FabSwingers.com forum: Lonely

By *arry bethelABC OP Man
6 days ago

Aberdeen

Does anyone else feel lonely on here?

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By *enisorousMan
6 days ago

sunderland

Probably the majority of single blokes..especially if they're over 50

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
6 days ago

Reading

Often alone but never lonely.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
6 days ago

The Continental

On here? Not at all.

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By *TRAY-CATMan
6 days ago

dundee

Since my wife passed 3 years ago.

Ive been surrounded by family. But every day inside I feel alone.

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By *neeyedwillieMan
6 days ago

Darlington

"Does anyone else feel lonely on here?"

Not really. But I am invisible (to people I have not already met).

What I mean is, if I go to clubs or socials then I meet people, make new friends and all the rest. I have a great time.

On here, it's just all online fluff. All the nuance of true human interaction is gone. I can send a message and it never gets read or it gets read or deleted and if I do get into a conversation with someone "most of the time" if just goes dry and ends. I'd say it's probably because I'm a solo male and there are so many single men on here....

However...

Same thing happens on my wife and I's couples account.

It's just the nature of online stuff and it's worse on Fab.

Unfortunately, there's a lot of nonsense to wade through. Once you get past the fake's and wannabes, keeping any conversation going can be hard because...well most women are talking with who knows how many men at once and many men are just spamming as many women as they can. Probably the same with a lot of couples accounts as well.

In a real life setting however...such as a club..well you make your introductions, you chat and go from there.

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By *ldNewbie64Man
4 days ago

Bury

Always alone, here or in the real world.

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By *tephenAndHisPicklenicMan
4 days ago

Ends

Not lonely. But I feel like it isn’t fulfilling me anymore and it’s making it boring and making conversations less fun

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By *otxbun65Man
4 days ago

Folkestone

Alone? No. Ignored? Absolutely. But then I'm a single man; an older single man; an older single man who isn't hung like a horse.

Goes with the territory...

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By *arex2Couple
4 days ago

Bradford

"Since my wife passed 3 years ago.

Ive been surrounded by family. But every day inside I feel alone. "

This! My wife passed in November

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By *ife NinjaMan
4 days ago

Dunfermline

"Probably the majority of single blokes..especially if they're over 50"

More obsolete than lonely

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By *riar BelisseWoman
4 days ago

On Holibobs

Not lonely, more understimulated. But it is nearly time for my fab break, so I guess I'm feeling it more.

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By *ucka39Man
4 days ago

Newcastle

Nope

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By *abby N IanCouple
22 hours ago

Willenhall

This forum definately hit home with me. As I'm getting older I am struggling more with my confidence and hence struggling to approach new ppl, especially in the clubs.

Actually I'm wondering if this new event Xtasia have asked me and my husband to host stating 'we are a perfect fit' would help anyone. It's going to be aimed at building ppls confidence and helping ppl meet and interact with new ppl that believe they have imperfections. I believe nobody is perfect and we should all embrace all the positives things we have to offer others and ourselves xx

The event happening at Xtasia on Saturday 8th March called Perfect Imperfections.

Feel free to have a look:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/events/1678402

Hopefully see some of you there.

Tabby x

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By *emptme1993Man
22 hours ago

manchester

My inbox is always open if anyone is feeling lonely and just wants a chat. I will always respond to anyone about anything

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By *viatrixWoman
12 hours ago

Redhill

Sorry to those of you who have most loved ones recently.

Not really feeling lonely…. I am posting more on the forum because I have the time

and chats always fizzle out but I still enjoy having them for asomg as they last.

I truly cherish my time alone, so I never really feel lonely.

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By *viatrixWoman
11 hours ago

Redhill

"Sorry to those of you who have most loved ones recently.

Not really feeling lonely…. I am posting more on the forum because I have the time

and chats always fizzle out but I still enjoy having them for asomg as they last.

I truly cherish my time alone, so I never really feel lonely."

Who have lost… apologies for the typo 🤦🏻‍♀️

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By *oughmanMan
9 hours ago

Sunderland

Actually I've more interaction on here in the forums than I have for months elsewhere.

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By *R_BlowjobMan
9 hours ago

Lincoln

Lonely, I am so lonely. I have nobody, to call my own. Looooooonely.

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By *IG G77Man
9 hours ago

GATLEY

I feel very lonely here

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By *hampersDarlingWoman
9 hours ago

Norwich

Lonely no. Sometimes frustrated and definitely not mentally stimulated enough on here.

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By *amantha_NiteTV/TS
9 hours ago

The Lake District

"Does anyone else feel lonely on here?"

Yep

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
9 hours ago

BRIDPORT

Nope

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By *onestjohn1962Man
7 hours ago

Sheffield

"Often alone but never lonely. "

Love this xxxx

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By *ceKweenWoman
7 hours ago

Bolton

Yes

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By *inkShyWoman
7 hours ago

near Windsor

Lonely on the site as in ignored, or does anyone here feel lonely IRL?

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By *ub 4 abuseMan
7 hours ago

Ystalyfera

"Lonely on the site as in ignored, or does anyone here feel lonely IRL? "

Definitely lonely IRL, come here for a bit of escapism

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
6 hours ago

London (She/Her)

Of course, but I’m aware loneliness is a state of mind and not a fact so I try to reframe it into something more positive.

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By *iker JackMan
6 hours ago

Wolverhampton

I don’t feel lonely on here. There are interactions in the forum if you want them

For me it is important that there is life outside of anything on the internet

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By *inkShyWoman
5 hours ago

near Windsor

"Lonely on the site as in ignored, or does anyone here feel lonely IRL?

Definitely lonely IRL, come here for a bit of escapism "

Aw I'm sorry. I can get lonely in real life, I have friends but I'm also a full time carer for non verbal family member, and there's nothing more lonely than that sometimes.

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By *reamerBMan
5 hours ago

Fantasy

Here and real world. Comes with age I think. Single 8 years, and most mates are married with children now so don't see them.

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By *enelope2UWoman
5 hours ago

Fife

"Always alone, here or in the real world. "

Same

5000 miles away to nearest legitimate human family or friend

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