FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies how far are you willing to travel?

By *yeham808 OP Man
2 weeks ago

NEWCASTLE UPON TYNE

Hey all, hope you’re ok!

Just wondering and would love to hear from women about how far you would be willing to travel to meet another guy or couple or vice versa. Like would you willing to hear an offer from a guy willing to travel from another city?

Thanks xx

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

I've had a few travel down to Manchester to see me, in various guises; one rendezvoused with me in Manchester having travelled down from Sterling (Scotland).

These licentious womenfolk are clearly not afraid of long distance passages or locomotives, whatever their motives. 🦋

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I very rarely travel and very rarely want others to travel to me.

It adds pressure. If a guy comes to me from Aberdeen or I go to Swansea, there's an additional cost and inconvenience involved. Sometimes that translates into people expecting sex. Sex is never guaranteed.

(And I know that you - any given person - would never pressure someone into sex. You're far too wonderful for that, or whatever. However, I'm far too not born yesterday to take that chance)

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By *opeyXWoman
2 weeks ago

Dundee

Not too far, as someone else said adds pressure, prefer meeting locally or if I'm in Aberdeen or Glasgow for social events, I'll meet up there socially and get to know people that way.

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By *andynecklaceWoman
2 weeks ago

Someplace

I wouldn't. If you wanna see me you should come to me

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By *riar BelisseWoman
2 weeks ago

On Holibobs

3 hours one way. I love a weekend adventure away

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By *bi HaiveMan
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2 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

People (yes I know this was aimed at women) will travel as far as they're comfortable with based on the person they're looking to meet, whether it's someone they've met before and know well, whether it's for a specific event/group social/club night and based on their own personal preferences and commitments.

I'd guess statistically many men will be willing to travel further than women, but as has been said, that may raise expectancy levels re what occurs when they get there.

People will do what people will do. 🤷‍♂️

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

We have travelled to Manchester from Glasgow for a meet. I guess as a couple we have the benefit of if it doesn’t work out ie no show or just not feeling it we can still enjoy our night in a different city with an overnight in a nice hotel

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By *parkle1974Woman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

I used to do over 200 miles every 2 weeks to see my last FWB...I do love a road trip x

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
2 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Not too far, as someone else said adds pressure, prefer meeting locally or if I'm in Aberdeen or Glasgow for social events, I'll meet up there socially and get to know people that way. "

The bins, outside Cheerz? Close enough?

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By *mmaleiaWoman
2 weeks ago

Trowbridge

40 mins driving is enough

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By *opeyXWoman
2 weeks ago

Dundee

"Not too far, as someone else said adds pressure, prefer meeting locally or if I'm in Aberdeen or Glasgow for social events, I'll meet up there socially and get to know people that way.

The bins, outside Cheerz? Close enough?"

🤣🤣🤣

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By *iss DevilWoman
2 weeks ago

Bedford

I don't drive so if I'm meeting, I prefer people to come to me. But even then I would not meet anyone who lives more than an hour drive from me. There are way too many expectations if someone had to travel for hours to get to me, regardless of what they say. The main one would be sex, not just social, but also overnight accommodation - I am not a hotel, I like to sleep on my own. Also, longer distances make it difficult for the meets to be regular if both parties wish so.

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
2 weeks ago

furnace

My long term friends travel over 300miles to visit

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
2 weeks ago

furnace

"40 mins driving is enough"

Christ have to drive further than that to the shops

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
2 weeks ago

Wolvo

I wont travel Anything more than 20miles distance or 30/40 mins on public transport. Ppl will still message from further way for meets or wanting me to accommodate them.

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By *iGuy197747Man
2 weeks ago

Stamford

"My long term friends travel over 300miles to visit"

I think that this is just a reflection that a proper relationship is worth the journey and effort!

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Sometimes I just book a hotel in another city then go on fab when I'm there. If I find meets then great and if I don't I get to check put the city.

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By *iss DevilWoman
2 weeks ago

Bedford

"My long term friends travel over 300miles to visit"

How often though? Not every week or month, is it? If I'm meeting someone regularly, I'd like to see them at least once a month, maybe more, not once in a blue moon.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
2 weeks ago

North West

There's a good reason I prefer to meet people at group socials. I enjoy the travel and the event and getting to know a fair few people at once. If chemistry and attraction is established there, then I'm happy to travel a good distance to meet someone at a later date.

3 hours with no air-con to Leicester on the hottest day of the year was a particular highlight 😂

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
2 weeks ago

Ends

"There's a good reason I prefer to meet people at group socials. I enjoy the travel and the event and getting to know a fair few people at once. If chemistry and attraction is established there, then I'm happy to travel a good distance to meet someone at a later date.

