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By *harmizard OP   Man
26 weeks ago

London

It’s no secret a lot of us of younger and mid age gents have desires for a cougars and older women.

I’m a tradesman and was recently working in a ladies house 20+ years my senior, we exchanged numbers for work reasons. Work related texts then changed to casual texts and then to a more flirtatious nature with the potential of a meet when works are complete.

I’m interested to know if many of you have met cougars/older women away from fab and apps such as tinder etc in real life, with it leading to anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Yes……long before Fab, and pre-internet days.

Nightclubs had many a cougar on the prowl, looking for the young men. I was one of those men a few times.

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By *andering_welshman2025Man
26 weeks ago

KIRKBY


"Yes……long before Fab, and pre-internet days.

Nightclubs had many a cougar on the prowl, looking for the young men. I was one of those men a few times. "

Our regular cougar hunting establishment was Flares Nightclub….you stick to the flashing multicoloured dance floor….but what a bloody place!!!

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By *BWHunterMan
26 weeks ago

London

Sounds like a dream. I do think I’d have more joy in person if the environment is right.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

26 weeks ago

East Sussex

In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.

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By *harmizard OP   Man
26 weeks ago

London


"Sounds like a dream. I do think I’d have more joy in person if the environment is right. "

It certainly builds a lot more lust when it’s organic from my experience

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By *artfordBlokeMan
26 weeks ago

Dartford

In my mid 20s I used to drive to 30-40 companies a day, the amount of female,middle aged women was extraordinary, most I saw 5 days a week for a couple of years. I had a few fun experiences with a couple of them but the most fun was their flirting, there's a lot to be said for the more experienced lady.

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By *harmizard OP   Man
26 weeks ago

London


"In my mid 20s I used to drive to 30-40 companies a day, the amount of female,middle aged women was extraordinary, most I saw 5 days a week for a couple of years. I had a few fun experiences with a couple of them but the most fun was their flirting, there's a lot to be said for the more experienced lady.

"

I bet you miss that job!

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By *artfordBlokeMan
26 weeks ago

Dartford


"In my mid 20s I used to drive to 30-40 companies a day, the amount of female,middle aged women was extraordinary, most I saw 5 days a week for a couple of years. I had a few fun experiences with a couple of them but the most fun was their flirting, there's a lot to be said for the more experienced lady.

I bet you miss that job! "

Some days, a bit, lol, it was a laugh and I met some unbelievably funny,clever, attractive women, went to some great office parties. When I started there I was promised "all the bored housewives I could eat" that statement has stuck with me for 3 and a bit decades

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By *harmizard OP   Man
26 weeks ago

London

Any vacancies? Haha

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By *artfordBlokeMan
26 weeks ago

Dartford


"Any vacancies? Haha "

Lol, I'd be reapplying myself!

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By *harmizard OP   Man
26 weeks ago

London

Haha brilliant!

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By *ife NinjaMan
26 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'. "

Roxys on a Thursday. Loved it

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
26 weeks ago

North West


"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.

Roxys on a Thursday. Loved it "

The Ritz in Manchester had a grab a granny night.

I have been approached by much younger men on nights out. They are very confident

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By *ife NinjaMan
26 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.

Roxys on a Thursday. Loved it

The Ritz in Manchester had a grab a granny night.

I have been approached by much younger men on nights out. They are very confident"

I can't see why they would

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
26 weeks ago

North West


"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.

Roxys on a Thursday. Loved it

The Ritz in Manchester had a grab a granny night.

I have been approached by much younger men on nights out. They are very confident

I can't see why they would "

I’m usually doing silly dances with friends … so always happens near the end of the night, so you know last chance saloon 🤣

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By *ony MannMan
26 weeks ago

South Newton


"It’s no secret a lot of us of younger and mid age gents have desires for a cougars and older women.

I’m a tradesman and was recently working in a ladies house 20+ years my senior, we exchanged numbers for work reasons. Work related texts then changed to casual texts and then to a more flirtatious nature with the potential of a meet when works are complete.

I’m interested to know if many of you have met cougars/older women away from fab and apps such as tinder etc in real life, with it leading to anything?

"

If you like her, and no one is going to get hurt, have the meet.

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By *ife NinjaMan
26 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.

Roxys on a Thursday. Loved it

The Ritz in Manchester had a grab a granny night.

I have been approached by much younger men on nights out. They are very confident

I can't see why they would

I’m usually doing silly dances with friends … so always happens near the end of the night, so you know last chance saloon 🤣"

Come into my saloon. The chair is ready, the chat is cheesy and the drinks on me

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By *harmizard OP   Man
26 weeks ago

London


"It’s no secret a lot of us of younger and mid age gents have desires for a cougars and older women.

I’m a tradesman and was recently working in a ladies house 20+ years my senior, we exchanged numbers for work reasons. Work related texts then changed to casual texts and then to a more flirtatious nature with the potential of a meet when works are complete.

