FabSwingers.com forum: Lasting longer in bed

By *mithy_gavin OP Man
1 week ago

Peterborough

Hey guys can anyone give any advice I would like to last longer in bed with the mrs. Is it worth getting visgra and if so where do people get it from or do you recommend anything else at all please

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By *orquemadaMan
1 week ago

glasgow

Relax.

Don't do it.

When you want to cum.

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By *enk15Man
1 week ago

Evesham

Last longer before you cum?

Last longer before you lose the erection?

Both?

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By *exxyyDy11Man
1 week ago

North West

Relax, don't overthink it, and remember communication is key.

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By *orquemadaMan
1 week ago

glasgow

Also you can get viagra connect from boots/super drug etc without a prescription.

I've used it a few times and felt i lasted longer with it. Just watch out for the side effects obviously.

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By *enm83Man
1 week ago

Stockport

Emla cream. Normally used for tattoo removals. Works for me...only problem is it takes away the feeling.

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By *mithy_gavin OP Man
1 week ago

Peterborough

Just want to last longer before I cum no issue getting or keeping erection just after all the playing I only last a couple of minutes at best

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By *anonfire96Man
1 week ago

Mansfield

Viagra doesn't actually make you last longer in bed, it aids you getting and maintaining an erection. But if you're predisposed to premature ejaculation it won't help. As for getting hold of Viagra any chemist sells it over the counter. You just have to fill in a form. And Viagra doesn't work for everyone. I only get a raging headache when I use it . There are alternatives, if you're having problems please speak to your GP.

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By *ryton 123TV/TS
1 week ago

Chatham

Have a wank beforehand.

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
1 week ago

furnace

Communication first but sounds like you git a quick trigger something not uncommon in husbands from my experience

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By *eroLondonMan
1 week ago

Mayfair

OP, if you have concerns then please talk to your GP in the first instance. They will help and refer you accordingly. 🩶

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By *enk15Man
1 week ago

Evesham

"Just want to last longer before I cum no issue getting or keeping erection just after all the playing I only last a couple of minutes at best "

Can you go again after cumming? switch to doing something else (hands/mouth/toys) to have a slight break, then back at it.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
1 week ago

Ilfracombe

You could try the technique of Edging it can help.

People have a tendency to think that medication is the answer to everything it's not. It can help but there are things you can try before meds.

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By *icemember7Man
1 week ago

Worcester

What worked for me is to have a wank, half an hour or so before you expect to have to perform. If its with your wife, have her suck you off to completion before sex, wait or return the favour to recover, Viagra does help to recover your hard-on quicker. Then you should find you have enough time before cumming to please your wife.

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By *ensualtongue2023Man
1 week ago

furnace

"You could try the technique of Edging it can help.

People have a tendency to think that medication is the answer to everything it's not. It can help but there are things you can try before meds. "

Electro stim

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By *ust want fun 888Man
1 week ago

nearby

"Just want to last longer before I cum no issue getting or keeping erection just after all the playing I only last a couple of minutes at best "

There are some wipes that I purchased from Amazon, different brands but basically the same, they are called delay wipes which definitely make you last longer but only problem is, you wipe it around the head of your cock but may also numbe the woman/man you are a fucking Because it temporarily takes the sensation away, but they have worked for me and you do come as normal

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By *adbod2godbodMan
1 week ago

Manchester

If you're getting close, pull out for a minute or two and go down on her till she cums or your urge to cum subsides.

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

It depends on what you are comparing too. If it's because you're watching porn and they seem to be lasting forever, remember that it's not a realistic view of sex and most men don't last that long when it comes to pure penetration. If you want the sex to last longer in general, focus more on the foreplay before getting into the actual sex bit.

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By *ony MannMan
1 week ago

Lagos, Portugal/ Ilfracombe Devon/ Anoover

Concentrate on your wife's pleasure and don't worry about how fast you come. Something I have discovered is the more the woman enjoys the longer I last, it sounds backwards but that is what I have found.

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By *ony MannMan
1 week ago

Lagos, Portugal/ Ilfracombe Devon/ Anoover

"It depends on what you are comparing too. If it's because you're watching porn and they seem to be lasting forever, remember that it's not a realistic view of sex and most men don't last that long when it comes to pure penetration. If you want the sex to last longer in general, focus more on the foreplay before getting into the actual sex bit."

Porn is cut to make it look like it is forever. I know a pornstar who tells me she does not enjoy it much, real sex is far more fun.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
1 week ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Listen to a gay 😵‍💫 tape. Just turn it off before you go full ghey.

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By *limlineMan
1 week ago

sheffield

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By *limlineMan
1 week ago

sheffield

Practice staving it off when you jerk off

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By *tps76Man
1 week ago

WSM

Slow down at times, the main thing is try and relax and don’t stress about it. If it’s on your mind you won’t enjoy yourself as much and may make it worse. Talk to your partner about it and slowly try to improve by relaxing.

A lot of the things we do that affect us start in the mind and can make it worse.

There’s more and more research that shows cognitive thoughts etc do have quite a big effect on us, control your mind and that may help. Obviously there are somethings that may help but try a little of each and think positive it will get better in time. Enjoy the practice and involve your partner 😀😀

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By *orryless_IndulgeMoreMan
1 week ago

his batcave, South West

Have a cups of brandy to numb the nerves a few cups of brandy to numb the snake before you shake the house down

I’m joking! Well kind of, just take your time and enjoy the moment.

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By *end1Man
1 week ago

southend on sea

Hey op just picture Donald Trump sitting naked apart from Ivana's panties n eating a greasy kebab 😂

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