3 hours with no air-con to Leicester on the hottest day of the year was a particular highlight 😂"

See you in London

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By *uidedironwayMan
2 weeks ago

Cornwall

"I very rarely travel and very rarely want others to travel to me.

(And I know that you - any given person - would never pressure someone into sex. You're far too wonderful for that, or whatever. However, I'm far too not born yesterday to take that chance)"

I agree about the pressure of having to have sex But I’m a happy traveller I’d go the extra mile for anyone if I knew I meant a lot But I for one would never pressure anyone

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
2 weeks ago

Reading

30-45 minutes drive and pretty much no further 😬

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By *upersonic SamMan
2 weeks ago

wigan

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I very rarely travel and very rarely want others to travel to me.

(And I know that you - any given person - would never pressure someone into sex. You're far too wonderful for that, or whatever. However, I'm far too not born yesterday to take that chance)

I agree about the pressure of having to have sex But I’m a happy traveller I’d go the extra mile for anyone if I knew I meant a lot But I for one would never pressure anyone

That's what they all say.

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By *yeham808 OP Man
1 week ago

NEWCASTLE UPON TYNE

Just name the time and place and I’ll be there xx

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By *uchessdoeWoman
1 week ago

Northampton

I have a travel radius of an hour for 1:1 meets, but for a good club night I'll venture further.

If someone pretty wants to invite me somewhere pretty though, I'm listening

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
1 week ago

Manchester

"I very rarely travel and very rarely want others to travel to me.

(And I know that you - any given person - would never pressure someone into sex. You're far too wonderful for that, or whatever. However, I'm far too not born yesterday to take that chance)"

I agree with this, if a guy I've never met is willing to travel a fair distance to meet me I feel there is an expectation that I will have sex with him which I never guarantee until I have met someone. So it does make me feel a bit uneasy and under pressure of I decide I don't want to. If we have spoken on the phone/video call and I know there is a vibe I might be more inclined to agree.

As I don't drive train travel becomes expensive so I prefer to save my travel to see people I know or for club/social events. I am not sure I would travel outside of Manchester for a meet with someone I hadn't met before right now.

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By *BWHunterMan
1 week ago

Liverpool Street, London

I hear all these points. I sometimes get to travel for work to Bristol, I’d always get in fab when I’m in my hotel but never get any joy. Nothing beats a lonely hotel wank so not a total loss

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By *ookie46Woman
1 week ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I love a good adventure and will often do a 400 mile round trip to see my favourite person

I also like to combine my adventures with social events and can catch up with friends that way too

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By *bitofaslutWoman
1 week ago

Cannock

Depends on finances. I can't drive so if the train fare is reasonable I can do it.

There's a guy in chatting to who lives near Cambridge which for me is near £150. So there's no way I'm going to him lol

Northampton, halfway in-between, only £30 though.

I guess my cutoff is that I won't pay more for the train than I would for the hotel when I get there.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
1 week ago

Next Door

I love a road trip, so i am happy to travel around the country for the right people/social event.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
1 week ago

Ends

"30-45 minutes drive and pretty much no further 😬"
ah well

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
1 week ago

Ends

"I have a travel radius of an hour for 1:1 meets, but for a good club night I'll venture further.

If someone pretty wants to invite me somewhere pretty though, I'm listening

London is pretty

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By *uchessdoeWoman
1 week ago

Northampton

"I have a travel radius of an hour for 1:1 meets, but for a good club night I'll venture further.

If someone pretty wants to invite me somewhere pretty though, I'm listening

London is pretty"

Soooo pretty it hurts.

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By *ollyPocket75Woman
1 week ago

Aberdeen

I travelled from Manchester to Fraserburgh for a year

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By *naswingdressWoman
1 week ago

Manchester (she/her)

I did three longer trips a few years ago to meet people. They're my exceptions. We'd talked daily/ nearly daily for years, starting in 2020. We hadn't met, but longer communication over time overcame that.

Given we no longer have these constraints, that's not happening again.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
1 week ago

Ends

"I have a travel radius of an hour for 1:1 meets, but for a good club night I'll venture further.

If someone pretty wants to invite me somewhere pretty though, I'm listening

London is pretty

Soooo pretty it hurts. "

Ah well. There goes that dream.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
1 week ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

About 25 miles to The Attic in Derby where we can meet

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By *uchessdoeWoman
1 week ago

Northampton

"I have a travel radius of an hour for 1:1 meets, but for a good club night I'll venture further.

