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By *riendlyStar OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I'm straight but don't seem to find many people that are nearby? Or not ones that talk anyway lol

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I know just the chick

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By *oiluvfunMan
25 weeks ago

Penrith

My son goes to Portsmouth uni, and on one of my visits to see him down there, I couldn’t help but look who was around in Fab. There were a good few solo female options tbf……?

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By *riendlyStar OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Portsmouth

A few reply not many, try to read profiles but not Mary's cup of tea I suppose haha

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By *ools and the brainCouple
25 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.


"A few reply not many, try to read profiles but not Mary's cup of tea I suppose haha"

Hampshire is the equivalent of a black hole in swinging term's, it's void.

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By *ensual DesiresMan
25 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire


"I know just the chick"
i bet it's the same one im thinking of

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By *riendlyStar OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Portsmouth


"A few reply not many, try to read profiles but not Mary's cup of tea I suppose haha

Hampshire is the equivalent of a black hole in swinging term's, it's void."

Ahhhh I just chat randomly now but as you said it is like it's void haha

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By *riendlyStar OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Portsmouth


"I know just the chick i bet it's the same one im thinking of"

Oh noo lol

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By *riendlyStar OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Portsmouth


"I know just the chick"

Uh oh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

OP has same problem as me, I'm on South Coast also, in Hastings.

For Fab, jobs, housing etc we are automatically at a disadvantage because we have 180 degrees of sea surrounding us.

So if you are prepared to travel say 30 miles for a job etc you only got a half circle in which to operate, because the rest of its sea!

Fab wise, I've never had a meet and just do the forums now. I would only be prepared to travel 15 miles for a meet. Factor that in with been surrounded by 180 degrees os sea, the fact that Bexhill on Sea is the next town with an elderly population and I've limited my prderences to 60 years old.

In Fab terms I'm f**ked but not in the way I expectd, so I just stick to the forums now.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Central

Most people are not mutually compatible and so will not reply to you. It's just a reflection of reality, rather than anything more about you. Keep engaging and get out socially, to clubs and socials

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By *nsaneronMan
25 weeks ago

PO7

I’ve been on here with single profile many years very and had very very reply’s from women/couples

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By *uxurybubblesCouple
25 weeks ago

by the sea

We struggle to find other couples to meet around here as well just so many times waists

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By *midnight-Woman
25 weeks ago

...

I tried to get a meet in Dorset and it was drier than the Sahara

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By *hunky GentMan
25 weeks ago

Stamford


"I tried to get a meet in Dorset and it was drier than the Sahara "

Try Essex.

(Whistles innocently)

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By *ucka39Man
25 weeks ago

Newcastle

Could be something within the bio that may put them off can be little things

Like the disclaimer as it has no meaning just a chain letter

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By *vaRoseWoman
25 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

The fab curse is never connecting with someone local to you.

You’ve also got to remember that you’ll only appeal to a small proportion of the membership, just like in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I'm Hampshire but the wrong sex for you op lol

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By *riendlyStar OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Portsmouth


"OP has same problem as me, I'm on South Coast also, in Hastings.

For Fab, jobs, housing etc we are automatically at a disadvantage because we have 180 degrees of sea surrounding us.

So if you are prepared to travel say 30 miles for a job etc you only got a half circle in which to operate, because the rest of its sea!

Fab wise, I've never had a meet and just do the forums now. I would only be prepared to travel 15 miles for a meet. Factor that in with been surrounded by 180 degrees os sea, the fact that Bexhill on Sea is the next town with an elderly population and I've limited my prderences to 60 years old.

In Fab terms I'm f**ked but not in the way I expectd, so I just stick to the forums now."

Yes I agree it's so difficult tbh

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By *riendlyStar OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Portsmouth


"Most people are not mutually compatible and so will not reply to you. It's just a reflection of reality, rather than anything more about you. Keep engaging and get out socially, to clubs and socials "

So true thankyou

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By *riendlyStar OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Portsmouth


"I’ve been on here with single profile many years very and had very very reply’s from women/couples"

Absolutely it's not helping time on here haha

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By *riendlyStar OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Portsmouth


"We struggle to find other couples to meet around here as well just so many times waists "

I'm shocked as people say take the time to read n ask questions etc, you do and it still no better really haha

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By *riendlyStar OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Portsmouth


"I tried to get a meet in Dorset and it was drier than the Sahara "

Hahahaha that's funny Dorset is so beautiful

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By *riendlyStar OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Portsmouth


"Could be something within the bio that may put them off can be little things

Like the disclaimer as it has no meaning just a chain letter "

True, maybe il change it up abit

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By *riendlyStar OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Portsmouth


"The fab curse is never connecting with someone local to you.

You’ve also got to remember that you’ll only appeal to a small proportion of the membership, just like in real life. "

Yeah that's true also, I guess it's a big pond to pick from isn't it

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By *riendlyStar OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Portsmouth


"I'm Hampshire but the wrong sex for you op lol"

Yes that's true hahahaha

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