I’m interested to know if many of you have met cougars/older women away from fab and apps such as tinder etc in real life, with it leading to anything?

If you like her, and no one is going to get hurt, have the meet."

My thoughts exactly!

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By *ansoffateMan
26 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'. "

I was a glass collector at the 'grab a granny' night. It was literally called that, there wasn't a neon sign or anything but that's what everyone called it.

Most in there were my mates mum's, they may have been grannys too I guess.

My memories are lipstick smeared glasses filled with cigarettes, being groped multiple times a night and developing a trauma response to various 70s/80s disco songs.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

26 weeks ago

East Sussex


"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.

I was a glass collector at the 'grab a granny' night. It was literally called that, there wasn't a neon sign or anything but that's what everyone called it.

Most in there were my mates mum's, they may have been grannys too I guess.

My memories are lipstick smeared glasses filled with cigarettes, being groped multiple times a night and developing a trauma response to various 70s/80s disco songs.

"

Yeah I wasn't joking.

Those women were old enough to know better but sadly didn't

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By *harmizard OP   Man
26 weeks ago

London


"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.

I was a glass collector at the 'grab a granny' night. It was literally called that, there wasn't a neon sign or anything but that's what everyone called it.

Most in there were my mates mum's, they may have been grannys too I guess.

My memories are lipstick smeared glasses filled with cigarettes, being groped multiple times a night and developing a trauma response to various 70s/80s disco songs.

Yeah I wasn't joking.

Those women were old enough to know better but sadly didn't"

Wow, they need to bring this back

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By *ornycougaWoman
26 weeks ago

WHEREVER I LAY MY HAT


"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'. "

This. They were far less glamorous back when I was young tho. When I was young they mainly came with mobility scooters and shopping trolleys!

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By *ansoffateMan
26 weeks ago

Sagittarius A


"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.

I was a glass collector at the 'grab a granny' night. It was literally called that, there wasn't a neon sign or anything but that's what everyone called it.

Most in there were my mates mum's, they may have been grannys too I guess.

My memories are lipstick smeared glasses filled with cigarettes, being groped multiple times a night and developing a trauma response to various 70s/80s disco songs.

Yeah I wasn't joking.

Those women were old enough to know better but sadly didn't"

Yeah it's not a pleasant experience going to work at 14 wondering how many times you will get sexually assaulted to Dancing Queen tonight. No minimum wage then either so the money was awful too.

They were just 'having fun' though and it's 'part of the job'.

I did cry a few times at first thinking I've just been assaulted, publicly humiliated by you in front of your friends, people who I know, whilst they laugh and now I am having to clean your lippy off your glass and pick out your stinking mess of ciggie butts, which smells almost as bad as your breath.

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By *harmizard OP   Man
26 weeks ago

London


"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.

This. They were far less glamorous back when I was young tho. When I was young they mainly came with mobility scooters and shopping trolleys! "

Haha brilliant!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

26 weeks ago

East Sussex


"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.

I was a glass collector at the 'grab a granny' night. It was literally called that, there wasn't a neon sign or anything but that's what everyone called it.

Most in there were my mates mum's, they may have been grannys too I guess.

My memories are lipstick smeared glasses filled with cigarettes, being groped multiple times a night and developing a trauma response to various 70s/80s disco songs.

Yeah I wasn't joking.

Those women were old enough to know better but sadly didn't

Yeah it's not a pleasant experience going to work at 14 wondering how many times you will get sexually assaulted to Dancing Queen tonight. No minimum wage then either so the money was awful too.

They were just 'having fun' though and it's 'part of the job'.

I did cry a few times at first thinking I've just been assaulted, publicly humiliated by you in front of your friends, people who I know, whilst they laugh and now I am having to clean your lippy off your glass and pick out your stinking mess of ciggie butts, which smells almost as bad as your breath."

Gross and inexcusable.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

26 weeks ago

East Sussex


"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.

I was a glass collector at the 'grab a granny' night. It was literally called that, there wasn't a neon sign or anything but that's what everyone called it.

Most in there were my mates mum's, they may have been grannys too I guess.

My memories are lipstick smeared glasses filled with cigarettes, being groped multiple times a night and developing a trauma response to various 70s/80s disco songs.

Yeah I wasn't joking.

Those women were old enough to know better but sadly didn't

Wow, they need to bring this back "

They really don't

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By *harmizard OP   Man
26 weeks ago

London


"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.

I was a glass collector at the 'grab a granny' night. It was literally called that, there wasn't a neon sign or anything but that's what everyone called it.

Most in there were my mates mum's, they may have been grannys too I guess.

My memories are lipstick smeared glasses filled with cigarettes, being groped multiple times a night and developing a trauma response to various 70s/80s disco songs.

Yeah I wasn't joking.

Those women were old enough to know better but sadly didn't

Wow, they need to bring this back

They really don't "

Not the non consensual ofc, I’m referring to the nights specific for younger men and older women

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By *oeBeansMan
26 weeks ago

Derby

Not in real life, but I'm making notes 👀

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

26 weeks ago

East Sussex


"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.