If someone pretty wants to invite me somewhere pretty though, I'm listening

London is pretty

Soooo pretty it hurts.

Ah well. There goes that dream. "

Pickle, have you been dreaming about me *again*?

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
1 week ago

Ends

I’d like someone willing to travel to me but that’s hard

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
1 week ago

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"I have a travel radius of an hour for 1:1 meets, but for a good club night I'll venture further.

If someone pretty wants to invite me somewhere pretty though, I'm listening

London is pretty

Soooo pretty it hurts.

Ah well. There goes that dream.

Pickle, have you been dreaming about me *again*? "

I have

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By *uchessdoeWoman
1 week ago

Northampton

"I have a travel radius of an hour for 1:1 meets, but for a good club night I'll venture further.

If someone pretty wants to invite me somewhere pretty though, I'm listening

London is pretty

Soooo pretty it hurts.

Ah well. There goes that dream.

Pickle, have you been dreaming about me *again*?

I have"

Good 👍

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
1 week ago

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"I have a travel radius of an hour for 1:1 meets, but for a good club night I'll venture further.

If someone pretty wants to invite me somewhere pretty though, I'm listening

London is pretty

Soooo pretty it hurts.

Ah well. There goes that dream.

Pickle, have you been dreaming about me *again*?

I have

Good 👍 "

God a thumb. What a bad day this is

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By *uchessdoeWoman
1 week ago

Northampton

"I have a travel radius of an hour for 1:1 meets, but for a good club night I'll venture further.

If someone pretty wants to invite me somewhere pretty though, I'm listening

London is pretty

Soooo pretty it hurts.

Ah well. There goes that dream.

Pickle, have you been dreaming about me *again*?

I have

Good 👍

God a thumb. What a bad day this is

I don't want to get you too excited by using more than one digit

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
1 week ago

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"I have a travel radius of an hour for 1:1 meets, but for a good club night I'll venture further.

If someone pretty wants to invite me somewhere pretty though, I'm listening

London is pretty

Soooo pretty it hurts.

Ah well. There goes that dream.

Pickle, have you been dreaming about me *again*?

I have

Good 👍

God a thumb. What a bad day this is

I don't want to get you too excited by using more than one digit

It’s ok. I’ve asked Alexa to play humble by Kendrick

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
1 week ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I’d travel far. Love getting out and about anyway so I’d tie it in with something to do in the area.

So essentially I’d go to the place and if the meet fell through I wouldn’t be wasting my time.

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By *uchessdoeWoman
1 week ago

Northampton

"I have a travel radius of an hour for 1:1 meets, but for a good club night I'll venture further.

If someone pretty wants to invite me somewhere pretty though, I'm listening

London is pretty

Soooo pretty it hurts.

Ah well. There goes that dream.

Pickle, have you been dreaming about me *again*?

I have

Good 👍

God a thumb. What a bad day this is

I don't want to get you too excited by using more than one digit

It’s ok. I’ve asked Alexa to play humble by Kendrick"

😘

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
1 week ago

Essex

For a first meeting… an hour maybe if we’ve hit it off chatting.

For a group social… no real limit as I’ll make it into a mini break.

Someone I’m seeing regularly - no limit.

It’s not really about distance. My issue is time.

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By *orphia2003Woman
1 week ago

Tonypandy.

As I don't drive, I usually say up to 1hr by public transport. Many of my social meets are in Cardiff as I work there.

I will meet further afield if I'm combining it with another event etc, but no longer prepared to travel long distance and pay out for hotel only to have my time wasted.

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By *uri00620Woman
1 week ago

Croydon

My front door pretty much

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By *vaRose43Woman
1 week ago

Forest of Dean

Well I’m currently 150 miles from home…. So that should give some indication

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
1 week ago

Southampton

"Well I’m currently 150 miles from home…. So that should give some indication "

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By *ympho6969Woman
1 week ago

glasgow

Since I don't accom, I usually do the traveling but don't want to be driving more than around 30 mins

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By *rincipessaWoman
1 week ago

your wildest dreams,

I’ve made it to another country once or twice.

Happily travel a couple hours each way for coffee, or a bj 😜 if it’s the right person

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By *lowercandyWoman
1 week ago

Lancashire

"I don't drive so if I'm meeting, I prefer people to come to me. But even then I would not meet anyone who lives more than an hour drive from me. There are way too many expectations if someone had to travel for hours to get to me, regardless of what they say. The main one would be sex, not just social, but also overnight accommodation - I am not a hotel, I like to sleep on my own. Also, longer distances make it difficult for the meets to be regular if both parties wish so."

This!

