FabSwingers.com forum: OF culture and the men....the DEBATE

By *lamdaddy OP Man
2 days ago

London

Right guys, Bonnie blue. 1000 men.

Now I think, of course it's not good mainstream media publishes that everywhere, because kids do see that shit. They just do.

But in the debate, who's more to blame, the individual women who promote things like, I don't care any details just queue up and fuck me, or the men who pay to travel just to have 30 seconds on a pornstar?

What ARE your thoughts? Are both responsible for making sex a little too... disposable?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 days ago

Carlisle usually

She saw an opportunity to make a lot of money in a way she felt comfortable with.

I wouldn't say anyone involved was a shining example of humanity.

But there's no point villainising people when they weren't acting with malicious intent or trying to ruin anyone else's happiness 💜

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex

Everyone's to blame if kids are seeing this stuff. Giving your kid a device that can access everything in the world and allowing them to use it privately seems daft to me. All of us just sitting back while most social media platforms take very little action to prevent children accessing all sorts is madness.

Bonnie Blue and the 1,000 men are a flea bite on the elephants back.

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By *orquemadaMan
2 days ago

glasgow

"She saw an opportunity to make a lot of money in a way she felt comfortable with.

I wouldn't say anyone involved was a shining example of humanity.

But there's no point villainising people when they weren't acting with malicious intent or trying to ruin anyone else's happiness 💜"

What about the mum who dragged her son out of one of the shoots?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 days ago

East Sussex

"She saw an opportunity to make a lot of money in a way she felt comfortable with.

I wouldn't say anyone involved was a shining example of humanity.

But there's no point villainising people when they weren't acting with malicious intent or trying to ruin anyone else's happiness 💜

What about the mum who dragged her son out of one of the shoots?"

Did she!

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By *orquemadaMan
2 days ago

glasgow

"She saw an opportunity to make a lot of money in a way she felt comfortable with.

I wouldn't say anyone involved was a shining example of humanity.

But there's no point villainising people when they weren't acting with malicious intent or trying to ruin anyone else's happiness 💜

What about the mum who dragged her son out of one of the shoots?

Did she! "

Yeah it's hilarious.

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By *lue NotebooksCouple
2 days ago

Merseyside

If all are happy and consenting I would have no issue except for the fact that after a certain amount of fellas that has got to be uncomfortable and then painful 😕 so it’s clearly for shock value and that’s quite grim

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By *exxyyDy11Man
2 days ago

North West

"If all are happy and consenting I would have no issue except for the fact that after a certain amount of fellas that has got to be uncomfortable and then painful 😕 so it’s clearly for shock value and that’s quite grim "

I'd be a little freaked out seeing all the guys in the same room and the amount of condoms and shit on the floor would turn me off

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By *oodmessMan
2 days ago

yumsville

I'd never heard of her before fab, same with that other woman people were mentioning.

Who's to blame? Probably the early celebs that endorsed it.. those that were finding it hard to stay in the media or stage, they had a following with people looking up to them. Once the world knows how much they're making for not doing the work they usually do it's seen as easy money.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
1 day ago

Central

I've not seen it but if everyone is a consenting adult within it and it's viewed only by adults, it doesn't matter.

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By *lamdaddy OP Man
1 day ago

London

"I've not seen it but if everyone is a consenting adult within it and it's viewed only by adults, it doesn't matter."

Well the issue is, the media is reporting on it. Which is seen by alot of people, no age veri required. Media reports on it, people search themselves don't they...

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By *electableicecreamMan
1 day ago

The West

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By *electableicecreamMan
1 day ago

The West

"Right guys, Bonnie blue. 1000 men.

Now I think, of course it's not good mainstream media publishes that everywhere, because kids do see that shit. They just do.

What ARE your thoughts? Are both responsible for making sex a little too... disposable?"

Blame starts with the premise that someone did something wrong but all that happened was a woman fucked a load of guys and made some bank.

Judgment, from her point of view, is just a part of her marketing strategy.

I hear every time she gets fucked an incel spontaneously bursts into flames.

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By *innamon_flameWoman
1 day ago

london

I think with the amount of people preforming on personal subscription porn sites there is going to be a culture of "shocking content" or "one up manship" (yes I know she took more than 1 up) to get people to part with their cash.

It wasn't that long before Bonnie that Lily Philips was all over the news with her gang bang.