I was a glass collector at the 'grab a granny' night. It was literally called that, there wasn't a neon sign or anything but that's what everyone called it.

Most in there were my mates mum's, they may have been grannys too I guess.

My memories are lipstick smeared glasses filled with cigarettes, being groped multiple times a night and developing a trauma response to various 70s/80s disco songs.

Yeah I wasn't joking.

Those women were old enough to know better but sadly didn't

Wow, they need to bring this back

They really don't

Not the non consensual ofc, I’m referring to the nights specific for younger men and older women "

Cubs and cougars nights at clubs

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By *harmizard OP   Man
26 weeks ago

London


"Not in real life, but I'm making notes 👀"

Good man!

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By *weetiepie99Woman
26 weeks ago

cardiff


"It’s no secret a lot of us of younger and mid age gents have desires for a cougars and older women.

I’m a tradesman and was recently working in a ladies house 20+ years my senior, we exchanged numbers for work reasons. Work related texts then changed to casual texts and then to a more flirtatious nature with the potential of a meet when works are complete.

I’m interested to know if many of you have met cougars/older women away from fab and apps such as tinder etc in real life, with it leading to anything?

"

I hate the term 'cougar', it's just , but to answer your question, I've met men younger than me away from here on more mainstream apps which has resulted in 'dating' and more

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By *isterMushroomMan
26 weeks ago

Warrington


"In my day it was called 'grab a granny night'.

Roxys on a Thursday. Loved it

The Ritz in Manchester had a grab a granny night.

I have been approached by much younger men on nights out. They are very confident"

Oh yes the Ritz on a thursday was a top night back in the day!

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By *iddle ManMan
26 weeks ago

Walsall

Yes maybe my age, but I do remember having to actually talk to people in bars and clubs to meet. Phones were a newish thing when I was hitting the scene, Nokia 3210 era.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

I met my gf on an internet chat room. It wasn’t a dating site or a kink site. She is about 20 years older than me. It all just happened and we don’t think about the age difference. We get on so well that it doesn’t play on our minds. I guess it also helps that I wasn’t looking for older and she wasn’t looking for younger so it isn’t the focus in any way in us being together

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By *oonbath89Man
26 weeks ago

radstock

One word ……Benidorm

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By *harmizard OP   Man
26 weeks ago

London


"It’s no secret a lot of us of younger and mid age gents have desires for a cougars and older women.

I’m a tradesman and was recently working in a ladies house 20+ years my senior, we exchanged numbers for work reasons. Work related texts then changed to casual texts and then to a more flirtatious nature with the potential of a meet when works are complete.

I’m interested to know if many of you have met cougars/older women away from fab and apps such as tinder etc in real life, with it leading to anything?

I hate the term 'cougar', it's just , but to answer your question, I've met men younger than me away from here on more mainstream apps which has resulted in 'dating' and more "

I

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By *nnCeeWoman
26 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

If its consensual (and legal), where's the problem with people meeting outside of their own age?

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By *harmizard OP   Man
26 weeks ago

London


"If its consensual (and legal), where's the problem with people meeting outside of their own age?"

There isn’t one

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By *harmizard OP   Man
25 weeks ago

London

Thanks to everyone for their responses

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By *arahfromwarringtonTV/TS
25 weeks ago

warrington

Northern Soul dance events. Gilf Central.

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By *spenfallsMan
25 weeks ago

Northamptonshire

There used to be a nightclub attached to the Grasshopper pub in Westerham, Kent that was locally famous for its 'Singles Nights' , which were effectively just 'Grab a Granny' type events .. To get admittance you had to join the club and have a pass... Which came with your name on, and the words 'Lifetime Membership'.... Of a singles club....?? 🤔😭😭😭

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By *ensual DesiresMan
25 weeks ago

Teesside/North Yorkshire

I worked with a lady when I was 21 she was 42. Always talking then one evening when everyone else had left grabbed me we had sex for thr first time. This would go on to happen everytime we were alone.

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By *harmizard OP   Man
24 weeks ago

London


"I worked with a lady when I was 21 she was 42. Always talking then one evening when everyone else had left grabbed me we had sex for thr first time. This would go on to happen everytime we were alone. "

That’s hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Well ive never had a cougar but one customer ask to pay in kind another was keen on playing and another became a good friend and customer.... but they all started innocent then on the slippery slope....its fun.

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By *auvignon blancMan
24 weeks ago

Wilts/Somerset

I was also a glass collector at my local night club in the late nineties, absolutely loved grab a granny nights, usually held on a Wednesday. Being groped and chatted up was regular and to be honest I looked forward to it. By the time I was promoted to the cocktail bar, I was often taking some of same ladies home each week and then having them panic about what they would explain to their husbands in the morning. Had a lot of fun. A different time for sure.

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By *harmizard OP   Man
24 weeks ago

London

Would love for some more cougars to drop into my inbox

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