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By *atte Lover 82Man
1 week ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED

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By *lex46TV/TS
1 week ago

Near Wells

For a one on one visit, 20 miles is enough. That’s still an hour and a half of driving for possibly 20 minutes of sex. Or worse it could be a no show.

For club visits I’ll drive 4 hours especially if I’m staying in a town for a weekend.

I much prefer to accommodate.

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By *yeham808 OP Man
1 week ago

NEWCASTLE UPON TYNE

Ladies this market research has been most enlightening. I would be keen to discuss this further either 1-on-1 or as a group meet. I would be happy to foot the bill for a Hilton hotel room

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By *eyond PurityCouple
1 week ago

Lincolnshire

We met a gent in a club in Blackpool.

Neither of us lived close to there and we were over 150 miles away from each other but for over a year we would take regular road trips to each others for a weekend.

For people you connect with you make the effort.

If we’ve never met them in person then we wouldn’t consider travelling that far or expect/want someone to.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
1 week ago

Central

I'm inflexible and like to be met at the place of my choice. Can be social or otherwise. If you're motivated and keen, you do your best

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By *orthern StarsCouple
1 week ago

Durham

I/we would happily travel for the right couple.

Love to have a weekend away so would think nothing about travelling a couple of hundred miles one way. Why put barriers in the way of having an enjoyable time, thats why cars were invented

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
1 week ago

Northerner/Sometimes South East

30 mins or less for me. On a very rare occasion can be tempted out of the North West.

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By *ceKweenWoman
1 week ago

Bolton

I would happy travel for the right person.

Especially as I no longer drive.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
1 week ago

A den in the Glen

"I would happy travel for the right person.

Especially as I no longer drive."

I'd make up a meet just to get out of Bolton FFS

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By *naswingdressWoman
1 week ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Ladies this market research has been most enlightening. I would be keen to discuss this further either 1-on-1 or as a group meet. I would be happy to foot the bill for a Hilton hotel room

xx"

Smooth

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By *aron Van WinkleMan
1 week ago

Oldham

I live in greater Manchester if anyone is thinking of a road trip….

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By *ceKweenWoman
1 week ago

Bolton

"I would happy travel for the right person.

Especially as I no longer drive.

I'd make up a meet just to get out of Bolton FFS"

There’s worse places than here

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
1 week ago

A den in the Glen

"I would happy travel for the right person.

Especially as I no longer drive.

I'd make up a meet just to get out of Bolton FFS

There’s worse places than here "

Yeah, I've been to Bradford.

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By *ceKweenWoman
1 week ago

Bolton

"I would happy travel for the right person.

Especially as I no longer drive.

I'd make up a meet just to get out of Bolton FFS

There’s worse places than here

Yeah, I've been to Bradford."

So have I 👀

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
1 week ago

Staffordshire

If we are meeting a woman, we feel it is up to us to do more of the travelling, especially for the inital meet.

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By *arriedminxCouple
1 week ago

leeds

Depends on who we’re meeting! If we think it’s worth the effort and it’s incorporated into a weekend away….wherever!

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
1 week ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"Ladies this market research has been most enlightening. I would be keen to discuss this further either 1-on-1 or as a group meet. I would be happy to foot the bill for a Hilton hotel room

xx"

👏 this is excellent market research 😁

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By *yeham808 OP Man
1 week ago

NEWCASTLE UPON TYNE

"Ladies this market research has been most enlightening. I would be keen to discuss this further either 1-on-1 or as a group meet. I would be happy to foot the bill for a Hilton hotel room

👏 this is excellent market research 😁"

Just the name the time and place and we could do further testing xx

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
1 week ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"Ladies this market research has been most enlightening. I would be keen to discuss this further either 1-on-1 or as a group meet. I would be happy to foot the bill for a Hilton hotel room

👏 this is excellent market research 😁

Just the name the time and place and we could do further testing xx

And then we will clap for bootycheeks together 👏

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By *yeham808 OP Man
1 week ago

NEWCASTLE UPON TYNE

"Ladies this market research has been most enlightening. I would be keen to discuss this further either 1-on-1 or as a group meet. I would be happy to foot the bill for a Hilton hotel room

👏 this is excellent market research 😁

Just the name the time and place and we could do further testing xx

And then we will clap for bootycheeks together 👏 "

If it’s yours MYB then it would be my absolute duty to please that booty xx

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By *issmorganWoman
1 week ago

Calderdale innit

I wouldn't travel too far for a first meet. It's a social only anyway and I've seen too many threads where people have been stood up after paying to travel and for hotels etc.

If I got to know someone well and I'd met them a few times, then I'd travel futher.

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