FabSwingers.com forum: do you get annoyed when your messages arent replied to straight away?

By *rrrMannnn122 OP Man
5 days ago

Walsall

do you get annoyed? Or just take a step back?

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By *exxyyDy11Man
5 days ago

North West

Why would I get annoyed? People have lives you know. Reply when you like.

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By *avexxMan
5 days ago

cheshire

step back always

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By *all me FlikWoman
5 days ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

Why would that annoy anyone?

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By *ife NinjaMan
5 days ago

Dunfermline

Nope. Expect absolutely nothing

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By *iss KinkWoman
5 days ago

North West

"do you get annoyed? Or just take a step back?"

No do you op?

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By *upersonic SamMan
5 days ago

wigan

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By *iker JackMan
5 days ago

Wolverhampton

Why would it annoy you?

If it does then I would say it’s a huge red flag of what the person may be like off here if something like that annoys them

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By *exxyyDy11Man
5 days ago

North West

"Why would it annoy you?

If it does then I would say it’s a huge red flag of what the person may be like off here if something like that annoys them "

Comes across as very needy or possessive in my eyes.

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By *otuseater11Man
5 days ago

kilwinning

Definitely doesn't bother me as we all have busy lives and can't always get online for days at a time .

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By *onkeynutWoman
5 days ago

somewhere

I never even check if they have been read, so no.

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By *iss DevilWoman
5 days ago

Bedford

"Why would I get annoyed? People have lives you know. Reply when you like. "

This! It's not an instant messaging service. Even on other apps, I don't reply instantly, I'm allowed to be busy, and so are people I am chatting with.

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By *ongAndThick123Man
5 days ago

Leeds

Definitely doesn’t annoy me. The only exception to that rule is if we have a meet planned and they’re due to arrive when suddenly the messages stop coming.

Only time I get annoyed. Though it’s lets to do with the timing and more to do with leaving me hanging when I could be doing something (or someone) else

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By *eliable guyMan
5 days ago

Biggleswade

Of course not. Do you then?

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By *iss DevilWoman
5 days ago

Bedford

If I ever get a barrage of messages from anyone I chat to, because I didn't reply straight away, I just block them. It shows me they have zero patience and we wouldn't be compatible.

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By *ard n hornyMan
5 days ago

buxton

Not at the only thing miffs me is when message been read but they mark as unread I'd rather see deleted or a no thanks

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By *WBiOnlyCoupleCouple
5 days ago

St Helens

"Not at the only thing miffs me is when message been read but they mark as unread I'd rather see deleted or a no thanks "

To be fair, we do this if one of us has read the message and wants the other to remember to read it.

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By *andadbodMan
5 days ago

Liverpool

nope

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
5 days ago

Reading

No but it would raise a red flag for me if they did.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
5 days ago

Paradise, Herts

Depends who it is. My kids yes!! Seeing as they don’t go 10 minutes without looking at their phone.

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By *wimmingbadgerMan
5 days ago

Leicester

A guy blocked me for not replying quick enough; his loss

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By *ealitybitesMan
5 days ago

Belfast

I'm sensing a theme by Oliver McQueen aka......

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
5 days ago

Swansea

In all honesty I don't want instant replies, that indicates eagerness and neither of us are big conversationalists or in any urgent need for a meet.

Mrs

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By *ou only live onceMan
5 days ago

London

No, I don't.

I can be slow to reply so I'd also be a massive hypocrite if I did!

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By *parkle1974Woman
5 days ago

Leeds

No. Once sent, delete and forget about.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
5 days ago

A den in the Glen

I usually give 5 to 10 minutes before attempting to rip up a phone book.

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By *inkerbell69!Couple
5 days ago

Close to Newport

Nope, not bothered on the slightest 🙃

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By *eekyTattsCoupleCouple
5 days ago

Tyne and Wear

No, I expect others, like us have better things to do than be on here 24/7.

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
5 days ago

Glasgow

"Not at the only thing miffs me is when message been read but they mark as unread I'd rather see deleted or a no thanks "

We do this especially if it’s Alex that has read it. He will mark it as unread so I can read it and decide how I want to proceed

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By *tanXXXMan
5 days ago

North east

Replies are a bonus

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
5 days ago

Ends

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By *oughmanMan
5 days ago

Sunderland

Hell no. I consider myself lucky if they are even read and I've never had a reply. But then I don't send many anyway.

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By *ilkpantherMan
5 days ago

West Mids

No. That indicates a serious issue on your part if u do.

I don’t even get annoyed when someone reads my message and doesn’t reply. Just block them & keep it moving

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By *ilkpantherMan
5 days ago

West Mids

I also hardly send msgs on here because women get bombarded with so many messages it seems worthless to msg so i just meet at clubs

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By *bitofaslutTV/TS
5 days ago

Cannock

I get annoyed when they've clearly been deleted unread. Like, am I really so horrendous you can't even bear to read what I've written?

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By *cottish guy 555Man
5 days ago

London

I get absolutely furious. When I send a message I set a timer. I expect a response in less than 5.3 seconds. I mean, what else can people be doing?

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By *parkle1974Woman
5 days ago

Leeds

"I get annoyed when they've clearly been deleted unread. Like, am I really so horrendous you can't even bear to read what I've written?"

To be honest I do that. I'm not going to open a message from a 20 year old something.

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By *saac2145Man
5 days ago

London

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By *urvelover87Man
5 days ago

London

I immediately delete sent messages so I don't know if they have been read/deleted etc. No point in obsessing over it.

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By *ilkpantherMan
5 days ago

West Mids

"I immediately delete sent messages so I don't know if they have been read/deleted etc. No point in obsessing over it."

Doesn’t this show up that u deleted your message? Could that possibly send the wrong impression?

