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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
1 week ago

Ends

They spend months asking to meet and when you finally say ‘go on then’ they disappear- don’t open your message and ghost you?

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By *econdtimelucky101Man
1 week ago

Oldbury

Leading you on, I guess it may be a bloke having his fun.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
1 week ago

East Sussex

Charge it to the game.

Been waiting ages to use this again.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
1 week ago

The Continental

I dunno, I don’t bother thinking about them after that. I move on with a ‘fuck it’ attitude.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
1 week ago

North West


"Charge it to the game.

Been waiting ages to use this again. "

Well said

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By *porty_and_NaughtyCouple
1 week ago

Swansea

Maybe it was the thrill of the chase. Maybe someone else has caught their attention and it's new and exciting. Maybe after so long chatting they friend zoned you. Maybe lots of other reasons. Just think it was good while it lasted and move on.

Mrs

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By *ammie555TV/TS
1 week ago

Worcester

Just get used to it this site is full of let downs n time wasters, I report them but they don't get removed of the site so they can just go n waste someone else's time.

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By *naswingdressWoman
1 week ago

Manchester (she/her)

*cough*

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By *lusherCouple
1 week ago

bodmin

Very odd behaviour but I guess we never know what is going on on the other side of the conversation

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
1 week ago

Reading

I feel like I've called their bluff a few times with the meeting thing.

If they give an excuse to not meet the first time I offer, maybe I give them the benefit of the doubt? But the second time? that's my fault for hanging on where I'm not wanted.

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By *ony MannMan
1 week ago

Lagos, Portugal/ Ilfracombe Devon/ Andover

I just think is not going anywhere , so why keep chatting

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By *odgerMooreMan
1 week ago

Nowhere

Almost all of the women on here… and im not generalising are here just for either sex, companionship and sex, a relationship… and sex, conversation… and sex -

I for one am sick of being tricked into having sex with them after a bit of a chat…

it seems there are a few also who are here just to play chase me and when they get the shallow affirmation of someone agreeing to meet them they just move onto another meaningless chase. Its ruined fab for everyone genuine

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By *midnight-Woman
1 week ago

...

Situations changed, someone new on the horizon??

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By *apidaryMan
1 week ago

Glasgow

Fantasy sometimes collapses in the face of imminent reality. Bad manners, but probably not deliberate, if that makes it feel less like lemon juice on a paper cut.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
1 week ago

The Continental


"Almost all of the women on here… and im not generalising are here just for either sex, companionship and sex, a relationship… and sex, conversation… and sex -

I for one am sick of being tricked into having sex with them after a bit of a chat…

it seems there are a few also who are here just to play chase me and when they get the shallow affirmation of someone agreeing to meet them they just move onto another meaningless chase. Its ruined fab for everyone genuine "

It must be a real bind for ya.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
1 week ago

Lincolnshire

Post nut clarity

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By *odgerMooreMan
1 week ago

Nowhere


"Almost all of the women on here… and im not generalising are here just for either sex, companionship and sex, a relationship… and sex, conversation… and sex -

I for one am sick of being tricked into having sex with them after a bit of a chat…

it seems there are a few also who are here just to play chase me and when they get the shallow affirmation of someone agreeing to meet them they just move onto another meaningless chase. Its ruined fab for everyone genuine

It must be a real bind for ya. "

I wish!!! I think most women on here see me as unattainable and out of their league in every dept. So they save themselves from potential rejection by not contacting me… the ones who feel they can’t trust themselves in a moment of weakness not to contact me - they block me - just in case!!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
1 week ago

Lincolnshire

As a couple then we know a lot of singles are only looking for singles.

For gents - a lot don’t want to meet couples - they want the lady of the couple by herself so prefer the hotwife experience or just want a single woman.

For ladies - whilst they get the best of both worlds, if they are bi, so as a couple we are appealing, they also have single guys, other couples and probably single women chasing them, so it’s harder for them to become invested.

FAB is a sweet shop so it’s easy to get your head turned to all the flavours out there…

K

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By *ad NannaWoman
1 week ago

East London

I may do something like that if their communication has been infrequent and patchy, and they don't seem that interested in anything other than a convenient fuck/suck.

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By *ad NannaWoman
1 week ago

East London


"Almost all of the women on here… and im not generalising are here just for either sex, companionship and sex, a relationship… and sex, conversation… and sex -

I for one am sick of being tricked into having sex with them after a bit of a chat…

it seems there are a few also who are here just to play chase me and when they get the shallow affirmation of someone agreeing to meet them they just move onto another meaningless chase. Its ruined fab for everyone genuine

It must be a real bind for ya.

I wish!!! I think most women on here see me as unattainable and out of their league in every dept. So they save themselves from potential rejection by not contacting me… the ones who feel they can’t trust themselves in a moment of weakness not to contact me - they block me - just in case!! "

That almost deserves a pity fuck.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
1 week ago

little house on the praire

If I get bored

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
1 week ago

Northerner/Sometimes South East

Yep to the boredom; when the conversation is hard work or they are flakey I get bored and direct attention elsewhere.

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By *ad NannaWoman
1 week ago

East London

And if it feels like they're more interested I'm other women I'd stop bothering to reply.

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By *andTWoman
1 week ago

Altrincham


"They spend months asking to meet and when you finally say ‘go on then’ they disappear- don’t open your message and ghost you?

"

They've decided for what ever reason that they don't want to pursue the connection

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
1 week ago

Ends


"Charge it to the game.

Been waiting ages to use this again. "

Real 🥰🥰🥰

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By *ife NinjaMan
1 week ago

Dunfermline

Find 'better', fantasists, had a walk, just want to chat 🤷‍♂️

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By *riar BelisseWoman
1 week ago

On Holibobs

They like the chase, not the catch

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
1 week ago

London


"They like the chase, not the catch "

This

So much attention, flirting, texting, tributes, personal questions, sugary words, begging for an encounter but never a precise day, time and place.

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By *odgerMooreMan
1 week ago

Nowhere


"Almost all of the women on here… and im not generalising are here just for either sex, companionship and sex, a relationship… and sex, conversation… and sex -

I for one am sick of being tricked into having sex with them after a bit of a chat…

it seems there are a few also who are here just to play chase me and when they get the shallow affirmation of someone agreeing to meet them they just move onto another meaningless chase. Its ruined fab for everyone genuine

It must be a real bind for ya.

I wish!!! I think most women on here see me as unattainable and out of their league in every dept. So they save themselves from potential rejection by not contacting me… the ones who feel they can’t trust themselves in a moment of weakness not to contact me - they block me - just in case!!

That almost deserves a pity fuck."

I’ll take that!!

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By *exxyyDy11Man
1 week ago

North West

Probably leading you on sadly. Or like someone on here said the thrill of the chase. Women on here can be just as much as a fantasist as men.

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By *ustcallMan
1 week ago

Glasgow

I’ve had couples and single ladies send me winks. fab my pictures and videos, had filthy chats range of rendezvous and then it’s as if they have gone into the witness protection

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By *ongAndThick123Man
1 week ago

Leeds

Speaking for months is the issue. Never do that. It builds up too much anticipation and allows both parties to create personas that they then feel they won’t be able to live up to in person.

Meeting relatively fast is the only way. The more time that passes, the less chance you’ll meet.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenic OP   Man
1 week ago

Ends


"They like the chase, not the catch

This

So much attention, flirting, texting, tributes, personal questions, sugary words, begging for an encounter but never a precise day, time and place. "

❤️❤️

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