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Why numbers of male, female and couples so different?

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By *lascple24 OP   Couple
1 week ago

Glasgow

Genuine question but why are the numbers of guys, girls and couples so different ?

Obviously there are a lot more guys than couples or women combined.

Why does this differ from ratios on conventional dating sites which apparently are almost 50/50?

Is it women don’t like casual sex or is it just the number of guys cheating or are women always looking for long term commitment ? Societal pressure on women ?

Probably all of the above but thought it might be interesting to see what people think

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By *uzzleMan
1 week ago

Hastings

Its a Fab mystery! I don't believe dating sites are 50/50 either.

I signed up for Match once and purposely searched for women say between 35 and 40 within a 5 mile radius. The results were just bulls**t, I had about 300 of the worlds most beautiful women on my doorstep (bear in mind I reside on the South Coast) so that 5 miles is on a 180 degree land mass because the other 180 degrees is the sea! I got a refund no problem because the profiles obviously weren't real.

Its the same with naturists, I've been a naturist for 30 years. Women are as like rocking horse s**t in naturist circles. They just don't want to get their kit off like guys do.

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By *lascple24 OP   Couple
1 week ago

Glasgow


"Its a Fab mystery! I don't believe dating sites are 50/50 either.

I signed up for Match once and purposely searched for women say between 35 and 40 within a 5 mile radius. The results were just bulls**t, I had about 300 of the worlds most beautiful women on my doorstep (bear in mind I reside on the South Coast) so that 5 miles is on a 180 degree land mass because the other 180 degrees is the sea! I got a refund no problem because the profiles obviously weren't real.

Its the same with naturists, I've been a naturist for 30 years. Women are as like rocking horse s**t in naturist circles. They just don't want to get their kit off like guys do.

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So why would women not be looking on dating sites just as keenly as men? Are they not interested in men or are they meeting men in other ways such as bars or nightclubs ?

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By *uzzleMan
1 week ago

Hastings


"So why would women not be looking on dating sites just as keenly as men? Are they not interested in men or are they meeting men in other ways such as bars or nightclubs ? "

For exactly the same reason they are more successful on Fab than guys are. Women is daily life get hit on by guys, at the bus stop, at work, at the gym, shopping etc. They are also much more likely to introduce girlfriends to guys they know to get the ball rolling that way.

In short, women have it easier than guys when it comes to dating so they don't need to use dating websites. By the way, I am not complaining, its just fact that pussy rules.

Even with all this equality and BS, women expect men to make the first move, end of.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
1 week ago

Carlisle usually


"So why would women not be looking on dating sites just as keenly as men? Are they not interested in men or are they meeting men in other ways such as bars or nightclubs ?

For exactly the same reason they are more successful on Fab than guys are. Women is daily life get hit on by guys, at the bus stop, at work, at the gym, shopping etc. They are also much more likely to introduce girlfriends to guys they know to get the ball rolling that way.

In short, women have it easier than guys when it comes to dating so they don't need to use dating websites. By the way, I am not complaining, its just fact that pussy rules.

Even with all this equality and BS, women expect men to make the first move, end of. "

Women in daily life get hit on making it easier for them to date. So are they all just dating the same handful of dudes who got the hang of in person flirting?

The ratios of single men to single women in general are probably about equal. I think the difference is more that women are happier with good friends and a decent vibrator rather than wanting to deal with the needs of a whole other human and all the hassle of a relationship for the sake of getting off on a regular basis.

I mean yes, I am well aware that if I just want a casual fuck I can hit the bars whenever I feel like and get that. But for every woman that does that, there's a man going home with them too. So why is that skewing the ratios?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
1 week ago

Reading

Tinder is 75% men 25% women. For similar reasons. Men are more likely to seek out casual sex for both biological and societal reasons.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
1 week ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

I’ll hazard a guess it’s because the majority of women aren’t that interested in the majority of men.

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By *im le2Man
5 days ago

AYLESTONE

Well you have gay guys.

Bi guys and

str8 guys that also want men. That's two thirds of all the men.

Then you have the str8 guys that are not looking for single men but will meet men.

You have couples where it's only the man looking to meet m/f

Should I go on?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
5 days ago

The Town by The Cross

women just don't have the time or freedom opportunities to act like flies to shit

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By *endalshaggersCouple
5 days ago

Lake District

Prehaps there are so many "single" profiles on here as it may be assumed that this site is no different to your swipey hook up sites - so basically sex for little effort in the minds of most - or that compared to those swipey apps/conventional dating profiles there may be lesser risk of being caught out on here for those playing away?

It is quite interesting in our conversations with both couples, men and women how extremely quickly one demographic turns the talk sexual and wanting to meet asap compared to the rest.

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By *JB1954Man
5 days ago

Reading

I put on a post last night. Did a quick search . The result . Both 18-99. No filters. This within my profile area.

Males looking for females within 5 miles = 300+

Females looking for males within 5 miles = 59

So real % difference ?

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By *riel13Woman
5 days ago

Northampton

Women are still judged massively when they are into casual sex, by the men on here as much as "normals"... Women join and are scared off by the bombardment of their inbox, as a newbie and the abuse when they aren't interested... Women seem to be more likely to want a monogamous relationship... Obviously not all... Some join and are put off by the grossness of some people on here then get called childish names when they day anything... I have been called a prude because I don't send or post explicit pictures... Seriously?! And a multitude of other reasons

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By *viatrixWoman
5 days ago

Redhill


"Tinder is 75% men 25% women. For similar reasons. Men are more likely to seek out casual sex for both biological and societal reasons."

This is it.

SOME men (before I get slated 😄 🏃🏻‍♀️ 🍅) are very primal, all they want to do is stick it in, doesn’t matter where. Hence the abundance of FAF messages.

SOME women (same disclaimer as above) don’t have that primal urge to just have something up our orifices, and if we do, we have a plethora of very satisfying tech or just our fingers. So we can take our sweet, sweet, sweeeet time choosing potential cock that we want up our orifices. Here and/or in “real life”. There is no rush. No quota of emptying balls RIGHT NOW.

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