all have our routines before meeting someone new, whether it’s a specific playlist, a favorite outfit, or maybe a pep talk in the mirror.

What are your go-to moves for kicking off a meet with confidence & energy.

Share your rituals or any special habits that help you make a stellar first impression.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
5 days ago

Reading

I always listen to a specific playlist as I'm driving to a date. It's designed specifically to only include soothing songs that I like, that reduce my anxiety. So I hopefully don't show a ball of nervous energy (this still happens but it'd be worse without my playlist)

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By *l_JJ OP Man
5 days ago

South Essex

"I always listen to a specific playlist as I'm driving to a date. It's designed specifically to only include soothing songs that I like, that reduce my anxiety. So I hopefully don't show a ball of nervous energy (this still happens but it'd be worse without my playlist)"

Thats a solid move.Music really does work wonders for calming the nerves.

What’s the go-to song on your playlist that never fails to get you in the right headspace?

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
5 days ago

Reading

Thats a solid move.Music really does work wonders for calming the nerves.

What’s the go-to song on your playlist that never fails to get you in the right headspace?

No, that's the beauty of that playlist. None of them are skippable so I can listen to any of them and I feel a little less so anxious.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
5 days ago

Reading

I must be weird as I don't do anything like this. I get ready then go.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
5 days ago

The last house on the left…

I stopped dating when I discovered Fab 😆

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By *l_JJ OP Man
5 days ago

South Essex

Thats a solid move.Music really does work wonders for calming the nerves.

What’s the go-to song on your playlist that never fails to get you in the right headspace?

No, that's the beauty of that playlist. None of them are skippable so I can listen to any of them and I feel a little less so anxious."

Sounds like a great way to stay grounded. Do you find that same approach works in other parts of life, or is it just a pre-meet ritual?

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By *ools and the brainCouple
5 days ago

couple, us we him her.

Make sure my knobs clean

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By *parkle1974Woman
5 days ago

Leeds

"I must be weird as I don't do anything like this. I get ready then go. "

Me too!

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By *exxyyDy11Man
5 days ago

North West

I don't really have any. I guess music helps to get me into the mood but apart from that, nothing really. I just go and be myself.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
5 days ago

Northerner/Sometimes South East

"I must be weird as I don't do anything like this. I get ready then go.

Me too!"

Me three

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By *eoBloomsMan
5 days ago

Springfield

I wash and oil my lucky condom 🤞

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By *ools and the brainCouple
5 days ago

couple, us we him her.

"I wash and oil my lucky condom 🤞"

Hope you use the correct grade of motor oil?

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By *eliWoman
5 days ago

Have a wank, dab the juice behind my ear. Guaranteed success.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
5 days ago

North West

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By *exxyyDy11Man
5 days ago

North West

"Have a wank, dab the juice behind my ear. Guaranteed success."

Orange or Apple juice?

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By *eliWoman
5 days ago

"Have a wank, dab the juice behind my ear. Guaranteed success.

Orange or Apple juice?

Oh Dy, stay forever young and innocent. 🩷

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By *exxyyDy11Man
5 days ago

North West

"Have a wank, dab the juice behind my ear. Guaranteed success.

Orange or Apple juice?

Oh Dy, stay forever young and innocent. 🩷"

For you Meli I will do just that ❤

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
5 days ago

Ends

I always moisturise my body. Works every time.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
5 days ago

Reading

Thats a solid move.Music really does work wonders for calming the nerves.

What’s the go-to song on your playlist that never fails to get you in the right headspace?

No, that's the beauty of that playlist. None of them are skippable so I can listen to any of them and I feel a little less so anxious.

Sounds like a great way to stay grounded. Do you find that same approach works in other parts of life, or is it just a pre-meet ritual?

I'm quite anxious generally and use this approach for anything that makes me nervous! (though recently it's only cropped up when meeting new people!)

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By *riar BelisseWoman
5 days ago

On Holibobs

My personality

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By *iss.BellaWoman
5 days ago

Wales

Aside from the usual dress to impress and catfish them with make up.. I like to listen to sexy / empowering songs to help me get in my Bella mindset.

If you ever witness a random weirdo slut dropping around a train station, it's probably me 🤷‍♀️😂

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By *ivenchyMan
5 days ago

Maidstone

I like to channel my inner rockstar before a meet—starts with a shower hotter than my fantasies, followed by a playlist that ranges from seductive slow jams to 'I’m-about-to-rock-your-world' anthems.

Then it’s time for the outfit: something that says, ‘I’m classy but also very capable of mischief.’ A spritz of confidence (also known as my best cologne), and a quick mirror check to remind myself, ‘You’re a catch, you’re sexy, and yes, you absolutely will behave… for at least the first five minutes.’

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