I just hope these women are being smart with the money that they are making and it will last longer than their notoriety

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
1 day ago

The last house on the left…

Well that’s the ubiquity of the internet. I don’t like it, but that’s the way it is now. Theirs nothing wrong with children learning about sex, as long as it’s contextualised.

That’s what parents are for.

Sex can be a sacrament between two committed people. But others view it was a recreational activity. Some as a form of public entertainment.

See? Context.

If anything my dogmatic religious upbringing is the thing that did me the most damage.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
1 day ago

The last house on the left…

As far as Bonnie Blue goes? Good on her

We’re actually living in a Golden Age for adult entertainers. For the first time ever 0nlyFan$ has removed industry gatekeepers, middlemen, exploitation, pimps etc

Women work on their terms, with whomever they choose & get the lion’s share of the profits.

Compare Bonnie Blue to Annabelle Chong, who set a gangbang porn record yeeears ago…& never got paid

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
1 day ago

Reading

She made a publicity stunt that had worked and made her famous. She has by far the most to gain. The men probably had a shit shag. But why blame anyone? All consenting adults.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 day ago

The Town by The Cross

"Right guys, Bonnie blue. 1000 men.

Now I think, of course it's not good mainstream media publishes that everywhere, because kids do see that shit. They just do.

What ARE your thoughts? Are both responsible for making sex a little too... disposable?"

Who is to blame for what? Why are we supposed to make a decision based on gender ?

If an ACT is wrong it's wrong and it's wrong to take part being a woman or a man shouldn't come into it.

If it was a man who took a 1000 other men up the arse what would you base your 'blame' on then ?

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By *lamdaddy OP Man
1 day ago

London

"Right guys, Bonnie blue. 1000 men.

Now I think, of course it's not good mainstream media publishes that everywhere, because kids do see that shit. They just do.

What ARE your thoughts? Are both responsible for making sex a little too... disposable?

Who is to blame for what? Why are we supposed to make a decision based on gender ?

If an ACT is wrong it's wrong and it's wrong to take part being a woman or a man shouldn't come into it.

If it was a man who took a 1000 other men up the arse what would you base your 'blame' on then ?

It's not about the gender, it's more, the offerer of services and the ones queuing up to do it one after the other.

Also to clarify everyone, this thread is in relation to the fact this topic is coming up in debates on tv and non fab like people. I think the mainstream media needs to stop reporting on it and other than that couldn't give a fuck!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 day ago

The Town by The Cross

Got it CLAMDADDY.

The drug dealer or the buyer ?

The bakery or the obese buyer?

The tobacconist or the smoker ?

The bookie or the person who lost their house and family?

I haven't seen or heard of it except on here so I am going to be commenting in ignorance...... we all make choices and they were adults who made a choice.

If it is in mainstream media less people will have seen it than see it on social media and I expect it would be reported after the watershed of nine.

Do you have a day, time, channel ? or did you mean 'news' papers ? if so which one i'd like to see how it's reported.

Cheers.

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By *emorefridaCouple
1 day ago

La la land

To be honest as a mother of teenagers this really doesn't bother me that much. I've spoken to my children about the realities of porn after they had encountered it. It is my responsibility as a parent to ensure they are as best equipped to deal with these things.

In all reality, does it matter how many men she slept with in one go? What difference would it make on my kids if they watched her fuck 900 or 1000? None, it's only with people who give a monkey's about numbers pretty much the same as those who ask for bra sizes in my opinion. It's all kind of meaningless.

Porn is always going to exist, and with the internet it's always going to push the limits. And to be honest vanilla sex with a lot of men, is the least of my worries of what they might see.

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By *ellhungvweMan
1 day ago

Cheltenham

I am with the who cares brigade. It is all consensual. It’s her life let her get on with it. Same for the men.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
1 day ago

The Town by The Cross

I've found my own sources on mainstream media involvement....

I'm disinterested in this story and right now there are a couple of things i'd like to STOP ..... can people stop saying 'she slept with' cos no one slept and can people stop saying 'had sex with' ..... they had time to stick their dick in and take it out - that really isn't sex.

A record breaking stunt which served her purpose and served her well.

The O.P. didn't mention 'outsiders' those that love reading the stories, those that love to be disgusted, those that talk about it and give it traction ... like us here.

Let it die - It HAS to be easier than a pie eating contest. People are only interested due to British prudery and finger wagging.

Fuck it

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