FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Married men who’s wives don’t know

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago

I am a married guy on here without his wife’s knowledge, this seems to be frowned upon by other women, are there any women who are happy to chat with married guys who’s wives do t know we are on here?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ansoffateMan
25 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Your wife doesn't know you're married?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago

[Removed by poster at 05/02/25 20:05:07]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *riar BelisseWoman
25 weeks ago

Holibobs

Yes. You will find quite a few, some wives who are cheating themselves prefer to meet married cheating men. The majority however, will keep it off the forums and hunt in fab away from judgement.

Theres something for everyone on here.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago

Thank you for your response, I get that, totally makes sense

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oodmessMan
25 weeks ago

yumsville

If you're only looking to chat, why say you're married and your partner doesn't know. Might as well say say you're into everything and get the chat you want.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago

Thanks mate, you make a fair point

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orthernNightsMan
25 weeks ago

Thirsk

Your post comes across like you are surprised that many people frown upon it.

Surely that should the expected reaction for shitty behaviour?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago

Hi there, yes you make a valid point , thanks

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"If you're only looking to chat, why say you're married and your partner doesn't know. Might as well say say you're into everything and get the chat you want. "

Terrible advice but a great example of why single m get the responses or lack off responses they do 1 because 80% of single m on fab wouldn't know the truth if it bit them in the balls and 2 the same 80% think if they say they are into anything and everything you'll tell them what you want and they can agree with it as if it was just meant to be without realising what those words actually imply they are into

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago

I agree, that’s why I was honest in saying I am married.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orthernNightsMan
25 weeks ago

Thirsk


"I agree, that’s why I was honest in saying I am married. "

Being honest about your dishonesty to your partner, probably isn't the virtue you think it might be

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ucka39Man
25 weeks ago

Newcastle


"I agree, that’s why I was honest in saying I am married. "

Try using the reply and quote per comment you wish to respond to it makes it easier

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orkshire UnicornWoman
25 weeks ago

Yorkshire

Out of interest, why can you discuss opening the marriage with your wife, OP?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *edSirenWoman
25 weeks ago

magic mountain

I’d say that trust is actually one of THE biggest factors for anyone within the swinging community so it’s little surprise that most wouldn’t agree with you breaking your partner’s.

To each their own in my opinion. Just don’t complain about it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
25 weeks ago

Thanks, you make a fair point

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
25 weeks ago

.

Being honest about being married will massively reduce your chances of meets with Women, probably not as much with Men but people still meet attached Men/Women but they're not as vocal about it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago


"Out of interest, why can you discuss opening the marriage with your wife, OP?"

I’ve tried many times

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
22 weeks ago

kent

It breaks down like this:

Trust is essential for any kind of relationship, be it a marriage or a platonic friendship. If you’re prepared to be dishonest with your wife, then I’m sure you’ll be dishonest with me. If I can’t trust you, why would I waste my time talking to you?

It’s makes sense, doesn’t it?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *errywildWoman
22 weeks ago

It's a Secret

I personally don't judge or care what baggage ppl. come with as long as their conscience can bear it.

Nobody knows the true reasons why ppl. are on here.

But I would welcome honesty about others' situation. No need for details unless wanting to share.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *olyGlamorousWoman
22 weeks ago

Altrincham


"I am a married guy on here without his wife’s knowledge, this seems to be frowned upon by other women, are there any women who are happy to chat with married guys who’s wives do t know we are on here? "

Me! 😁

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *olyGlamorousWoman
22 weeks ago

Altrincham


"Being honest about being married will massively reduce your chances of meets with Women, probably not as much with Men but people still meet attached Men/Women but they're not as vocal about it "

Not true

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oodmessMan
22 weeks ago

yumsville


"If you're only looking to chat, why say you're married and your partner doesn't know. Might as well say say you're into everything and get the chat you want.

Terrible advice but a great example of why single m get the responses or lack off responses they do 1 because 80% of single m on fab wouldn't know the truth if it bit them in the balls and 2 the same 80% think if they say they are into anything and everything you'll tell them what you want and they can agree with it as if it was just meant to be without realising what those words actually imply they are into "

Sorry, only just seen your reply.. I might have taken his OP too literally that he just wanted to chat and doesn't intend to meet. There are people on here to chat, flirt, cyber or have some kind of online thing.. telling people details about your situation seemed a bit pointless

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ab FunstersCouple
22 weeks ago

Midlands

We find posts like this to be a great filter.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"Yes. You will find quite a few, some wives who are cheating themselves prefer to meet married cheating men. The majority however, will keep it off the forums and hunt in fab away from judgement.

Theres something for everyone on here."

Few and far between!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago


"I am a married guy on here without his wife’s knowledge, this seems to be frowned upon by other women, are there any women who are happy to chat with married guys who’s wives do t know we are on here?

Me! 😁 "

Excellent! Shame you’ve blocked men!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *idad6767Man
20 weeks ago

Bolton

Personally i think this is a can of worms.

Ive met women from this site that are married and in love with there partner, the two i have met just wanted a no strings few hours of sex fun.

We are all here for our own reasons, i wouldnt judge anyone being here.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *idad6767Man
20 weeks ago

Bolton

Very well said.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *olyGlamorousWoman
20 weeks ago

Altrincham


"I am a married guy on here without his wife’s knowledge, this seems to be frowned upon by other women, are there any women who are happy to chat with married guys who’s wives do t know we are on here?

Me! 😁

It was only temporary 😁

Excellent! Shame you’ve blocked men! "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rettCoolMan
20 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I don't judge anyone on hear no matter what .. we all have our reasons for being on fab

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *mogen321TV/TS
20 weeks ago

Bournemouth

On here looking for open fun, not drama.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *YDB75Man
20 weeks ago

Beverley

Interesting thread 🤔🤔

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *odd66Man
13 weeks ago

Suffolk and London

Now now....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *TYM69Man
10 weeks ago

Bradford

Hiya

Sorry for jumping on thread, but wondered if you would like to talk to me too. As not many on here are accepting of married men, playing away. We all have our personal reasons.

Hope to hear from you.

Tony

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *randMrsShebaCouple
10 weeks ago

Birmingham

There are 2 kinds of married cheaters.

1) personality disorders who use everyone in their life for their own selfish gains.

2) people who can't leave the marriage due to kids and finances with someone who has the personality disorder.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
10 weeks ago

Niche

I would only associate with someone I respect.

Señorita Vagina does not respond for those who choose poorly...

🔕🚳⛔️🚫

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top