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By *urvelover87Man
5 days ago

London

Doesn’t this show up that u deleted your message? Could that possibly send the wrong impression? "

I don't think it shows, not with silver or free accounts.

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By *ealitybitesMan
5 days ago

Belfast

"I immediately delete sent messages so I don't know if they have been read/deleted etc. No point in obsessing over it.

Doesn’t this show up that u deleted your message? Could that possibly send the wrong impression? "

You can't see that someone deleted a message they have sent. You can only see if the recipient deletes it.

Send and delete is always the best advice in a situation like this.

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By *ilkpantherMan
5 days ago

West Mids

"I immediately delete sent messages so I don't know if they have been read/deleted etc. No point in obsessing over it.

Doesn’t this show up that u deleted your message? Could that possibly send the wrong impression?

You can't see that someone deleted a message they have sent. You can only see if the recipient deletes it.

Send and delete is always the best advice in a situation like this."

I didn’t realise that u know.

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By *tsJustKateWoman
5 days ago

London

"do you get annoyed? Or just take a step back?"

I don't, but lots of guys do!

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
5 days ago

No, why would I?

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By *atgirl and RobinCouple
5 days ago

Durham

"Not at the only thing miffs me is when message been read but they mark as unread I'd rather see deleted or a no thanks "

Why on earth would this annoy you? Us reading a message then marking it as unread simply means that one of us has read it, is potentially interested in the sender, and has marked it as unread again for the other one to see when they log in.

Getting annoyed that someone has flagged your message to potentially reply to later, when they've both seen it and they have the time to give it the attention it deserves, is just weird

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By *JCRoseWoman
5 days ago

Caversham

"Not at the only thing miffs me is when message been read but they mark as unread I'd rather see deleted or a no thanks "

I do this if I want to reply but don't have time at that moment

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By *JCRoseWoman
5 days ago

Caversham

People have lives but also some women will have so many messages they can't keep up!! I have suddenly been inundated with 100s of messages within the last 48hour and I reply to some and more have come through. Ladies are out numbered and can be a headache to try and reply to every one.

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By *r not quite virginMan
5 days ago

rochdale

When they message me and we are actively arrange a meet that is supposed to be happening within an hour or 2. Very much so. I can't arrange anything if they don't get back to me. Then they take 15 mins to reply then get inpatient when I haven't replied within 1 min.

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By *JB1954Man
5 days ago

Reading

On Fab only . Exchange messages. Then say I am asked question or more info. I reply .

Then wait for a reply. Even if see profile online say in couple days . Do not send another message. I move on . Their choice if want to reply or not. ?

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
5 days ago

Launceston

Never even thought about it....

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By *ucka39Man
5 days ago

Newcastle

Nope never annoyed, I find myself at times unable to respond straight away

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By *upanovaMan
5 days ago

Sheffield

No not at all, that's quite a controlling thought. People are busy!

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By *ittlechick77Couple
5 days ago

Staines

OP - looks like your on your own with that view and a red flag to alot of people

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By *aloma PicassoWoman
5 days ago

Waterford city

"Why would it annoy you?

If it does then I would say it’s a huge red flag of what the person may be like off here if something like that annoys them "

Absolutely. I end the chat straight away

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
5 days ago

Essex

I probably would t even notice or think about it. Then probably forget I’d ever sent one.

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By *ife NinjaMan
5 days ago

Dunfermline

Sent. Forget. Happy if I get a reply, if not, no sweat

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By *edSirenWoman
5 days ago

Leighton Buzzard

Screams needy attention seeker. Do not engage

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By *haringisCaring1208Couple
5 days ago

Lurgan

We only reply when we are together, and both work shifts, so sometimes it can take a few days/week for us to reply even if we are on seperately having a perv

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By *h3rry Bomb80Man
5 days ago

the moon

No reply .. no probs .. 👋

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By *ebastion_FiddlesticksMan
5 days ago

I only message when the lady is 'online'. Else it gets washed out by the tide and gulped by the sea with the hundreds of others.

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By *an8iMan
5 days ago

Bilston

Not at all, if I don't get a reply I take it as a polite no thanks

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By *im le2Man
3 days ago

AYLESTONE

I never log out so I can look online and not be back until tomorrow.

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By *partharmonyCouple
3 days ago

Ruislip

"do you get annoyed? Or just take a step back?"

I'll tell you in a few days.

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By *vaRose43Woman
3 days ago

Forest of Dean

"Not at the only thing miffs me is when message been read but they mark as unread I'd rather see deleted or a no thanks

I do this if I want to reply but don't have time at that moment "

I do this too

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By *uidedironwayMan
3 days ago

Cornwall

No give someone a break females are inundated so why get all hot under the collar

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By *uidedironwayMan
3 days ago

Cornwall

"I never even check if they have been read, so no."
So how do you make progress by not reading if you had a response?

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By *un guy300Man
3 days ago

Carmarthen

I find people do return quite quickly even if not interested but are still polite and say no thanks but still happy to chat generally

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By *anonfire96Man
3 days ago

Mansfield

Nope not at all, leave them for two weeks then have a clear out. Move on.

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By *ornycracksMan
3 days ago

Limerick and around clare alot

Hardly as women are harass to the heavens here. But I do laugh wen women complain about rude messages but don't have manners to reply to a polite chatty message I've sent. Manners costs nothing at all.goes both ways

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
3 days ago

Central

I don't generally think about it unless an arranged meeting is imminent

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
3 days ago

Midlothian

"do you get annoyed? Or just take a step back?

I'll tell you in a few days. "

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By *riar BelisseWoman
3 days ago

On Holibobs

Only when I am messaging 'where are you'...

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By *R_BlowjobMan
3 days ago

Lincoln

Only if the conversation has been flowing and when you get to the part about meeting....radio silence. Bore off haha.

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